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johnsae
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Re: Do you think it's rude to ask what someone is paying for a house?
Posted by Shroggie
If it were a friend, I wouldn't think it's rude. I probably wouldn't ask someone, but wouldn't mind if they did.
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Posted 11/17/09 8:45 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: Do you think it's rude to ask what someone is paying for a house?
Honestly, it doesn't bother me in the slightest. However, I would NEVER ask someone else that question. I just don't give a crap when it comes to me because I have nothing to hide for any reason. Not to mention, I got a sick deal on my house and I'm proud of getting it
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Posted 11/17/09 9:10 PM |
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greenfreak
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Re: Do you think it's rude to ask what someone is paying for a house?
If someone (usually parents or family) asks me how much an item cost, I usually respond, "Not more than we can afford, so we're happy with it." If they continue, I say, "Don't worry, we did our homework and got a good deal." or if they're snippy, "Why, are you thinking of buying one? Or just being nosy?"
As far as anything else - bills, salary, etc. - I just tell them that I only discuss my finances with my husband and hope they can respect that.
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Posted 11/18/09 7:18 AM |
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Shellyfj
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Re: Do you think it's rude to ask what someone is paying for a house?
It depends on who's asking. Some people are just curious and want to know. Other people just want to "judge" you.
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Posted 11/18/09 7:51 AM |
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mtnmama
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Re: Do you think it's rude to ask what someone is paying for a house?
I think it is rude. We "told" immediate family (they did not ask) b/c we wanted their help and advice, anyone else can look it up if they want to know our business.
I only had 1 person ask me-someone at work who I am not even friendly with. When she asked how much we got the house for I told her "It is an amount that we can afford"
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Posted 11/18/09 10:16 AM |
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Babyaholic
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Re: Do you think it's rude to ask what someone is paying for a house?
I don't find it rude. People are curious, so let them ask. They could find out easily over the internet anyway.
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Posted 11/18/09 10:29 AM |
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babymakes3
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Re: Do you think it's rude to ask what someone is paying for a house?
Posted by prncsslehcar
Honestly, it doesn't bother me in the slightest. However, I would NEVER ask someone else that question. I just don't give a crap when it comes to me because I have nothing to hide for any reason. Not to mention, I got a sick deal on my house and I'm proud of getting it
That's me to a T!
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Posted 11/18/09 10:32 AM |
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