Re: Losing a baby at 27 weeks

i'm so sorry

Re: Losing a baby at 27 weeks

I'm so sorry

Re: Losing a baby at 27 weeks

oh no thats terrible! my prayers to your brother and SIL!

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Sorry to hear about that.

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Re: Losing a baby at 27 weeks

I'm so sorry

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I'm so incredibly sorry Many prayers that your brother and SIL are able to get through this tough time

Re: Losing a baby at 27 weeks

OMG THAT IS SOOO SAD!! I give my prayer to u and your family

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I'm so sorry for you brother and his wife....losing a child is the most difficult thing that any person could possibly experience

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Posted by lmnscc

Posted by Cakes

I HATE HATE HATE hearing posts like this. It makes me ill. Then to see that the poster has such few posts.... it makes me think.. NOT that you are a fakie or anything. It just makes me think if someone would actually tell a story like that to makes other preggers nervous.

I am sooooooooo sorry for you whole family!!!!! I can't even imagine what your brother and SIL are feeling right now. Many prayers out to them!!!! So so sad!!!!!!

Note to other preggers......

Please don't let sad stories liek this effect you. I know it's easier said than done. But try!

Are you serious? Just because people haven't responded to her post makes you question the validity of it????
Also, she is not looking to scare other pregnant women, she obviously is destraut and looking for comfort. Wow!

To the OP, I am so sorry for your brother/families loss. I couldn't begin to imagine what your SIL is going through right now. It's crappy, but sometimes there just doesn't seem to be rhyme or reason to why things happen. Just be there for your brother and SIL when they need you.

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My prayers are with you and your family

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Posted by married53005

Posted by lmnscc

Posted by Cakes

I HATE HATE HATE hearing posts like this. It makes me ill. Then to see that the poster has such few posts.... it makes me think.. NOT that you are a fakie or anything. It just makes me think if someone would actually tell a story like that to makes other preggers nervous.

I am sooooooooo sorry for you whole family!!!!! I can't even imagine what your brother and SIL are feeling right now. Many prayers out to them!!!! So so sad!!!!!!

Note to other preggers......

Please don't let sad stories liek this effect you. I know it's easier said than done. But try!

Are you serious? Just because people haven't responded to her post makes you question the validity of it????
Also, she is not looking to scare other pregnant women, she obviously is destraut and looking for comfort. Wow!

To the OP, I am so sorry for your brother/families loss. I couldn't begin to imagine what your SIL is going through right now. It's crappy, but sometimes there just doesn't seem to be rhyme or reason to why things happen. Just be there for your brother and SIL when they need you.

Re: Losing a baby at 27 weeks

Oh no. I am so sorry.

Re: Losing a baby at 27 weeks

Posted by mamaA

Posted by married53005

Posted by lmnscc

Posted by Cakes

I HATE HATE HATE hearing posts like this. It makes me ill. Then to see that the poster has such few posts.... it makes me think.. NOT that you are a fakie or anything. It just makes me think if someone would actually tell a story like that to makes other preggers nervous.

I am sooooooooo sorry for you whole family!!!!! I can't even imagine what your brother and SIL are feeling right now. Many prayers out to them!!!! So so sad!!!!!!

Note to other preggers......

Please don't let sad stories liek this effect you. I know it's easier said than done. But try!

Are you serious? Just because people haven't responded to her post makes you question the validity of it????
Also, she is not looking to scare other pregnant women, she obviously is destraut and looking for comfort. Wow!

To the OP, I am so sorry for your brother/families loss. I couldn't begin to imagine what your SIL is going through right now. It's crappy, but sometimes there just doesn't seem to be rhyme or reason to why things happen. Just be there for your brother and SIL when they need you.

I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you all.

I completely agree that it was not the OP's intention to scare pregnant women. She was looking for support on a families helping families board. Dozens of people ask for prayers every day, why should this be different? I'm sorry Cakes, why would YOU ever consider that a "fake" poster would do this? I think your response was heartless and you should apologize for insinuating something like that on this thread.

