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scaredy-cat
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devestated -- another miscarriage
So as most of you know I am a regular poster with a new screenname for this pregnancy.... because we weren't telling anyone till 12 weeks. Turns out we don't get to do that.
I went yesterday for my routine 9 week appt. They had me going every 2 weeks or so because of my previous loss. My husband was with me -- but the dr said that they weren't going to do a sono just take blood (b/c the lab didn't run all of the blodd last time) and that was it. So he left. The dr then changed his mind and said I am going to do a sono for you but won't put it on your chart since insurance only covers so many sonos.
So we go into the sono room and I am so excited to see the baby again.... and lo and behold we have no heartbeat. We had a heartbeat at 7w2d and I shouldve been 9w2d yesterday.
It is so much harder this time since I didn't have any of the cramping or spottting like last time.... so this is 2 losses in 6 months
I have another D&C tomorrow. It looks like the baby stopped growing around 8 weeks.
The only good thing is that in a month or two I have a script to get the full blood work to do testing to see if I have an underlying issue on why I can't stay pregnant. This is 2 times that we lost the baby AFTER seeing a heartbeat
They are going to do genetic testing again -- last time we didn't have any abnormalitiies so we will see about this time. The Dr said that we don't have a fertility problem since we get pregnant fast -- both times was only 2 months of trying.
There is so much else going on in my life that I was hoping that this would be our miracle baby.
My husband has been so great -- he is my rock. I just can't believe we are both going through this again. But we both believe that we WILL get our baby eventually.
You ladies are all amazing and I hope to be back here again and stay for good.
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Posted 10/25/11 7:05 PM |
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LadyH
April Baby Girl is Here!
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I'm so sorry for your loss
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Posted 10/25/11 7:13 PM |
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LoveMyHubby605
Our April Baby is here!
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
omg i am so sorry I hope the doctor can give you guys some answers and the next one is your miracle baby
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Posted 10/25/11 7:14 PM |
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MrsSx2
Finally a MOM!
Member since 11/10 2222 total posts
Name: Valerie
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I am soooo sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you and I am soooo sorry that you're going through this again! I'll keep you in my prayers!
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Posted 10/25/11 7:15 PM |
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OaksWife
Girls Rule!
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I am so sorry for your loss
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Posted 10/25/11 7:15 PM |
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jj8182
LIF Adolescent
Member since 9/10 594 total posts
Name: J
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
i am so sorry for your loss i hope the blood tests will give you the answers you need and you will soon have your miracle baby
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Posted 10/25/11 7:16 PM |
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IrishMom77
Brothers!!
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Posted 10/25/11 7:16 PM |
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JDC112010
He's my hamball :)
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Name: Jessica
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Posted 10/25/11 7:17 PM |
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dazies827
expecting boy # 3
Member since 9/09 2522 total posts
Name: Chris
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
Im so sorry hun!!!!! I hope the doctors can give you answers this time.
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Posted 10/25/11 7:18 PM |
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luvmyReese
Hello Kitty
Member since 1/08 7542 total posts
Name: Catt
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
so sorry you and your husband are going through multiple loss's. I hope& you get the answers that will help you get the baby your wishing for. I had mc in sept and it was so painful..I give you lots of Good Luck to you.
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Posted 10/25/11 7:21 PM |
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
Member since 7/09 4671 total posts
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Posted 10/25/11 7:22 PM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
Ohhhh noooo! I cried when I read the subject line. I am so incredibly sorry!!!! I'm here if you need to talk
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Posted 10/25/11 7:24 PM |
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Shelleybean11
Mommy of 2!
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I'm so sorry for your loss
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Posted 10/25/11 7:33 PM |
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MrsW326
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
so sorry you have to go through this
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Posted 10/25/11 7:43 PM |
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Jax430
Hi!
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Name: Jackie
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand the pain of recurrent losses all too well.
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Posted 10/25/11 7:48 PM |
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KarenAnthony
Baby Girl Coming in May!!!
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
i am so very sorry. This is so not fair. My heart literally breaks for you...i'm soooo sorry. On a positive note, i know you will get that baby one day.
so so so sorry.
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Posted 10/25/11 7:53 PM |
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MrsCampos10-01-10
Jovani Edward is HERE!!!
Member since 10/10 2500 total posts
Name: Jenna
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
i am so so so sorry for your loss
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Posted 10/25/11 8:18 PM |
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MrsT809
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Posted 10/25/11 8:20 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I am so sorry for your loss
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Posted 10/25/11 8:25 PM |
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MelToddJulia
Love my Family!
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Name: Mel
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I'm so sorry!!
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Posted 10/25/11 8:40 PM |
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JavaJunkie
Someday, Somehow
Member since 6/05 5857 total posts
Name: Lois
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I'm so sorry
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Posted 10/25/11 8:43 PM |
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prunepie
LIF Adult
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Name: jennifer
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I am so sorry!
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Posted 10/25/11 8:44 PM |
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bonitachyc
big sister status may 2012!!
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Posted 10/25/11 8:59 PM |
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Melbernai
I am a lucky Momma!
Member since 7/05 15652 total posts
Name: Melissa
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. I hope that the blood work gives you some results.
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Posted 10/25/11 9:00 PM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage
I am so sorry to read this. That is just devastating.
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Posted 10/25/11 9:05 PM |
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