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Take the whole family on my work travel 2 11.76%
Take the baby and my DH and leave my 8 year old w/ grandparents 7 41.18%
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WWYD-going back to work and traveling w/infant

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BeachMom
Love my 4 kiddos!

Member since 11/08

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Kristie

WWYD-going back to work and traveling w/infant

So I got the dreaded phone call yesterday from my job. I'm scheduled to go back to work September 1(My DD will be 3 months old).
So here's the dilema- I found out that i have to travel for work to Chicago for 2 weeks in mid september. I don't think i could leave my 3 month old and my 8 year old will be in school so i dont think that i could take her out of school for 2 weeks.

Posted 7/30/09 4:03 AM
 

MrsO
Big Brothers to Be

Member since 1/07

4521 total posts

Name:
Maureen

Re: WWYD-going back to work and traveling w/infant

Is there anyway you could forgo the trip - it doesn't seem right to have to go away for 2 wks after going right back to work.
What would they say if you are ebf?

Posted 7/30/09 7:50 AM
 

JenBenMen
party of five

Member since 9/06

11343 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: WWYD-going back to work and traveling w/infant

I went back to work in Oct 2007 and took a week long trip to Chicago in Jan 2008. It was hard but I knew DS was in good hands with my in-laws and I enjoyed sleeping lol

Posted 7/30/09 8:21 AM
 

InShock
life is good

Member since 10/06

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Re: WWYD-going back to work and traveling w/infant

Two weeks is a very long time to be away from a 3 month old and 8 year old. Is this kind of travel part of your regular work? I agree that perhaps you should see about not going on the trip altogether. Seems like a LOT to ask of you after just a few weeks back at work. But, of course, you know your job and what your expectations are, so take that with a grain of salt. Chat Icon

If you HAVE to go, I say take the baby with you. Chat Icon

Posted 7/30/09 8:32 AM
 

lovemy2boys
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Member since 10/07

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Re: WWYD-going back to work and traveling w/infant

yeah I would not be going anywhere w/ a 3 month old and I would not be leaving a 3 month old for work. Is this really necesary with such a small baby at home?

Posted 7/30/09 10:31 PM
 

browneyedgirl
family is all that matters

Member since 6/06

6513 total posts

Name:
browneyes

Re: WWYD-going back to work and traveling w/infant

i would absolutely not take an 8 year old out of school for 2 weeks, especially in september!

your situation is hard. i don't blame you for not wanting to be away from your 3 month old. i would either take the 3 month old and DH with me for a week and let them go home the second week (or stay home the first and come the second) or just go myself. i don't think i would want both parents to be away from my 8 year old, especially during the first few weeks of school, which can be very stressful for little kids.

Posted 7/31/09 9:23 AM
 
 

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