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I'm really nervous and scared...
Please help talk me down a little...
Last night got together with some girlfriends for some cocktails and Sex and the City Movie Night...had too many cocktails...went home, and lets just say it was Sex and MY City...
It went further than I expected, and no protection...
I am definitely ovulating right now...
I know this was so irresponsible of me. I have a 5 month old and a 4 year old and I am DONE. I feel so bad saying this, but I really don't want to be pregnant.
It took me so long to conceive DD#2, so I feel even more guilty about it, because it's been so long since I've said I DON'T want to be pregnant...
There's a really strong chance I'm not pregnant, right???? right??? please say I'm right!!!!
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
I'd say that if you really don't want to be pregnant, you should head to the drug store and buy Plan B, if you feel comfortable taking it. That's if you REALLY think you're done with having kids. Hang in there. 
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
Your right. It is difficult to actually get pregnant...so many things have to be just right.
However, if you are freaking out about it there are those pills (I saw commercials) that you can take days after. Its not like an abortion pill or anything, it just makes conditions such that there will be no fertilization/implantation.
I would say try douching with vinegar to throw off the pH. Im no doctor but it makes sense.
I cant imagine getting pregnant right now either. good luck!
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
Posted by prncss
I'd say that if you really don't want to be pregnant, you should head to the drug store and buy Plan B, if you feel comfortable taking it. That's if you REALLY think you're done with having kids. Hang in there.
i was also going to suggest this good luck with whatever you choose
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
Posted by prncss
I'd say that if you really don't want to be pregnant, you should head to the drug store and buy Plan B, if you feel comfortable taking it. That's if you REALLY think you're done with having kids. Hang in there.
I agree with Rachel. And there is no shame in taking it, but you have to within 72 hours
ETA: You can also get it from Planned Parenthood
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
Posted by bayla
Posted by prncss
I'd say that if you really don't want to be pregnant, you should head to the drug store and buy Plan B, if you feel comfortable taking it. That's if you REALLY think you're done with having kids. Hang in there.
i was also going to suggest this good luck with whatever you choose
I was going to suggest this also, not sure of your feelings on it though.
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
Posted by cantbelieveit
Posted by bayla
Posted by prncss
I'd say that if you really don't want to be pregnant, you should head to the drug store and buy Plan B, if you feel comfortable taking it. That's if you REALLY think you're done with having kids. Hang in there.
i was also going to suggest this good luck with whatever you choose
I was going to suggest this also, not sure of your feelings on it though.
I am not ignoring the suggestion...I do appreciate it...problem is I really don't know how I feel about it...I was never ever faced with this before...
I just don't know what to do, but I have to decide soon...
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
Sorry. This just happend to me. We had one nite of very sloppy horizontal monkey dancing and whoops! I did get pregnant. I lost the baby shortly after though.
But the Plan B is a good option. It is not an "abortion" pill as many think. It just has like a higher dosage of a birth control.
Good luck to you with anything you do.
For however you want it to turn out!!
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
I have no suggestions, I'll just be thast things turn out the way you want them to
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
Posted by Summersalwaysinseason
Posted by cantbelieveit
Posted by bayla
Posted by prncss
I'd say that if you really don't want to be pregnant, you should head to the drug store and buy Plan B, if you feel comfortable taking it. That's if you REALLY think you're done with having kids. Hang in there.
i was also going to suggest this good luck with whatever you choose
I was going to suggest this also, not sure of your feelings on it though.
I am not ignoring the suggestion...I do appreciate it...problem is I really don't know how I feel about it...I was never ever faced with this before...
I just don't know what to do, but I have to decide soon...
heres some info on the plan b if you need.
plan b
like a previous poster stated its just a larger dose of birthcontrol. i have never tried it myself ( not that i wouldnt but the problem hasnt happened yet) but do have a friend that has.
ETA: You can get this at any pharmacy counter without a prescibtion
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
You can only get it at certain pharmacies. If you go on the plan b website it will tell you the pharmacies.
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| Posted 1/19/09 8:58 PM |
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thanks ladies! just keep me in your prayers (although I know this was my own doing...)
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
Posted by KateDevine
Posted by prncss
I'd say that if you really don't want to be pregnant, you should head to the drug store and buy Plan B, if you feel comfortable taking it. That's if you REALLY think you're done with having kids. Hang in there.
I agree with Rachel. And there is no shame in taking it, but you have to within 72 hours
ETA: You can also get it from Planned Parenthood
I was going to say the same. i
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Re: I'm really nervous and scared...
I went through the same thing - it turned out I stressed for nothing - and I did this more than once!!!   
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