so worried

The more I think about getting pg again the more scared I get- I have 2 misses in 18 months and after taken 6 months off from trying we are going again- and now that I am in 2ww and my mind has started racing around and driving me crazy- I am seeing a RE and a high risk OB.

But I still can't shake the felling- I am not sure that I will be able to take another loss-

I know I should feel lucky that I have a beautiful dd but I just feel that someone is missing- sorry for the rant just really have no one to talk to- we have not told family that we are ttc again-

thanks

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i wish i could give you so encouraging advice, but we just lost our 1st and I am a nervous reck about ttc again even though we are ready to go. i don't think there is anything that can make the nerves go away but positive thinking is one of the best things we can do.

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I'm sorry for your losses. It's completely understandable what you are feeling.


I had two losses in a row.

I am now almost 14 weeks along. But still scared to tell everyone. I wish I could be excited and shouting it from the rooftops but I can't.


Unfortunately m/c takes the enjoyment out of early pregnancy...

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i completely know how you feel..
and i too am so scared for the next time... just wondering if i can go full term.. i had 2 losses too.. and i just cant bare to lose another.. its so hard.. i feel your pain

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I completely understand how you feel

I have only had one loss, but I feel like the excitement and happiness of pregnancy has been forever taken away from me. I know that when I do finally get PG again, I am going to be so worried!

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I'm just barely pregnant now, and am over compensating for how nervous I am but it still doesn't help-deep down inside I can't stop myself from thinking this will end the same way. for all.

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I know exactly how you feel. I had 2 losses in a 4 month period and it was awful. I honestly don't know how I'll feel next time.

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thank you all and i am for all of us and giving up extra baby dust all around

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I hope all goes well.

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I know how you feel... I had 2 losses a month from each other and I'm so nervous about starting to try again in May

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I know exactly how you feel...
I had 2 m/c's this year and am now 7w pg and am terrified. At the same time I'm trying to keep myself calm to reduce my anxiety. The only thing I can say that has been somewhat of a relief is that before getting pg this time around I went for every test under the sun with my RE and Ob to rule out possible causes. I even went to a homeopathic dr. to try to figure things out and found I had severe food allergies and have completely changed my diet to accomodate the pregnancy.
And I'm absolutely sure to take it easy and that's hard when you have a 2 year old to run after but I've restricted how much I do.

Knowing that I have done all that I feel that I'm giving this pg the best possible chance, and the rest is in God's hands.
Oh and I pray alot...probably more than I ever have in my whole life.

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Posted by sleepie76

I'm sorry for your losses. It's completely understandable what you are feeling.


I had two losses in a row.

I am now almost 14 weeks along. But still scared to tell everyone. I wish I could be excited and shouting it from the rooftops but I can't.


Unfortunately m/c takes the enjoyment out of early pregnancy...