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A doctor's note to give them water?? really??? FRIDAY UPDATE (if anyone cares, LOL!)

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MrsRbk
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really???

IDK.... I still think it's ridiculous.

My daycare provides a hot lunch program, but I choose not to give their lunch to my DD. I send her with her own lunch and snack every day. They also have a juice machine in the room, and I've asked they not give her juice. I send her with her own sippy cups every day - 3 water cups and one milk cup. I've never been asked for a note.

Posted 8/12/10 9:48 AM
 
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lucyloo
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really???

That's crazy. I'm not a big fan of giving DS juice and neither is his ped. Has nothing to do with his weight, it's just unnecessary sugar IMO.

Posted 8/12/10 9:50 AM
 

JennCo
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really???

that is crazy! you are your childs mother and you are making a healthy choice for them and there is no need for a drs note for that

Posted 8/12/10 9:50 AM
 

leighdvm
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

See my update

Posted 8/12/10 11:21 AM
 

pickles16
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

Her response was snarky and uncalled for, I would send back your response but worse...Chat Icon

Posted 8/12/10 11:29 AM
 

Waste06
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

Posted by leighdvm

"According to State guidelines we have to give 2 food componants for snack. The juice that we use is 100% juice so we can count it as a fruit. So first and foremost this is a State guideline. And yes you are correct that since we are on the Federal Food Program we also have to give 2 food componants. According to both agencies 1/2 cup is the proper portion. There are times we will give children a little more if they are still wanting more but do limit that as well. If the doctor states that the boys cannot have juice we will abide by that, but will ask that on days juice is on the menu that you supply a proper substatuite. This would be a 1/2 cup of fruit or vegatable per child. When a child has a food allergey or diet need we do everything possible to provide a substatute but cannot always do so. Throughout the day children are offered water. This is always done after we come in from outside. I totally agree with you that children should receive more water in their diet so the teachers are instructed to do so.



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As much as I'd really want to send the first part of your response, I'd probably hold back. However, I would definitely write:

You will have the doctor's note, as well as fresh fruit as a substItute to give my children. Thanks."


Message edited 8/12/2010 11:34:28 AM.

Posted 8/12/10 11:32 AM
 

Linda1003
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

Utterly ridiculous.. I wouldn't give them another cent of my money after that response!Chat Icon

Posted 8/12/10 11:32 AM
 

Waste06
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

double post Sorry!


Message edited 8/12/2010 11:33:45 AM.

Posted 8/12/10 11:32 AM
 

Waste06
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

triple post!! ugh!

Message edited 8/12/2010 11:34:13 AM.

Posted 8/12/10 11:33 AM
 

CaMacho
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

Wow I would definitely write back. And what is with emailing, can't she CALL you and discuss this?

And nice that the director misspelled substitute TWICE... substatuite and substatute are both wrong!

Posted 8/12/10 11:36 AM
 

leighdvm
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

I'm sure I'll get a snotty response back, I'll keep you all posted. Ahhhh, daycare drama. Gotta love it.....

Posted 8/12/10 11:38 AM
 

eddiesmommy
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

That was SUCH a passive agressive response from her.

Id be OUT OF THERE!

Message edited 8/12/2010 12:06:46 PM.

Posted 8/12/10 11:46 AM
 

bluekat16
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

Posted by Linda1003

Utterly ridiculous.. I wouldn't give them another cent of my money after that response!Chat Icon


ITA!

Posted 8/12/10 11:48 AM
 

MeganMylo
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

Posted by eddiesmommy

That was SUCH a passive agressive response from her.

Id bet OUT OF THERE!



ita!!!

Posted 8/12/10 11:52 AM
 

Ophelia
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

I get the regs and all of that. fine.

but one, she can't spell.

and TWO, she is NOT NICE.

she's so worried about her funding.

she's gonna lose a nice little chunk (or twin chunk, as it were) when I take my kiddos elsewhere!

*****! Chat Icon

Posted 8/12/10 11:53 AM
 

baby-o
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

is there any reason why you're not looking for a new daycare? i find that response to you ridiculously inappropriate.

Posted 8/12/10 11:54 AM
 

DRMom
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

I understand this is a requirement-which don't even get me started on the fruit juice substituting for a fruitChat Icon but her response was snarky, rude and if you stated she has acted this way before it is very "un-Christian like" Aren't there any church based pre-schools around you?

Posted 8/12/10 11:54 AM
 

MrsA714
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

Totally inappropriate and unprofessional response! Chat Icon Chat Icon I would definitely be having words with this woman!

Posted 8/12/10 11:57 AM
 

KartveliT
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

WOW, just WOW, holly rudeness!!! and I can't believe that you have to go through this. Chat Icon

OH and :

"The juice that we use is 100% juice so we can count it as a fruit. "

ummm, really? I don't think so Chat Icon 100% Juice is NOT fruit! so you can NOT count it as fruit Chat Icon (I don't care if this is a "State guideline")

Message edited 8/12/2010 12:01:08 PM.

Posted 8/12/10 11:58 AM
 

Elbee
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

she spelled components wrong also. Snarky little ******.
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Posted 8/12/10 12:00 PM
 

leighdvm
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

OMG, Thank you for validating my feelings -- Anthony thinks I am being too sensitive Chat Icon I swear, he is such a FRIGGIN MAN sometimes........

As much as I hate to leave the teacher they have, I hate the feeling that I can't even voice a concern without her snarky reply is making me seriously consider moving them out. There isn't another christian-based center that I know of, but there is a 5-star center which is right by my house, which I think I will get in touch with. God, I hate this.....

Posted 8/12/10 12:01 PM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

Posted by leighdvm

OMG, Thank you for validating my feelings -- Anthony thinks I am being too sensitive Chat Icon I swear, he is such a FRIGGIN MAN sometimes........

As much as I hate to leave the teacher they have, I hate the feeling that I can't even voice a concern without her snarky reply is making me seriously consider moving them out. There isn't another christian-based center that I know of, but there is a 5-star center which is right by my house, which I think I will get in touch with. God, I hate this.....



It seems like christian-based is important to you guys, but these people are not any christians that I would want instructing my child.

booo and hisssss to them! Chat Icon

Posted 8/12/10 12:04 PM
 

SweetTooth
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

Honestly, I don't like her response at all. I would find out first if she can really substitute juice as a serving of fruit. These seems like a cop-out to me.
Secondly, I would really consider switching. A daycare that thinks it is ok to serve juice instead of fruit would bother me - and to refuse to give your kids water instead at YOUR request, would bother me even more.

Posted 8/12/10 12:05 PM
 

dpli
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

I think she was snippy with you in her reply.

However, as someone who has absolutely no backup daycare, I would encourage you to think twice about getting into it over this, unless you are 100% prepared to take your kids out ASAP.

If this was a one time incident and the only thing that annoyed me about the daycare, I would probably get my note, send the fruit and let it go. If there were other things about the place that irked me, I would probably start shopping around for a new center.

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Posted 8/12/10 12:56 PM
 

LemonHead
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Re: A doctor's note for give them water?? really??? UPDATE WITH HER RESPONSE

That last paragraph is a dig and I would definitely find another place for my children.

I'm angry for you!

Posted 8/12/10 12:58 PM
 
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