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Does it bother you....

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limommer
LIF Adult

Member since 2/10

1073 total posts

Name:
Meredith

Does it bother you....

When the minute people get a BFP they drop this board like a bad habit? I don't think I will be like that because you ladies on this board talked off the ledge so many times ! Ofcoarse I am happy for anyones BFP it's a blessing but it just irks me. Sorry for the bitchfest........Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/10 8:20 AM
 
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kelkel09
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Member since 6/10

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Name:
K

Re: Does it bother you....

eh i mean it doesnt really bother me that much but i do think it is nice when girls get their bfp and then come back from time to time to give us TTCers some advice.

Posted 10/26/10 8:21 AM
 

M514
Hi

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Re: Does it bother you....

Posted by letsmakeababy

eh i mean it doesnt really bother me that much but i do think it is nice when girls get their bfp and then come back from time to time to give us TTCers some advice.



i agree!

Posted 10/26/10 8:23 AM
 

BabyLoveBug143
Alyssa Rose is here!!!

Member since 9/10

3288 total posts

Name:
Jessica

Re: Does it bother you....

im still here!! i was actually to afraid to post on the pregnancy boards at first!!

i make sure i still give everyone
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cuz you all deserve it!

Posted 10/26/10 9:14 AM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

Member since 1/10

21015 total posts

Name:
Ang

Re: Does it bother you....

it didnt bother me...

but i always posted on boards that technically werent for me (i posted on the LIW newlywed board before i was a newlywed, i posted on the pregnancy board before i was pregnant, i posted on the parenting board lol)...

Posted 10/26/10 9:24 AM
 

Nik211
my little monkey<3

Member since 5/08

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Nik

Re: Does it bother you....

i board crash everywhere i go Chat Icon

i def will be sticking around for awhile!

Posted 10/26/10 9:27 AM
 

BabyHopes15
Thank you St. G for my boy PJ!

Member since 5/10

1756 total posts

Name:
Aim

Re: Does it bother you....

Posted by Nik211

i board crash everywhere i go Chat Icon

i def will be sticking around for awhile!



I just started to board crash...there are some things on there that we can all relate too! I like hanging with the same crowd...I feel like I get to know some of the girls, so I'll move when you guys move!

Posted 10/26/10 9:30 AM
 

hunnybunnyxoxo
this is what it's all about

Member since 11/07

3321 total posts

Name:
Lisa

Re: Does it bother you....

I guess i miss the familiar names but i dont get ******...

i also think that once you get your bfp, you dont want to go parading all around the ttc boards, kwim
esp when people on here are getting bfn. personally i dont mind but maybe there are people that are sensitive to that sort of thing...

Posted 10/26/10 11:18 AM
 

MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!

Member since 7/09

4671 total posts

Name:
Christina

Re: Does it bother you....

Nah, not at all. They can't really relate anymore kwim? It is nice when they pop on from time to time to answer questions.

Posted 10/26/10 11:28 AM
 

Egg
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/09

627 total posts

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Re: Does it bother you....

Posted by MrsDeVito

Nah, not at all. They can't really relate anymore kwim? It is nice when they pop on from time to time to answer questions.



ditto

Posted 10/26/10 11:31 AM
 

JellyBear
LIF Infant

Member since 6/10

260 total posts

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Thinking positive thoughts!

Re: Does it bother you....

No because I never thought of it that way.

Besides it being a natural progression for the preggo to move on to the pregnancy board, I always thought of it more as them not wanting to parade around others who are still struggling to TTC.

Posted 10/26/10 11:51 AM
 

Shelleybean11
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Member since 12/08

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Re: Does it bother you....

When I got pg with DS, I came back to the TTC board to cheer on a few girls I connected with while TTC, or I would FM them. I felt bad answering too many posts because I felt like it was rubbing it in there faces, that I was pg.

This time around since I have been on this board since May, I have seen many posters split the second they get their BFP, and yes it is nice when they pop over once and a while, so I totally get what you are saying!

Posted 10/26/10 12:35 PM
 

FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...

