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You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

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JP826
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You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

I scheduled a delivery pickup for 3 huge bags of clothes / shoes I was donating to the Ovarian Cancer Research fund & put it outside of my door 2 days ago. My MIL asks me what it was for & I told her specifically why they were there.

This morning the guys from the fund come to pick up the bags and knocked on my door. The bags they came to pick up were gone.

So here I am cursing everyone in the neighborhood out, thinking that some idiot took these bags that were clearly marked "OVARIAN RESEARCH FUND DONATION"

I call my DH and asked him if he accidentally threw them out. He said no. He called his mother to find out if she knew what happened to them (She lives 2 houses down). Turns out, she took the bags.. sorted everything out & gave most of the stuff to one of her girlfriends. WHat pisses me off the most is that the woman she gave these clothes to has money coming out of her a$$ & dont need them.

Now you tell me if I'm crazy to get mad.
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Message edited 12/3/2008 1:40:33 PM.

Posted 12/3/08 11:09 AM
 
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MrsRbk
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

I'd be livid!

Posted 12/3/08 11:11 AM
 

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I would be LIVID. Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:11 AM
 

Chrisnamy
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

oh my!

What and why would she do that?

Posted 12/3/08 11:11 AM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

I would go apeshit

seriously, I would go nuts.

I would treat her with the same level of "respect" she treated me, and ask her if she had lost her effing mind.

I cannot even comprehend of my MIL doing something like that. if I bring ANYTHING home, she won't eat it, touch it, breath on it unless I invite her to.

yours crossed so many lines it is mindblowing. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:12 AM
 

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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

that is freaking terrible. i cannot believe that she did that.

Posted 12/3/08 11:12 AM
 

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The nerve!!!!!!!

I'd be fuming!

Posted 12/3/08 11:12 AM
 

Lisa
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

I would be beyond ****** if my mother or MIL did that. Who is she to take your stuff off of your steps and give them to someone else!!

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Posted 12/3/08 11:12 AM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

Posted by Lisa

I would be beyond ****** if my mother or MIL did that. Who is she to take your stuff off of your steps and give them to someone else!!

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not only that...but basically STEALING from cancer patients.

there is a spot waiting on level 3 for her.

Posted 12/3/08 11:13 AM
 

JP826
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

okay.. Based on all of these responses.. you all confirmed that I am not going out of my mind. Thank you.

Here I am thinking its PMS... Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:14 AM
 

J9-13
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

WOW!! All I can say is WOW!!Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:15 AM
 

NinaLemon
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

Wow, that is wrong. I'd be really upset too.

Posted 12/3/08 11:15 AM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

i actually gasped out loud when i read that! i am usually the most respectful person in the world but i would have no problem ripping her apart

actually, if you don't want to - i could come do it! Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:16 AM
 

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Chat Icon Chat Icon I would be furious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 12/3/08 11:17 AM
 

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Wow, that's messed up! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:17 AM
 

GioiaMia
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please confront her, videotape it and get back to us Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:17 AM
 

julybride0706
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

wow...i can't believe she did that. and without asking you Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:18 AM
 

J9-13
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Posted by Tilde

please confront her, videotape it and get back to us Chat Icon



I swear....you crack me up! Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:19 AM
 

MissingLI
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

That is beyond ballsy. Any way you can tell her to get the things back from the friend? Or go to the friend directly to retrieve the items. Awful. Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:20 AM
 

seaside
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

Posted by Ophelia

Posted by Lisa

I would be beyond ****** if my mother or MIL did that. Who is she to take your stuff off of your steps and give them to someone else!!

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not only that...but basically STEALING from cancer patients.

there is a spot waiting on level 3 for her.



ITA. Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:21 AM
 

JP826
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

Posted by Tilde

please confront her, videotape it and get back to us Chat Icon



I would love to, but I am the most unconfrontational people you will ever meet. I ripped DH a new a$$hole though. Boy did he hear it from me!

Posted 12/3/08 11:21 AM
 

LisaW
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?

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LIVID!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:23 AM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

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Posted by SIBride06

Posted by Tilde

please confront her, videotape it and get back to us Chat Icon



I would love to, but I am the most unconfrontational people you will ever meet. I ripped DH a new a$$hole though. Boy did he hear it from me!



I was just thinking that.

you are so sweet and kind...i can't imagine you telling her off.

your dh should though!!!

he should have HER call the foundation and explain what happened to their donations! Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:23 AM
 

DirtyBlonde
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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

DH should make her go to her friend to get the clothes back since she stole it from cancer patients.

Posted 12/3/08 11:24 AM
 

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Re: You know.. I try to do a good deed and this is what I get.....

Posted by Tilde

i actually gasped out loud when i read that!



So did I.

I can't even imagine!

I would be beyond ticked off.

But my one question to you - if you don't mind, how did your DH react to her when she said she took the bags?? Chat Icon

I think I would also be telling her and her friend that they should be donating money to this cause for the holidays Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 11:26 AM
 
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