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janet
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I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

jokes are PI******* me the HE** OFF. really people. a man just lost his LIFE. I BET YOU A MILLION dollars that if it was your family member that was gone you would find it HURTFUL!!!

Ok Vent over


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Posted 9/14/09 10:19 PM
 
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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

I havent heard any jokes but I will be ***** mad if I do Chat Icon

How can anyone even joke about this?

Posted 9/15/09 7:42 AM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by Lisa982006

I havent heard any jokes but I will be ***** mad if I do Chat Icon

How can anyone even joke about this?



they have been and now i see one on here. so sad.

Posted 9/15/09 6:43 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by janet

Posted by Lisa982006

I havent heard any jokes but I will be ***** mad if I do Chat Icon

How can anyone even joke about this?



they have been and now i see one on here. so sad.




seriously? is it really eating you up that badly that I posted that Kanye thing? Chat Icon you know its not meant to be negative towards PS right? Its mocking Kanye. Like I said in the post, and several times on that thread, I am not trying to mock PS or make light of his unfortunate, way too early, painful death ... but people need to laugh.


Posted 9/15/09 6:47 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by mrskparetta

Posted by janet

Posted by Lisa982006

I havent heard any jokes but I will be ***** mad if I do Chat Icon

How can anyone even joke about this?



they have been and now i see one on here. so sad.




seriously? is it really eating you up that badly that I posted that Kanye thing? Chat Icon you know its not meant to be negative towards PS right? Its mocking Kanye. Like I said in the post, and several times on that thread, I am not trying to mock PS or make light of his unfortunate, way too early, painful death ... but people need to laugh.





YES I AM. you may not know but I lost someone VERY CLOSE to me and WHEN things like this where said ESPECIALLY in the FIRST MONTH I WAS VERY UPSET. do a search user my name and then MAYBE you MIGHT understand

Posted 9/15/09 9:20 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by janet

Posted by mrskparetta

Posted by janet

Posted by Lisa982006

I havent heard any jokes but I will be ***** mad if I do Chat Icon

How can anyone even joke about this?



they have been and now i see one on here. so sad.




seriously? is it really eating you up that badly that I posted that Kanye thing? Chat Icon you know its not meant to be negative towards PS right? Its mocking Kanye. Like I said in the post, and several times on that thread, I am not trying to mock PS or make light of his unfortunate, way too early, painful death ... but people need to laugh.





YES I AM. you may not know but I lost someone VERY CLOSE to me and WHEN things like this where said ESPECIALLY in the FIRST MONTH I WAS VERY UPSET. do a search user my name and then MAYBE you MIGHT understand




listen lady, you may not know ME but I lost someone VERY close to me AS WELL in a horrible manner. Don't make assumptions, I DIDNT. I know all about your husband, I am sorry for your loss, I am one who can sympathize with your loss. However, this has nothing to do with that, please dont make it about that.

Furthermore, I didnt say it. I simply posted something, said by someone else. asking if others had seen it. It is funny, no one is laughing at Patrick Swayze or making light of his death. They are mocking something said by someone else. You need to relax. If there is one thing that I have learned through death (the death of that very close person mentioned above) it is that you need to not take things so seriously, go with the flow, things like this are not worth getting crazy about, life is too short. It is a free country and I do believe that freedom of speech is protected. I didnt attack you, dont attack me.

Message edited 9/15/2009 10:07:21 PM.

Posted 9/15/09 9:38 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by mrskparetta

listen lady



I'm sorry, but this made me Chat Icon

Janet, I understand but the Kanye thing was really poking fun at Kanye, not Patrick.

Does anyone else find it wierd calling these men by their first name? Like we all hang out..... well at least with Kanye..... Um, nevermind.Chat Icon

Posted 9/15/09 10:09 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by Porrruss

Posted by mrskparetta

listen lady




Does anyone else find it wierd calling these men by their first name? Like we all hang out..... well at least with Kanye..... Um, nevermind.Chat Icon




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon i know right

Posted 9/15/09 10:23 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by mrskparetta

Posted by janet

Posted by mrskparetta

Posted by janet

Posted by Lisa982006

I havent heard any jokes but I will be ***** mad if I do Chat Icon

How can anyone even joke about this?



they have been and now i see one on here. so sad.




seriously? is it really eating you up that badly that I posted that Kanye thing? Chat Icon you know its not meant to be negative towards PS right? Its mocking Kanye. Like I said in the post, and several times on that thread, I am not trying to mock PS or make light of his unfortunate, way too early, painful death ... but people need to laugh.





YES I AM. you may not know but I lost someone VERY CLOSE to me and WHEN things like this where said ESPECIALLY in the FIRST MONTH I WAS VERY UPSET. do a search user my name and then MAYBE you MIGHT understand




listen lady, you may not know ME but I lost someone VERY close to me AS WELL in a horrible manner. Don't make assumptions, I DIDNT. I know all about your husband, I am sorry for your loss, I am one who can sympathize with your loss. However, this has nothing to do with that, please dont make it about that.

