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mommy2devin
2 Boys, I need calgon!
Member since 10/07 1572 total posts
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Shannon
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Not getting any easier!!!!
So, tomorrow SHOULD have been our first OB appointment. We SHOULD have been leaving work early tomorrow. We SHOULD have been seeing a tiny heart beating. We SHOULD have been over the moon, ecstatic. We SHOULD have been telling my DS that he was going to be a big brother and taking his picture in his Big Brother t-shirt and sending that pic on our Christmas cards to make the announcement.
INSTEAD, I'll be sitting at my desk. Crying. Wondering why this had to happen...........
I don't know if I can do this again.
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Posted 11/29/10 11:40 AM  |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
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Ang
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Re: Not getting any easier!!!!
 its going to take a little while before it gets easier...
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| Posted 11/29/10 1:02 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Not getting any easier!!!!
I agree with Ang its going to take some time, I had the same feelings you are having right now.
Don't give up
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| Posted 11/29/10 4:12 PM |
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Exarina
My Two Girls
Member since 12/09 1249 total posts
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Lisa Marie
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Re: Not getting any easier!!!!
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| Posted 11/29/10 4:49 PM |
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KPanas
LIF Adult
Member since 10/09 1691 total posts
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Kathy
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Re: Not getting any easier!!!!
I know exactly how you are feeling.. Its so hard. Sending you lots of
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| Posted 11/29/10 6:16 PM |
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AutumnDreams
LIF Toddler
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Re: Not getting any easier!!!!
I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel. We went in to our sono appointment expecting to see a heartbeat, then we were going to go surprise my parents with the news. It definitely sucks. I am so sorry that you are going through this too
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| Posted 11/29/10 6:21 PM |
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CatNYC123
Happy Thoughts
Member since 9/10 1531 total posts
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Cathy
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Re: Not getting any easier!!!!
Im so sorry. No one can make it any better, I know.
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| Posted 11/29/10 8:12 PM |
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PrincessP
Big sister!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Not getting any easier!!!!
Oh I can totally identify. You just made me start thinking of the things marked on my calender...kill me. I think the thing that is getting me through this is...bottom line...its a fluke. I have a child, I will have another. We are going to TTC ASAP. We definitely have a huge void right now. It has to get better, right.
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| Posted 12/2/10 8:33 PM |
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Nik211
my little monkey<3
Member since 5/08 3303 total posts
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Nik
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Re: Not getting any easier!!!!
i know how you feel b/c i want to jump off a cliff right now...
this was our first baby, we saw the heartbeat, we were over 100% over the moon and then the baby just stopped progressing...i had a d&c yesterday and my pregnancy is officially over...
i don't know how i am going to make it through the next few months - and another pregnancy without being scared to death...
at least you have 1 healthy LO already and you can always try again....but yes, this feeling is horrible...
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| Posted 12/5/10 1:09 AM |
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mommy2devin
2 Boys, I need calgon!
Member since 10/07 1572 total posts
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Shannon
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Re: Not getting any easier!!!!
Posted by Nik211
i know how you feel b/c i want to jump off a cliff right now...
this was our first baby, we saw the heartbeat, we were over 100% over the moon and then the baby just stopped progressing...i had a d&c yesterday and my pregnancy is officially over...
i don't know how i am going to make it through the next few months - and another pregnancy without being scared to death...
at least you have 1 healthy LO already and you can always try again....but yes, this feeling is horrible...
I am so extremely sorry for your loss! It is so hard and I am scared to death of getting pg again, so I know how you feel. But it WILL happen for you! Hang in there and use this board to vent your frustrations/fears, whatever you need it for. It is AMAZING!
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| Posted 12/6/10 9:41 AM |
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