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Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

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dooodles
When you wish upon a star

Member since 5/05

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Because 2 people fell in love

Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

Posted by maybebaby

When I was going through my lowest of lows and thinking Johnny may have autism, and doing nothing but sitting here crying over the future I wasn't sure he would have, I was told

"He is not a label. He is JOHNNY. Just JOHNNY. He is the funny, adorable, smart and wonderful boy now that he was at birth and will always be. Stop projecting. Treat him how he should be treated...as your little 2 year old that you love more than anything. His future isn't written and anything is possible"


His pediatrician at the time told me this advice (I may have botched some of the words but they have ALWAYS stuck with me since the day I suspected something was wrong). She was a wonderful person who encouraged me to try to just enjoy him instead of focusing on the "what ifs". It seriously has made all the difference in my life

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I think everyone can take these words to heart - thank you for posting them

Posted 7/7/10 3:33 PM
 
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KennysMommy
Never knew LOVE like it before

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Danielle

Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

Posted by dajc23

Hang in there. It DOES get better Chat Icon



ITA!!!

Posted 7/7/10 3:41 PM
 

yankinmanc
Happy Days!

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Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

Make bedtime fun! Thats the best advice I got!

Posted 7/7/10 3:42 PM
 

2boys1girl
and one more girl on the way!

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D

Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

Posted by StayForever

Your mother isn't always right, your mother-in-law isn't always right, and your doctor isn't always right.

No one knows your child better than you. You do what you feel is best, what feels right, and what works for you and your child.




ITA!!!!!

Posted 7/7/10 4:27 PM
 

sunflowerjesss
Mommy to 3!

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Jesss, duh.

Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

Not necessarily advice given to me. But I remember once saying to someone who was getting frustrated with their collic newborn "children are given to adults to remember the value and importance of patience".

And since then whenever I have a crazy day with DS I try and remember to tell myself that.

Posted 7/7/10 4:29 PM
 

JJN4
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Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

Enjoy every minute....time flies!!

Posted 7/7/10 8:32 PM
 

munchkinfacemama
LOVE

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Michelle

Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

Enjoy every minute because it goes quick.

That and use a nipple shield Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/10 8:34 PM
 

nov06
LIF Adult

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Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

Everything is a phase - the good and the bad stuff.

Enjoy every minute, it goes so fast.

Posted 7/7/10 8:39 PM
 

nov04libride
big brother <3

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Me

Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

Always carry cookies in your bag. For you or DC. Chat Icon

DC is perfect to you (and maybe the grandparents), but no one else wants to see the 324 pictures you take of them (from one of my friends who received 324 pics of DS during his first week).Chat Icon When emailing pics to anyone outside of your own immediate family, choose the best 3.

Message edited 7/7/2010 9:22:05 PM.

Posted 7/7/10 9:21 PM
 

laurenM
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Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

only you know what works best for your dc and your family.....

Posted 7/7/10 9:24 PM
 

aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys

Member since 4/06

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Ali

Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

Posted by prncsslehcar

A happy mommy = a happy baby. Chat Icon



ITA!

That and pick your battles. Chat Icon

It's not really advice, but what i always try to remember is... it can always be worse. Be grateful for what you have in front of you.

Message edited 7/7/2010 9:48:57 PM.

Posted 7/7/10 9:47 PM
 

traceyd
Big Sister to Be!

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Tracey

Re: Finish this sentence.....The best parenting advice I ever got was...??

Never wake a sleeping baby Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/10 9:48 PM
 
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