Furthermore, I didnt say it. I simply posted something, said by someone else. asking if others had seen it. It is funny, no one is laughing at Patrick Swayze or making light of his death. They are mocking something said by someone else. You need to relax. If there is one thing that I have learned through death (the death of that very close person mentioned above) it is that you need to not take things so seriously, go with the flow, things like this are not worth getting crazy about, life is too short. It is a free country and I do believe that freedom of speech is protected. I didnt attack you, dont attack me.



LISTEN LADY i am entitled to MY opinion. I FIND IT RUDE. I know it is poking fun at KAyne. BUT you are are also entitled to your opinion as sick as it maybe. BUT THAT IS MY HONEST OPINION

ps. IF that was your husband on that end of that joke WOULD YOU FIND IT FUNNY ?i am putting myself in Patrick's wife's shoes and I know I WOULD NOT

Message edited 9/16/2009 7:43:53 AM.

Posted 9/16/09 7:42 AM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by mrskparetta

Posted by janet

Posted by mrskparetta

Posted by janet

Posted by Lisa982006

I havent heard any jokes but I will be ***** mad if I do Chat Icon

How can anyone even joke about this?



they have been and now i see one on here. so sad.




seriously? is it really eating you up that badly that I posted that Kanye thing? Chat Icon you know its not meant to be negative towards PS right? Its mocking Kanye. Like I said in the post, and several times on that thread, I am not trying to mock PS or make light of his unfortunate, way too early, painful death ... but people need to laugh.





YES I AM. you may not know but I lost someone VERY CLOSE to me and WHEN things like this where said ESPECIALLY in the FIRST MONTH I WAS VERY UPSET. do a search user my name and then MAYBE you MIGHT understand




listen lady, you may not know ME but I lost someone VERY close to me AS WELL in a horrible manner. Don't make assumptions, I DIDNT. I know all about your husband, I am sorry for your loss, I am one who can sympathize with your loss. However, this has nothing to do with that, please dont make it about that.

Furthermore, I didnt say it. I simply posted something, said by someone else. asking if others had seen it. It is funny, no one is laughing at Patrick Swayze or making light of his death. They are mocking something said by someone else. You need to relax. If there is one thing that I have learned through death (the death of that very close person mentioned above) it is that you need to not take things so seriously, go with the flow, things like this are not worth getting crazy about, life is too short. It is a free country and I do believe that freedom of speech is protected. I didnt attack you, dont attack me.




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Posted 9/16/09 9:07 AM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by janet

Posted by mrskparetta

Posted by janet

Posted by Lisa982006

I havent heard any jokes but I will be ***** mad if I do Chat Icon

How can anyone even joke about this?



they have been and now i see one on here. so sad.




seriously? is it really eating you up that badly that I posted that Kanye thing? Chat Icon you know its not meant to be negative towards PS right? Its mocking Kanye. Like I said in the post, and several times on that thread, I am not trying to mock PS or make light of his unfortunate, way too early, painful death ... but people need to laugh.





YES I AM. you may not know but I lost someone VERY CLOSE to me and WHEN things like this where said ESPECIALLY in the FIRST MONTH I WAS VERY UPSET. do a search user my name and then MAYBE you MIGHT understand




I honestly dont understand why this is bothering you so much??? I mean No one said anything about you or your DH, why is this about him and you? I think you need to calm it a bit and not take things so personally. Yeah, I feel bad PS died. But I think getting this upset is very silly...


I thought the joke posted from Kayne west was tasteless, but Im not going to loose sleep over it.

Posted 9/16/09 11:03 AM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Now I need to read this joke...

Posted 9/16/09 11:25 AM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by MrsDrMatt

Posted by mrskparetta

Posted by janet

Posted by mrskparetta

Posted by janet

Posted by Lisa982006

I havent heard any jokes but I will be ***** mad if I do Chat Icon

How can anyone even joke about this?



they have been and now i see one on here. so sad.




seriously? is it really eating you up that badly that I posted that Kanye thing? Chat Icon you know its not meant to be negative towards PS right? Its mocking Kanye. Like I said in the post, and several times on that thread, I am not trying to mock PS or make light of his unfortunate, way too early, painful death ... but people need to laugh.





YES I AM. you may not know but I lost someone VERY CLOSE to me and WHEN things like this where said ESPECIALLY in the FIRST MONTH I WAS VERY UPSET. do a search user my name and then MAYBE you MIGHT understand




listen lady, you may not know ME but I lost someone VERY close to me AS WELL in a horrible manner. Don't make assumptions, I DIDNT. I know all about your husband, I am sorry for your loss, I am one who can sympathize with your loss. However, this has nothing to do with that, please dont make it about that.

