WWYD - Related to Cycle Timing

I was suppose to start an IVF cycle with my next period (which started today). But due to some additional tests that I have to have done, it is being pushed back to my next period. My issues with this is, that I am a MOH for my friend whose wedding is July 10th. If I go ahead with my IVF cycle and it is successful then there is the chance that I would 1)be due any day around the weddng, 2)had just had the baby within a week or so of the wedding or 3)possible have the baby on the wedding date.

What would you do in this situation?
TYIA for your opinions and advice.

Edited to add: We have already had to postpone our IVF cycle twice, so this would be the third time.

Message edited 8/25/2009 3:58:26 PM.

Re: WWYD - Related to Cycle Timing

That stinks!

But you do what you have to do! (and tell the bride ASAP). Even if you postpone 1 month... it doesn't mean that you would be def be able to go to the wedding (you may be on bed-rest or have baby early).

Re: WWYD - Related to Cycle Timing

For me personally, I would not postpone. But that's just me. My getting pregnant takes precidence over anything else.