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MsMBV
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
OK, lets expand the what ifs:
What if:
They (along with other coworkers) went to happy hour together often.
She occassionally calls him on his cell phone to say hi.
She is single
He is honest to you about the whole thing.
OOH the cell phone thing would set me off. When he is not at work he is with me. She has no right to infringe upon my time with him.
DH had a woman (Waaaaay older) try to do this to him when he first started working at his job. She would call him once a day after work just to say *hi*. Eventually I figured out that she was trying to see what times we were together and all that so that she could just *casually* run into him somewhere when I was not there. Well this was before we were married so I kind of let it go. Finally one day my BIL told me he saw her driving down their block (it is in a cul de sac - type thing, so she had to turn around). That was it. Next time they got together for a HH, I showed up & she flipped. That was the last time she called or tried anything.
He also had another woman (yeah he is a cutie) try to arrange a HH but it ended up just being the 2 of them at the bar. He left & called me right away - he was afraid I'd find out & kick her a$$.
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jennandrob
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Re: Would it bother you
it would bother me
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baghag
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
OK, lets expand the what ifs:
What if:
They (along with other coworkers) went to happy hour together often.
She occassionally calls him on his cell phone to say hi.
She is single
He is honest to you about the whole thing.
I don't think you can do anything about the happy hour thing. As long as it is with a group from work.
I'd start answering his cell phone. Really giggly and our of breath. "He'll have to call you, ahhhh.... when we're done". 
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MsMBV
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by baghag
Posted by Diva
OK, lets expand the what ifs:
What if:
They (along with other coworkers) went to happy hour together often.
She occassionally calls him on his cell phone to say hi.
She is single
He is honest to you about the whole thing.
I don't think you can do anything about the happy hour thing. As long as it is with a group from work.
I'd start answering his cell phone. Really giggly and our of breath. "He'll have to call you, ahhhh.... when we're done".
NICE!
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
OK, lets expand the what ifs:
What if:
They (along with other coworkers) went to happy hour together often.
She occassionally calls him on his cell phone to say hi.
She is single
He is honest to you about the whole thing.
 Totally trust my DH and even with him telling me everything...She should know her boundries!
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Pumpkin
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
If you knew you husband was friends with a co-worker who obviously has a crush on him?
Have you and her met?
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Diva
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Aliasmom
it would bother me even more because it seems it's not only an office relationship but she is also calling him outside of the office.
like I said you should trust your husband, but that's just a very sticky situation.
Dont get me wrong. I'm not in this situation. A good friend of mine is. She asked me and I told her there was NO WAY I would be cool with this. Knowing my hot temper, I would have all ready confronted the hussie.
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Tany
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
Posted by Aliasmom
it would bother me even more because it seems it's not only an office relationship but she is also calling him outside of the office.
like I said you should trust your husband, but that's just a very sticky situation.
Dont get me wrong. I'm not in this situation. A good friend of mine is. She asked me and I told her there was NO WAY I would be cool with this. Knowing my hot temper, I would have all ready confronted the hussie.
okay good.
yeah they better know not to mess with our man.
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Diva
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Pumpkin
Have you and her met?
Yes they have met. I was there on one occassion and the girl was very rude to my friend. I offered to jump her, but she didnt take me up on my offer. 
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Emily
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Re: Would it bother you
If any other woman besides his mother called his gf that would be it....I would fly off the handle. I have been known to throw things for much lesser of an offense.
Eeeeek dont confront the hussie..if you are locked up in Hempstead (or the Suffolk equivalent) that won't help the situation!!
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baghag
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
Yes they have met. I was there on one occassion and the girl was very rude to my friend. I offered to jump her, but she didnt take me up on my offer.
The rudeness takes the cake. I vote you jump her anyway.
ETA: I will bail you out. This is a good cause.
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Pumpkin
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Re: Would it bother you
you are funny!
Well the girl has no respect for your friend. People get crushes it happens but to be blantanly disrespectful to the persons wife is just wrong.
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Emily
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by baghag
Posted by Diva
Yes they have met. I was there on one occassion and the girl was very rude to my friend. I offered to jump her, but she didnt take me up on my offer.
The rudeness takes the cake. I vote you jump her anyway.
ETA: I will bail you out. This is a good cause.
Omg dont encourage her going to jail....there is no internet in jail, that means no LIF!! 
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Re: Would it bother you
ummm YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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baghag
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Re: Would it bother you
Ok, a serious answer. I think it is up to her DH to call the woman out on her attitude. Something along the lines of, I don't appreciate the way you talk to my wife and if it continues our friendship is over. If it comes from the wife, she will probably ignore it.
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Yes! I would make that clear that thats not acceptable. I dont care - no ifs ands or buts, NOTHING!
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tray831
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Re: Would it bother you
I know this is bad, but it would bother me ONLY if she was pretty. Thats so horrible!
But its the truth!
 
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Pumpkin
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Re: Would it bother you
I think it is on the husband now to tell this chic enough already, you are being inapporiate.
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SoinLove
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Aliasmom
definitely, but not because I didn't trust him but more because I don't trust a woman that already has a crush.
I agree
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pmpkn087
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Re: Would it bother you
Friends...like hang out outside of work, yes that would bother me.
Friends...like run out for lunch then go back to their own desk or chat about co-workers, not that would not bother me.
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Diva
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by baghag
Ok, a serious answer. I think it is up to her DH to call the woman out on her attitude. Something along the lines of, I don't appreciate the way you talk to my wife and if it continues our friendship is over. If it comes from the wife, she will probably ignore it.
It was more like she gave her the "Oh hi  " and went back to her conversation with the husband. Didnt look at her or even acknowledge her presence during the entire conversation. 
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lululu
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Re: Would it bother you
I do not think i would allow my FH to speak to any other woman (outside of family or friends he has had for years) on the phone on a regular basis. To me, that is just playing with fire.... This does not sound like a good situation for your friend.
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bellaro
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Re: Would it bother you
Yessssssss... I mean I would trust him 100% But, it would still Bother me ..
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MrsBlueSash
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Re: Would it bother you
The occasional call to hi would be what bothered me, that seems a little like crossing the line. If the tables were turned and I had a guy calling me once in awhile just to say hi that I knew liked me that would be weird and I know DH would not like it and I would make it stop.
Eww, just read the attitude part. The husband should really do something to change that! I know mine would be putting his arm around me the entire conversation!
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CaseyGirl
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Re: Would it bother you
simple answer, yes
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