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Two godparents of the same sex...?

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Mago
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Two godparents of the same sex...?

Possible? Most likely the answer is no, but curious if anyone's ever heard of it and what Catholic parish has done it if it exists.

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Posted 2/29/16 5:28 PM
 
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Hofstra26
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Re: Two godparents of the same sex...?

I could be wrong but as far as I know, th Catholic church won't allow that. We had to choose a godFATHER and godMOTHER, I don't think they will allow you to do it any other way.

Posted 2/29/16 5:45 PM
 

OhBoyorGirl
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Re: Two godparents of the same sex...?

Posted by Hofstra26

I could be wrong but as far as I know, th Catholic church won't allow that. We had to choose a godFATHER and godMOTHER, I don't think they will allow you to do it any other way.



Same. Actually, we were told if we couldn't choose a male AND female, then to just choose one OR the other. You can have just a godmother, or just a godfather, but not 2 of the same.

Posted 2/29/16 5:50 PM
 

LuckyStar
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Two godparents of the same sex...?

While I didn't specifically ask, the form the church filled out had the godparents listed as sponsor 1 and sponsor 2. I'm not saying that they would allow 2 of the same sex (they probably won't) but I would certainly ask.

Posted 2/29/16 5:57 PM
 

beachgirl
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Re: Two godparents of the same sex...?

Yes!my sister and I are godparents to another sisters daughter..catholic church and it was no problem.

Posted 2/29/16 6:17 PM
 

Sixofus
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Two godparents of the same sex...?

We had 2 godmothers. Officially, one is godparent and one is a "sponsor" or "witness" (can't remember exactly, this was for our first dc 10 years ago), but they had no problem with it.

Posted 2/29/16 6:22 PM
 

Rosie0613
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Re: Two godparents of the same sex...?

Yep, my cousin wanted both her sisters to be godmothers and her church had her older sister be the baby's godmother and her younger sister to be the baby's sponsor

Posted 2/29/16 6:23 PM
 

2BadSoSad
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Re: Two godparents of the same sex...?

Posted by Rosie0613

Yep, my cousin wanted both her sisters to be godmothers and her church had her older sister be the baby's godmother and her younger sister to be the baby's sponsor



Yup, they can't both be godparents, but one can and the other a sponsor.

Posted 2/29/16 6:29 PM
 

PitterPatter11
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Two godparents of the same sex...?

Depends on the parish.

Posted 2/29/16 8:24 PM
 

DiamondGirl
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Two godparents of the same sex...?

Depends on the parish. My parish initially told me no but when neighboring parishes said yes they reconsidered and allowed it. Technically only one godparent signs the book anyway. If you want it you can find a church that will do it.

Posted 2/29/16 8:55 PM
 

DMT
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Re: Two godparents of the same sex...?

Depends on the church.

I am the Godmother to my nephew and there were two Godmothers. We are both listed on the baptismal form as Godparent.

For the right check and church, it can be done.

Posted 3/1/16 8:49 AM
 

bunnyluck
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Two godparents of the same sex...?

Not at my parish.

Posted 3/1/16 9:01 AM
 

JDubs
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Re: Two godparents of the same sex...?

Check with the parish. Mine specifies Godmother/Godfather.

Posted 3/1/16 10:21 AM
 

MamaBear2
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Re: Two godparents of the same sex...?

Are you asking if there can be two Godmothers instead of one godmother and one godfather? If so, you will need to check with your church - I'm not sure on that.

But, my DD has a godfather and 2 godmothers. On her baptism certificate one is listed as the official godmother and the other is a witness.

Posted 3/1/16 10:41 AM
 

ALD618
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Re: Two godparents of the same sex...?

Posted by 2BadSoSad

Posted by Rosie0613

Yep, my cousin wanted both her sisters to be godmothers and her church had her older sister be the baby's godmother and her younger sister to be the baby's sponsor



Yup, they can't both be godparents, but one can and the other a sponsor.



Exactly this. My son has 2 Godmothers. One is technically the Godmother and the other is the sponsor on the paperwork with the church. But as far as we are concerned, they're both the Godmothers.

Posted 3/1/16 11:03 AM
 

J9-13
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Re: Two godparents of the same sex...?

Posted by OhBoyorGirl

Posted by Hofstra26

I could be wrong but as far as I know, th Catholic church won't allow that. We had to choose a godFATHER and godMOTHER, I don't think they will allow you to do it any other way.



Same. Actually, we were told if we couldn't choose a male AND female, then to just choose one OR the other. You can have just a godmother, or just a godfather, but not 2 of the same.



Ditto. They told me the same.

Posted 3/1/16 2:02 PM
 

luvmykids8
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Re: Two godparents of the same sex...?

Posted by ALD618

Posted by 2BadSoSad

Posted by Rosie0613

Yep, my cousin wanted both her sisters to be godmothers and her church had her older sister be the baby's godmother and her younger sister to be the baby's sponsor



Yup, they can't both be godparents, but one can and the other a sponsor.



Exactly this. My son has 2 Godmothers. One is technically the Godmother and the other is the sponsor on the paperwork with the church. But as far as we are concerned, they're both the Godmothers.



Same for my parish as well.

Posted 3/1/16 3:51 PM
 

Ellsey10
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Two godparents of the same sex...?

My parish unfortunately would not allow it.

Posted 3/1/16 4:41 PM
 

lazybug
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Two godparents of the same sex...?

My parish did not allow it either.

Posted 3/1/16 10:02 PM
 
 

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