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bikramaddict
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Re: WWYD.. Invite to wedding related.
Posted by Jackie24
Well first I think that is incredibly tacky for her to be saying that in the first place! I may want to back out just for that reason. However if you do WANT to go I would give what you were planning on giving and call it a day
ITA!
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Posted 9/2/08 1:55 PM |
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4monkeys
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Re: WWYD.. Invite to wedding related.
I cant stand tacky people that want to LOOK good but there's only smoke to show for it
Im copying this from another post I responded with this story
********* this is an extreme case:
A coworker once was inviting everyone to a 30th bday she was throwing for herself at a REALLY nice restaurant. so in chatting with her, she said to a few of us "how do I tell everyone to ONLY BRING CASH, that's in the Russian tradition to do that, NO GIFTS, and also, I NEED the envelopes to pay for the party that nite, $35 each minimum" I nearly fell over.
needless to say, not one person went after this went around. She was trying to figure out a way to word this on the invite! and she was a BIG spender, obviously spending way over her head.. but somehow wanted everyone to throw her this big bash.
this just reminded me of that. ********
post I copied it from http://www.lifamilies.com/chat/topic-228886-2.html
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Posted 9/2/08 2:07 PM |
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ave1024
I Took The Wrong Road
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Re: WWYD.. Invite to wedding related.
Posted by BabySammie
You were invited to a wedding and RSVPed yes.. then you find out 2 weeks later that the bride told someone shes paying $$$ per plate and expects each guess to reimburse her for each plate.
If she didn't tell you I wouldn't really care. Give what you plan on giving. It's not your problem she booked such an expensive place.
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Posted 9/2/08 2:09 PM |
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Ophelia
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Re: WWYD.. Invite to wedding related.
I would go and give what I planned on giving before.
especially since she didn't say it to ME, but I heard it through the grape vine. it's hard to hear what is really being said through those grapes sometimes.
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Posted 9/2/08 2:12 PM |
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MarisaK
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Re: WWYD.. Invite to wedding related.
Posted by Ophelia
I would go and give what I planned on giving before.
especially since she didn't say it to ME, but I heard it through the grape vine. it's hard to hear what is really being said through those grapes sometimes.
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Posted 9/2/08 2:52 PM |
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NASP09
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Message edited 3/26/2010 8:48:02 PM.
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Posted 9/2/08 2:54 PM |
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Re: WWYD.. Invite to wedding related.
Posted by BabySammie
Posted by MrsERod
how close are you with this bride?
Not close, coworker but dont see each other that much b/c we move around to places and im part time now.
Honestly, given that you're not close with her, I'd somehow back out. She should be ashamed of herself!
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Posted 9/2/08 3:03 PM |
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