anyone want to have a group vent lol??

i am just having one of these days where instead of being sad i am mad..

it all started when i was in walgreens where i saw a friend of dh and I's..he was just standing in the aisle so i said hi and passed a joke cause he was right by the laxatives lol..and he was like oh i am just waiting for a scrip for mary(his wife).she is pregnant..i said oh wow congrats the usual and then he goes yea,not even trying but hey we r happy..i just became enraged and not even at them what do i give a sh!t bout their sex life lol..just mad at the world...so here is my vent..please join in and make me feel not so bad for hating everone and everything right now

i hate..

the fact that everyone in amaerica SEEMS TO BE PREGNANT

and all those people were not really trying

and every pregnant person i know has done nothing but complain thr whole time and all i want to do is shake them and say i would give my left leg to be in ur shoes

that i cannot even wear jeans bc my stomach is so bruised from injections

that i have been to quest for blood so many times they know my name and say hello gina when i walk in

that my stupid insurance will not cover any fertility meds and every month its another huge pharmacy bill

sorry..just needed to get this out and i know i could be much worse off in so many ways but today is just not a good day

anyone else wanna vent

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I do! Next month will be a year of TTC.
I swear I feel babies are following me around today. I want to be happy for people I know but, I just feel even more weighed down.
The last few days I barely got out of bed.

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I know just what you mean every immediate around me seems to be preggo! I just want it to be me already.....

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I hate

People who don't know the first thing about pregnancy/caring for a child but magically are pregnant

All the 16 and pregnant chicks (and not just the ones on the show)

My dumb ovaries

The mountain of debt from my FAILED IVF

Thanks for this G, I soo needed it today!

baby dust to all of us!

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Can I join this vent still?

I hate that I work in a middle school and had to watch girls at 13 get pregnant. It's so sad

I also hated seeing so many of my coworkers get pregnant in the years I had been trying. I know 1 in 5 women or something like that have some kind of issue conceiving... but I always imagined it happened very quickly for all of them and I was the only one with a struggle.

Another thing I hate........... Really LOUD "goo goo gah gah" mothers.. You know.. the ones where when you're standing on a line to pay for something and they start talking REALLY LOUD to their babies so you can't help but notice them.... and this almost always happens precisely at a time you do NOT want to see or think about babies I also hate that I will probably be one of those mothers

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I agree with all of Ginas......AND

If I hear one more PG woman complain about weight gain.....if you dont want to get fat dont get PG!!!!!!

In 2 weeks it will be 2 years and my body decided this last month and a half that it does not want to be on a 28 day cycle anymore....WHAT!!!!!!! its been 28 days since I started in 6th grade REALLY NOW!!!!!!!!

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I hate that im going to have to go through 2 EDD's this year with no baby...

ETA: I hate that i have to go to 2 baby showers this month...

Message edited 4/11/2011 8:20:39 PM.

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I would love to play.

I hate that people keep telling me to relax.

I hate that I email Dr.B ALL THE TIME freaking out about everything including that we can't pay for our medications when Kraupners charges me $900 for gonal f.

I hate that I stress all day about taking off work for my next set of appointments.

I hate that my friends are all getting ready and excited to start trying and I know I might still be in this same position.

I hate that my family keeps saying, anything yet?

I hate that I have to work a 2nd job to pay my copays and I feel guilty even going out to dinner now.

I hate that I am still not pregnant after 2 losses and 14 months.

and I hate that now I have to try so hard to be positive when I used to be so good at that!

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First- and to all of us.

Ok, so I hate...
that I should be in my 2nd trimester right now and I'm not
that we have to wait until June to start TTC again.
that I will forever associate the word pregnant with the word fear

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and I hate that now I have to try so hard to be positive when I used to be so good at that!