Furthermore, I didnt say it. I simply posted something, said by someone else. asking if others had seen it. It is funny, no one is laughing at Patrick Swayze or making light of his death. They are mocking something said by someone else. You need to relax. If there is one thing that I have learned through death (the death of that very close person mentioned above) it is that you need to not take things so seriously, go with the flow, things like this are not worth getting crazy about, life is too short. It is a free country and I do believe that freedom of speech is protected. I didnt attack you, dont attack me.




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I agree.

Posted 9/16/09 11:28 AM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Janet... try not to take things to personally.
I can "kind" of understand why you are bothered. Granted I didn't loose DH, but if anyone was to make a joke that included someone with a disability..It would upset me. Again...I know the Kayne thing wasn't aimed at your DH...but it included someone's DH. I didn't think the joke was funny. Not b/c of PS...just didn't think it was funny. But people are entitled to laugh. Just as people are allowed to be offended.
Again, just try not to take it so personally.Chat Icon

Message edited 9/16/2009 11:58:45 AM.

Posted 9/16/09 11:50 AM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Im sorry but people are entitled to their opinion and to not think the joke is funny. But I dont think people are entitled to judge me or anyone who laughed. I know what is like to mourn and grieve over a death. and I also know whats its like to be sitting around the table crying yours eyes out at 11 cause you just lost your mother and one family member says something (whether it be a joke or something they remembered about the person) and everyone starts laughing while crying. The death is still real and you are still overwhlemed with sadness but being able to laugh is such a sense of relief though all the pain.

I didnt know patrick swayze personally, however his death still saddened me and this also made laugh. doesnt mean I am heartless or dont know whats its like to lose someone. And for anyone to assume so is just as tasteless. Sorry but i had to give my opinion on this.

Posted 9/16/09 12:24 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

The joke also included Michael Jackson, why aren't we upset about that too?

Posted 9/16/09 12:25 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by SweetTooth

The joke also included Michael Jackson, why aren't we upset about that too?



I guess its only tastless a few days after but not a few motnhs. Eveyone was up in arms with the jokes a day after his death. But atleast those were really targeted at him.

Posted 9/16/09 12:28 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

The joke is not about Patrick Swayze, it is about the imbecile Kanye.

If the joke was about him having cancer or some other personal attack on the guy, I could understand people being offended. It really has nothing to do with him.

Posted 9/16/09 12:54 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

no one on this board cornered the market on experiencing the painful death of a loved one. it's ridiculous to even remotely think that.

and its equally ridiculous to judge HOW a person moves through life.

I thought the joke was hysterical.

NOT the death of Mr. Swayze.

they are two different things. my brain separates them...perhaps I am weird.

but that doesn't mean I can't feel compassion for the family.

Posted 9/16/09 1:35 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Personally I did not find the joke to be that funny but I am not offended by it either. I lost my stepdad to brain cancer earlier this year and he was only 52 so I know that I am overly sensitive about the whole Patrick Swayze thing and I just try to stay clear from reading the jokes. Honestly, if this all happened 2 years ago I probably would have laughed at it myself which is why I can't judge someone for thinking it's funny. The joke is about Kanye (and it making him look like the a ss that he is is humorous) but I can understand why some people would be extra sensitive to its content.

Posted 9/16/09 1:46 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Sorry but I dont find any of the jokes funny either...not in the least. I know everyone is saying that it is not a joke against PS but to me no matter which way you look at it its disrespectful.....especially since he really suffered for a long time Chat Icon Nothing funny about referring to someone's death no matter how u spin it. JMHO

Message edited 9/16/2009 1:50:40 PM.

Posted 9/16/09 1:49 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Joke=Funny
Joke=tasteless

Difference in opinion and all are entitled.

Posted 9/16/09 2:08 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Dude, I JUST lost my 35 year old husband to cancer and I wasn't offended.



ETA: I am a bit sensitive to the overuse of the word widow lately (football widow, etc.). So I guess we all have our thing.

Message edited 9/16/2009 6:58:21 PM.

Posted 9/16/09 6:54 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

Posted by Ophelia

no one on this board cornered the market on experiencing the painful death of a loved one. it's ridiculous to even remotely think that.



Thank you, I think that needed to be said.

Everyone experiences loss differently but there shouldn't be a contest on who has lost the most or who is the most affected by situations like this.

FTR I had a chuckle. I wasn't offended and agree with a PP who said this shouldn't be taken so personally.

Posted 9/16/09 7:42 PM
 

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Re: I am sorry but Patrick has been gone not even 2 hours and the

I admit I laughed when I saw that, and I just lost my mom to pancreatic cancer a few months ago. The joke was on Kanye, not Patrick!

Posted 9/16/09 8:32 PM
 
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