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dpli
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Re: Would it bother you
I trust my husband and would let him know how much I appreciate the honesty. I would be annoyed with him for giving her the cell phone #, but you can't unring the bell on that one. I would ask him out of respect to me not to answer her cell calls (don't all the phones have caller ID?) and keep the happy hour outings to ones where a group is involved.
At all costs, I would avoid making myself look like the crazy jealous wife, but I would be clear with him that he needs to keep and set boundaries with this person because she obviously has no respect for your friend or their relationship.
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leese
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Re: Would it bother you
ETA: I'm updating cause I saw the further explanations...
The happy hour thing with coworkers is fine with me - but if they went alone, yeah, that would be bad.
The cellphone thing - yeah, she really needs not to do that.
He's honest, well - that's a good thing.
I would tell him how you feel and be hoenst right back!
Message edited 7/14/2006 2:55:13 PM.
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| Posted 7/14/06 2:53 PM |
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jenny
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Re: Would it bother you
I would need to know all the info but I am sure it would get to me.
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| Posted 7/14/06 3:29 PM |
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J9-13
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by WoodIAm
Oh Yes! I trust him, but some woman just don't care if a guy is married.
Ditto!
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| Posted 7/14/06 3:32 PM |
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Stacey1403
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
Posted by baghag
Ok, a serious answer. I think it is up to her DH to call the woman out on her attitude. Something along the lines of, I don't appreciate the way you talk to my wife and if it continues our friendship is over. If it comes from the wife, she will probably ignore it.
It was more like she gave her the "Oh hi  " and went back to her conversation with the husband. Didnt look at her or even acknowledge her presence during the entire conversation. 
How did her husband react to this. Depending on his reaction I would decide to be p*ssed or not!
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| Posted 7/14/06 3:40 PM |
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st
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Re: Would it bother you
As long as the person is acting appropriately, I would have no problem with it what so ever provided the relationship stayed within work related activities (includes happy hour). Calls over the weekend to say Hi or what have you would annoy me.
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| Posted 7/14/06 3:46 PM |
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Heather617
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Re: Would it bother you
It definitely would bother me.
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| Posted 7/14/06 3:48 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
If you knew you husband was friends with a co-worker who obviously has a crush on him?
YES!
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| Posted 7/14/06 4:05 PM |
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Baboots
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Aliasmom
definitely, but not because I didn't trust him but more because I don't trust a woman that already has a crush.
I couldn't agree more with this...some girls don't stop till they get what they want...this happened to my best friend and he cheated on my best friend with this crush...now 5 years later, the crush and boyfriend are now married with a baby, crazy 
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| Posted 7/14/06 4:39 PM |
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moonlithaze
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Re: Would it bother you
Yes
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dm24angel
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Re: Would it bother you
yes I would be slightly bothered!
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| Posted 7/14/06 9:39 PM |
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