Member since 1/08

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Re: Does it bother you....

im still here. i wont go to PG til i see a heartbeat. ive been through too much, i know better... not every BFP means you go home with a baby Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon .
either way i see no reason to rush off and im sure ill be here answering questions even when im (hopefully Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon ) huge and preggo!

Posted 10/26/10 12:39 PM
 

pickles16
Real Estate Professional

Member since 11/07

17227 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: Does it bother you....

I'm stil here...it took me 6 mos to conceive DD and it felt like forever, so any questions I can answer and cheer someone on I'll still do it!!!

Posted 10/26/10 1:02 PM
 

bettybcafe
Big brother in the making

Member since 7/07

8611 total posts

Name:
M

Re: Does it bother you....

Posted by Egg

Posted by MrsDeVito

Nah, not at all. They can't really relate anymore kwim? It is nice when they pop on from time to time to answer questions.



ditto



Yep, I agree. Its like the fun in this department is over and now the new fun starts in another department, which is pregnancy. Its nice to see them come on once in a while but Im not mad that they arent.

Posted 10/26/10 4:10 PM
 

springsandra
Baby girl has a baby brother!

Member since 11/09

7155 total posts

Name:
Sandra

Re: Does it bother you....

I feel really bad sometimes about responding to things, but especially for girls with long cycles and issues after going off BC, I feel like maybe I can provide hope or help. I hope no one feels like I'm rubbing it in any faces. That couldn't be farther from what I mean to do. Chat Icon I lurked on here for a while and feel like I know so many people on here, I just want to be there and help out any way I can. But if anyone feels like my being on TTC still is a problem, please let me know (maybe FM me and tell me to go away?). I never, ever want to make anyone feel bad.

Posted 10/26/10 5:16 PM
 

ostrichhh
LIF Infant

Member since 5/08

301 total posts

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Re: Does it bother you....

Posted by springsandra

I feel really bad sometimes about responding to things, but especially for girls with long cycles and issues after going off BC, I feel like maybe I can provide hope or help. I hope no one feels like I'm rubbing it in any faces. That couldn't be farther from what I mean to do. Chat Icon I lurked on here for a while and feel like I know so many people on here, I just want to be there and help out any way I can. But if anyone feels like my being on TTC still is a problem, please let me know (maybe FM me and tell me to go away?). I never, ever want to make anyone feel bad.



springsandra, i have to say i have always thought it so sweet that you respond to people's posts, especially those that deal with the long cycle nonsense. i am hoping to emulate your experience, esp bc i got my smiley on CD47.
so thanks alot!!! Chat Icon

to respond to the OP, i always think it is nice when the former TTC'ers come back to post, but i totally understand why they move onto the pregnancy board.

Posted 10/26/10 5:31 PM
 

Otherme
Square head cutie pants

Member since 3/06

6899 total posts

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Re: Does it bother you....

It doesn't bother me.. it's a natural progression to be posting more on the pregnancy board anyway

i'm not a board lurker, so for myself i wouldn't go over to pregnancy board until i'm pregnant (mainly because its too upsetting for me)
I can also understand someone not wanting to come back here and post too much for fear of offending some people that might be struggling with ttc'ing for a while. I don't see it that way, but i can understand if someone does

either way, i think anyone's experiences and advice are helpful, whether you're going through it now, or have at one time!
we're all here to help each other out right?
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Posted 10/26/10 5:44 PM
 

BeachGal
LIF Adult

Member since 2/10

2827 total posts

Name:
J

Re: Does it bother you....

I think it is nice when girls continue to post on here from time to time. I just started lurking on pregnancy but I really want to go back to the home board. We are going to do a huge renovation this spring b/c we won't have a baby to worry about. I may not be pregnant but at least i am getting a new bathroom and kitchen! Lol

Posted 10/26/10 5:49 PM
 

CatNYC123
Happy Thoughts

Member since 9/10

1531 total posts

Name:
Cathy

Re: Does it bother you....

Posted by MrsDeVito

Nah, not at all. They can't really relate anymore kwim? It is nice when they pop on from time to time to answer questions.



ITA!

Posted 10/26/10 6:22 PM
 
 

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