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scaredy-cat
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devestated -- another miscarriage

So as most of you know I am a regular poster with a new screenname for this pregnancy.... because we weren't telling anyone till 12 weeks. Turns out we don't get to do that.

I went yesterday for my routine 9 week appt. They had me going every 2 weeks or so because of my previous loss. My husband was with me -- but the dr said that they weren't going to do a sono just take blood (b/c the lab didn't run all of the blodd last time) and that was it. So he left. The dr then changed his mind and said I am going to do a sono for you but won't put it on your chart since insurance only covers so many sonos.

So we go into the sono room and I am so excited to see the baby again.... and lo and behold we have no heartbeat. We had a heartbeat at 7w2d and I shouldve been 9w2d yesterday.

It is so much harder this time since I didn't have any of the cramping or spottting like last time.... so this is 2 losses in 6 months Chat Icon

I have another D&C tomorrow. It looks like the baby stopped growing around 8 weeks.

The only good thing is that in a month or two I have a script to get the full blood work to do testing to see if I have an underlying issue on why I can't stay pregnant. This is 2 times that we lost the baby AFTER seeing a heartbeat Chat Icon

They are going to do genetic testing again -- last time we didn't have any abnormalitiies so we will see about this time. The Dr said that we don't have a fertility problem since we get pregnant fast -- both times was only 2 months of trying.

There is so much else going on in my life that I was hoping that this would be our miracle baby.Chat Icon

My husband has been so great -- he is my rock. I just can't believe we are both going through this again. But we both believe that we WILL get our baby eventually.

You ladies are all amazing and I hope to be back here again and stay for good.

Posted 10/25/11 7:05 PM
 
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LadyH
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm so sorry for your loss

Posted 10/25/11 7:13 PM
 

LoveMyHubby605
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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon omg i am so sorry Chat Icon I hope the doctor can give you guys some answers and the next one is your miracle baby Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 7:14 PM
 

MrsSx2
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I am soooo sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you and I am soooo sorry that you're going through this again! I'll keep you in my prayers! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 7:15 PM
 

OaksWife
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

I am so sorry for your loss Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 7:15 PM
 

jj8182
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

i am so sorry for your loss Chat Icon i hope the blood tests will give you the answers you need and you will soon have your miracle baby Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 7:16 PM
 

IrishMom77
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Posted 10/25/11 7:16 PM
 

JDC112010
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

Posted 10/25/11 7:17 PM
 

dazies827
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

Im so sorry hun!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope the doctors can give you answers this time.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 7:18 PM
 

luvmyReese
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

Chat Icon so sorry you and your husband are going through multiple loss's. I hope& Chat Icon
you get the answers that will help you get the baby your wishing for.
I had mc in sept and it was so painful..I give you lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
Good Luck to you.

Posted 10/25/11 7:21 PM
 

MrsDeVito
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

I am so sorry for your loss.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 7:22 PM
 

StaceyWill
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

Ohhhh noooo! I cried when I read the subject line. I am so incredibly sorry!!!! I'm here if you need to talk Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 7:24 PM
 

Shelleybean11
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Posted 10/25/11 7:33 PM
 

MrsW326
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

so sorry you have to go through this Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 7:43 PM
 

Jax430
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand the pain of recurrent losses all too well. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 7:48 PM
 

KarenAnthony
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

i am so very sorry. This is so not fair. My heart literally breaks for you...i'm soooo sorry.
On a positive note, i know you will get that baby one day.

so so so sorry.

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Posted 10/25/11 7:53 PM
 

MrsCampos10-01-10
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

i am so so so sorry for your lossChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 8:18 PM
 

MrsT809
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Posted 10/25/11 8:20 PM
 

autumn
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

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Posted 10/25/11 8:25 PM
 

MelToddJulia
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Posted 10/25/11 8:40 PM
 

JavaJunkie
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

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Posted 10/25/11 8:43 PM
 

prunepie
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

I am so sorry!

Posted 10/25/11 8:44 PM
 

bonitachyc
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Posted 10/25/11 8:59 PM
 

Melbernai
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. I hope that the blood work gives you some results. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 9:00 PM
 

Diana1215
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Re: devestated -- another miscarriage

I am so sorry to read this. That is just devastating.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/11 9:05 PM
 
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