Re: Losing a baby at 27 weeks

OH MY> I am so sorry. that was one of my biggest fears. and during labor I did not feel my baby at all and was panicky. I cant imagine what they are going through.

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Posted by ohbaby08

Posted by mamaA

Posted by married53005

Posted by lmnscc

Posted by Cakes

I HATE HATE HATE hearing posts like this. It makes me ill. Then to see that the poster has such few posts.... it makes me think.. NOT that you are a fakie or anything. It just makes me think if someone would actually tell a story like that to makes other preggers nervous.

I am sooooooooo sorry for you whole family!!!!! I can't even imagine what your brother and SIL are feeling right now. Many prayers out to them!!!! So so sad!!!!!!

Note to other preggers......

Please don't let sad stories liek this effect you. I know it's easier said than done. But try!

Are you serious? Just because people haven't responded to her post makes you question the validity of it????
Also, she is not looking to scare other pregnant women, she obviously is destraut and looking for comfort. Wow!

To the OP, I am so sorry for your brother/families loss. I couldn't begin to imagine what your SIL is going through right now. It's crappy, but sometimes there just doesn't seem to be rhyme or reason to why things happen. Just be there for your brother and SIL when they need you.

I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you all.

I completely agree that it was not the OP's intention to scare pregnant women. She was looking for support on a families helping families board. Dozens of people ask for prayers every day, why should this be different? I'm sorry Cakes, why would YOU ever consider that a "fake" poster would do this? I think your response was heartless and you should apologize for insinuating something like that on this thread.

She originally posted it on the Pregnancy board, which was where Cakes responded to her. The post was then moved to Families Helping Families.

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how heartbreaking. My heart goes out to them and many prayers for that little soul

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Message edited 2/26/2008 9:23:33 PM.

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Posted by stephanief

Posted by lbride

Posted by stephanief

Posted by lbride



Yikes - I have to semi-agree - the pregnancy board is NOT the place to post this at all! I'm all for being comforted, but that was an inappropiate place to seek it

I disagree...who cares where it was posted, this is real life, these things do happen. She should have gotten nothing but support...the fact that she did not is inexcusable, IMHP

Don't know the girl - but is she herself pregnant?.. if not why choose that board.. if I was pregnant and read that it would really upsetme. Obvi. LIF agrees since they moved the post...

I guess becuase is was about a pregnancy, if I was not a "regular" on this board, and just came on looking for support, I would automatically go to the pregnancy board.

I think it is silly to say "that is the wrong board" when someone comes on here looking for support

That is all irrelevant now, it is on the "right" board. Let's focus on the point of the post

someone is going through something terrible and heartbreaking, let's not compound it by critisizing the board it was posted on

Message edited 2/29/2008 3:45:07 PM.

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Nobody on the PG wants to hear about miscarriages but unfortunately they are more common than we like to admit. I have seen many women post about their miscarriages on the PG board and get support from other posters.

Re: Losing a baby at 27 weeks

I wrote my post too fast and when I went back to change it I was already quoted. I had no idea this post was still going on. I was informed last week and I was like OMG!
If I was able to edit it I would have taken out the first paragraph and kept the last 2. Other than the 1st paragraph my post was fine.

There are pg women who never have piece of mind during their pg's b/c they are so worried about stuff like this. Of course it's real life; stuff like this exists. It happens and that's why some pg women never have piece of mind until their baby is born.

I never meant to offend anyone. If the OP ever FM'ed me and told me that she was offended I would gladly apologize in a flash. But not only did she not FM me she never came back on this post to say anything. I wasn't questioning the validation of what happened to her SIL.... at the time I just had a few mixed emotions and I should have never of posted what I said OR I should have said it much differently.

For those who do know me, they know I didn't mean to be hurtful or malicious; that's not me.

I just wanted a chance to explain myself.

Thanks