THIS!!!!!!!!!! this is what i hate the most..the fact that i am not a happy person like i was..the fact that i lost all hope and starting to lose my faith

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Posted by gina409

i am just having one of these days where instead of being sad i am mad..

it all started when i was in walgreens where i saw a friend of dh and I's..he was just standing in the aisle so i said hi and passed a joke cause he was right by the laxatives lol..and he was like oh i am just waiting for a scrip for mary(his wife).she is pregnant..i said oh wow congrats the usual and then he goes yea,not even trying but hey we r happy..i just became enraged and not even at them what do i give a sh!t bout their sex life lol..just mad at the world...so here is my vent..please join in and make me feel not so bad for hating everone and everything right now

i hate..

the fact that everyone in amaerica SEEMS TO BE PREGNANT

and all those people were not really trying

and every pregnant person i know has done nothing but complain thr whole time and all i want to do is shake them and say i would give my left leg to be in ur shoes

that i cannot even wear jeans bc my stomach is so bruised from injections

that i have been to quest for blood so many times they know my name and say hello gina when i walk in

that my stupid insurance will not cover any fertility meds and every month its another huge pharmacy bill

sorry..just needed to get this out and i know i could be much worse off in so many ways but today is just not a good day

anyone else wanna vent

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Posted by StaceyWill

First- and to all of us.

Ok, so I hate...
that I should be in my 2nd trimester right now and I'm not
that we have to wait until June to start TTC again.
that I will forever associate the word pregnant with the word fear

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I would love to join...
I hate that their are ladies who have been pregant and have mutiple children that do not know anything about the female reproductive system, yet i have been forced to learn and continue to learn so much about it.
I hate when co workers complain about their kids actions and say let this be your birthcontrol to me
I hate that people comment to me"oh you are smart not to have any kids, they change your life
I hate when people pin point excatly when they want to have kids and dont even think maybe it doesnt work like that. I am guilty of once being that person to a degree.

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I hate that i'm 38 and not pregnant. I hate that i just had a miscarriage. I hate that in the last 3 days everywhere i turned there was a pregnant women. And i hate the thought of going back to my obgyn in 3 weeks while i'll have to be stuck in a waiting room with very happy pregnant women - that was pure torture for me as i sat there when they were scheduling my d&c.
And i'm bitter over the fact that now i won't be on maternity leave next winter, instead i'll be commuting into NYC stressing out over the snow again!!

believe it or not, i'm trying to be positive these days, but it did feel good to get that out!

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I am tagging in.

I hate that I am 40 and trying to get pg on my own and it just won't happen I don't have the strength (mental and physical) to deal with the RE again. Why am I (us) the one out of everyone I know who has to go through this.

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I hate..
-when people tell me not to stress. You try practically living at your RE office & then tell me not to stress!
-that everyone around me is pregnant
-when people ask me when we are going to have a baby
-when I hear, "it just happened, we werent even trying"

oh i can go on and on and on...

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I hate that my sil who has been in a race to get prego before me, got prego before me, told everyone "it was a surprise" and meanwhile told me, lift your legs up after sex, thats what grandma told me and it worked" and then said, well youre younger then me.

REALLY NOW!!! Much love to you ladies...Staying positive is hard, but we can all do it!!!

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Everything everyone said... but lately my biggest gripe is that in my office of 24 people, 3 couples are expecting, and upon the most recent announcement everyone comes rushing over to me saying "Get going!" or "Be careful it's contagious!" etc.

This summer it will be one year for me - I had hoped to be the first to announce in my office, but now would be thrilled to be the fourth... It's torture here these days.

Also, my best friend is pregnant and I am thrilled for her but she gets pregnant on the first try, every time, and I feel like she can't relate to my efforts and frustration, making it hard to talk to her lately.

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i completely understand how you feel!!!
it really bothers me when i hear about women complaining about being preggers...

but it will happen for us one day!

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oh to add:
i hate when people say "your next" after about 4 of close friends got pregnant.
i hate when family members ask "when will you have babies?"
i hate when people say " dont think about it and it will happen"

Message edited 4/12/2011 10:34:06 AM.

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I hate that 6 months ago I was pregnant and now I'm just waiting for something to happen again.

I hate the questions and comments from people who don't know I was pregnant and miscarried.

I hate that every celebrity seems to be pregnant and ironically a lot of my favorite celebs are due in July the same month I was :(

I hate that I got pregnant easily the first time and now that we are trying at the right time and doing the right things nothing seems to be happening.

I hate seeing babies everywhere I go. I hate seeing pregnancy test commercials. I hate seeing 16 & Pregnant/Teen Mom commercials and magazine covers.

I hate the two week wait!