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lismik
LIF Infant
Member since 9/10 311 total posts
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TY card advice
so our BM (DH Brother) never gave us a wedding gift! I know i cant believe it either lol.
I am thinking of not sending him a thank you card but is this mean?
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Posted 11/7/10 7:52 AM  |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
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Ang
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Re: TY card advice
you should still send a ty... you just dont thank him for the generous gift... you thank him for being there on your special day
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| Posted 11/7/10 8:27 AM |
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missfabulous
#mommyneedswine
Member since 6/09 10031 total posts
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Colleen
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Re: TY card advice
Posted by AngnShaun
you should still send a ty... you just dont thank him for the generous gift... you thank him for being there on your special day
I agree with this. My MOH and one of our GMs didn't give a gift and we still sent TYs.
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| Posted 11/7/10 12:05 PM |
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Re: TY card advice
Yes. I had close family not even give us an empty card. Still send it and just write thank you for sharing in our special day.
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| Posted 11/8/10 3:05 PM |
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jilliibabii
Mrs. O'Connor
Member since 6/10 12821 total posts
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Jillian
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Re: TY card advice
Posted by SchizoBride09
Yes. I had close family not even give us an empty card. Still send it and just write thank you for sharing in our special day.
Agreed. We had BP members and family and friends not even give a card. Gee, thanks. 
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| Posted 11/8/10 3:29 PM |
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Mrs213
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Re: TY card advice
2 wrongs don't make a right. You must send a thank you...
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| Posted 11/14/10 10:08 AM |
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kimbalina
Bring on the glitter and bows!
Member since 6/08 15158 total posts
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Kim
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Re: TY card advice
Being in a wedding party is costly and also some what of a gift. Weddings aren't a fund raiser, no one is required to give one. It is frustrating, yes- but it happens to everyone.
Thank him for standing up to support you wedding.
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| Posted 11/20/10 9:26 PM |
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inlove10
LIF Infant
Member since 7/10 70 total posts
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Re: TY card advice
Message edited 1/10/2011 10:51:22 AM.
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| Posted 12/15/10 6:54 PM |
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Prettypit03
LIF Infant
Member since 3/08 179 total posts
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Jenn
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Re: TY card advice
My husband and I were in a wedding approximately 1 1/2 years ago, DH was BM and I was in BP. We bent over backwards for them through the engagement and wedding, DH paid for the bachelor party (out-of-state) and we gave a generous wedding gift in addition. Amost 1 1/2 years later, a baby shower invite has managed to find its way to my house, as well as the baby shower thank-you, but never a wedding thank you card. The bride is fully aware she never sent it, she said it to me,and stated it would be mailed within the week, that was in April 2010, Im still waiting.
Being in a wedding party can be very costly and wth the economy the way it is, I would be flattered that someone would be willing to take on the expense and would feel a thank-you card would be the least I could do to thank them.
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| Posted 12/15/10 10:43 PM |
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Irishgrl1017
It happened :)
Member since 9/08 1872 total posts
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Colleen
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Re: TY card advice
DH and I had this arguement, I did not want to send out thank yous to those who didnt even give us a card...let alone a gift
He said we had to thank them for coming. I refused to write them so he did....stil irritates me haha
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| Posted 12/29/10 9:17 PM |
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Nicoley89
LIF Adolescent
Member since 9/10 623 total posts
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Nicole
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Re: TY card advice
I would send a thank you... if you don't send one he will never think about it again how he didn't give you a gift... when he gets it in the mail maybe it will remind him and he will send you one.
Send it and just thank him for being there with you on your special day.
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| Posted 1/1/11 10:37 PM |
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