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Luvbug
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2WW vent...need some hugs
so i tested again this morning and got a BFN - i am around 12DPO. I know it may be to early still but last time i got my BFP at 11DPO. So i was hoping for an early BFP.
Next month will mark 1 year since we started TTC. I am so emotionally drained from this whole process.  I never thought we would be here after all this time. Since I had a m/c in November and have a child already my Dr won't even talk to me about fertility treatments. I feel so helpless and I just wish someone would help us at this point. We have tried everything...i don't know why it is not happening for us.
I am still holding out some hope for this month since i am only 12DPO 
Sorry for my downer of a post and thanks for listening. 
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Pomegranate5
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
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| Posted 4/4/11 12:09 PM |
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EPIC
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
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| Posted 4/4/11 12:19 PM |
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memi7206
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Due Dec 29th!!!!!
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| Posted 4/4/11 12:21 PM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
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| Posted 4/4/11 12:22 PM |
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addingonemore
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
After one year, why won't your dr. not talk to you about fertility treatments? I thought one year was the mark. One thing I have learned from these boards, when it come to yourself- you have to be your own advocate. If you want to talk about fertility treatments, I would want to know why my dr. won't consider it, or would take it upon myself to seek a consult with an RE. TTC is so mentally draining and to go on month after month is so hard. We have all been there. So sorry you are feeling sad.
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| Posted 4/4/11 12:23 PM |
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Kris828
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
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| Posted 4/4/11 12:50 PM |
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kelkel09
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
Posted by addingonemore
After one year, why won't your dr. not talk to you about fertility treatments? I thought one year was the mark. One thing I have learned from these boards, when it come to yourself- you have to be your own advocate. If you want to talk about fertility treatments, I would want to know why my dr. won't consider it, or would take it upon myself to seek a consult with an RE. TTC is so mentally draining and to go on month after month is so hard. We have all been there. So sorry you are feeling sad.
ITA! I don't know why he won't talk to you about fertility options. I would make an appt with a RE so you can get another opinion.
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| Posted 4/4/11 12:54 PM |
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VanderZwang
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Gail
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
Personally, I think you should get another doctor...another opinion.
Its not for the doc to TELL you he wont even CONSIDER speaking to you about it. Go to someone else.
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| Posted 4/4/11 1:01 PM |
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Luvbug
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
Posted by addingonemore
After one year, why won't your dr. not talk to you about fertility treatments? I thought one year was the mark. One thing I have learned from these boards, when it come to yourself- you have to be your own advocate. If you want to talk about fertility treatments, I would want to know why my dr. won't consider it, or would take it upon myself to seek a consult with an RE. TTC is so mentally draining and to go on month after month is so hard. We have all been there. So sorry you are feeling sad.
Because I did get pregnant in November but I had a m/c and also because I have a child already so she feels that t's not a fertility problem just our timing. She said that come November this year (which will mark 1 year since m/c) she will consider treatment.
and thanks everyone for your i am definitly going to consider finding a new doctor...hoping that maybe AF will stay away this month and we wont need to 
Message edited 4/4/2011 1:35:08 PM.
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heather10292010
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
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LoLaBlue
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| Posted 4/4/11 1:43 PM |
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MySunshine
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
It's still early hun, don't lose hope until AF shows her ugly face.
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| Posted 4/4/11 3:21 PM |
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lilred13
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
That's odd that your dr won't talk to you... it's still early Try to stay positive.
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| Posted 4/4/11 3:26 PM |
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gina409
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
i would def consider talking to a RE..best decison i ever made
the year mark was really hard on us too..i think it just sounds longer than 11 months etc
best of luck and i hope you get ur bfp soon
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| Posted 4/4/11 6:34 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
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Re: 2WW vent...need some hugs
Aw, Im so sorry def. talk to a Dr.
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| Posted 4/4/11 9:20 PM |
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