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smdl
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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

I have to agree with the other posters.

You need to go to the police. Show the notes. Apparently this person is VERY deranged and might very well retaliate.

We had our neighboor's landscaper threatening us after I told them NOT to use the electric brush trimmer on my fence while clipping my neighboor's bushes. We called the cops. He said NOT to engaged in any arguments. He said "let us do our job". We don't want you to have slash tires tomorrow. So we filed a complaint with the police. and our neighboor had a talk with them.

The notes are evidence of the situation.

Posted 7/10/09 9:19 AM
 
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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Definitely call the cops. She knows where you live and DOES not sound stable.

Posted 7/10/09 9:22 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

I'm speechless!!!!! How fluckin RUDE! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


ETS: I agree with pp--definitely call the cops!!!

Message edited 7/10/2009 9:25:02 AM.

Posted 7/10/09 9:23 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

OMG! I would call the police as well. She sounds like a danger to the community. Who knows who else she is harassing as well.

Posted 7/10/09 9:32 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

definitely call the police - and I would stop putting my garbage out the night before, even if it means getting up at 6 to put it out in the morning!

Posted 7/10/09 9:37 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

I cannot believe i just read this! Absolutely crazy - she doesn't sound mentally unstable, she just sounds rude, inconsiderate and socially inept. I agree with the previous poster, I would put my recycling out in the morning.

Posted 7/10/09 9:39 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

File a police report and start putting your garbage out in the mornings. Do you have idea who this person could be?

Posted 7/10/09 9:51 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Posted by Shorty

definitely call the police - and I would stop putting my garbage out the night before, even if it means getting up at 6 to put it out in the morning!





ITA....,OMGosh the nerveChat Icon

Posted 7/10/09 9:56 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

I think you should definitely call the police but I think that going out of your way to spite this person for suggesting that you sort your cans was a little much. I understand it was way out of line, but have a little compassion for someone who has to pick out of people's trash cans in order to live.

Message edited 7/10/2009 10:13:54 AM.

Posted 7/10/09 10:08 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

what nerve. how obnoxiously rude. i would most certainly file a police report for harrassment and trespassing.

Posted 7/10/09 10:10 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Amazing! is it legal for someone to go through your garbage???

Posted 7/10/09 10:14 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Posted by MrsList

I think you should definitely call the police but I think that going out of your way to spite this person for suggesting that you sort your cans was a little much. I understand it was way out of line, but have a little compassion for someone who has to pick out of people's trash cans in order to live.



Just b/c the person may need Money doesnt justify them putting the garbage on the lawn or their rudeness. People are accountable for all their actions broke or not Chat Icon

Posted 7/10/09 10:20 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by MrsList

I think you should definitely call the police but I think that going out of your way to spite this person for suggesting that you sort your cans was a little much. I understand it was way out of line, but have a little compassion for someone who has to pick out of people's trash cans in order to live.



Just b/c the person may need Money doesnt justify them putting the garbage on the lawn or their rudeness. People are accountable for all their actions broke or not Chat Icon



I said that she should call the police and that it was out of line for the person to have requested that the OP sort the cans.

My point was that going out of her way to crush all those cans and peel of the labels was spiteful and she should consider the desperate circumstances people are under before taking that action. She could have just ignored the last note and hoped the person was neater in the future. If the mess continued, she could have called the police at that point.

Message edited 7/10/2009 10:29:30 AM.

Posted 7/10/09 10:28 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Posted by Blu-ize

I agree. Please file a report with the police.

This is not a stable person. A stable person would have taken what they wanted and not made the mess the second time after your polite note.

Think about it.

If you decide to do anything else involving this crazy person you are putting yourself at risk and possibly your property as well.

agreed

Posted 7/10/09 10:30 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

That's atrocious..I can't believe the nerve of some people..

Message edited 7/10/2009 10:38:14 AM.

Posted 7/10/09 10:37 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Posted by MrsList

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by MrsList

I think you should definitely call the police but I think that going out of your way to spite this person for suggesting that you sort your cans was a little much. I understand it was way out of line, but have a little compassion for someone who has to pick out of people's trash cans in order to live.



Just b/c the person may need Money doesnt justify them putting the garbage on the lawn or their rudeness. People are accountable for all their actions broke or not Chat Icon



I said that she should call the police and that it was out of line for the person to have requested that the OP sort the cans.

My point was that going out of her way to crush all those cans and peel of the labels was spiteful and she should consider the desperate circumstances people are under before taking that action. She could have just ignored the last note and hoped the person was neater in the future. If the mess continued, she could have called the police at that point.



How was it spiteful ? The OP stated right away she does not mind people collecting cans to recycle , and left a nice note asking her to pleae not throw the rest of the stuff on her lawn. The woman then had the b*lls to write she should pre-sort everything FOR HER. The OP has the right to crush any cans she wants since this woman had no regard for her personal property AND is technically tresspassing on her property.Why she she HOPE that this person is neater? How is that fair? It is HER property, and HER cans.

This woman had NO EXCUSE for behaving the way she did, and she should and being desperate is no excuse for being rude .

To the OP- I am a confrontational person by nature, but this loon knows where you live. I would call the police and let them handle it so you have a record of it .

Posted 7/10/09 11:00 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Definitely file a police report. Also, keep making the an unavailable to her, one way or another---to make sure she knows she's not welcome on your property.Chat Icon

You don't owe compassion toward someone who has acted like an animal and vandalized your family's home/

Posted 7/10/09 11:03 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Wow, I don't even know what to say. Definitely call the police and be careful bcuz she's obviously not working with a full deck.

Posted 7/10/09 11:06 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

I am also SO ANGRY for you but please do not confront this person. You just never know. My stepdad confronted someone making a mess in our garbage years ago, it was a woman and she pulled a knife on him! My mom told 2 girls to get dressed so they wouldnt get raped walking down the street in their underwear and they physically attacked my mom, myself and my sister. This person is obviously not stable at all and you are taking a HUGE chance by approaching her. File a police report, be angry but do not handle it yourself!!

Posted 7/10/09 11:08 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Posted by bellaluna

Posted by MrsList

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by MrsList

I think you should definitely call the police but I think that going out of your way to spite this person for suggesting that you sort your cans was a little much. I understand it was way out of line, but have a little compassion for someone who has to pick out of people's trash cans in order to live.



Just b/c the person may need Money doesnt justify them putting the garbage on the lawn or their rudeness. People are accountable for all their actions broke or not Chat Icon



I said that she should call the police and that it was out of line for the person to have requested that the OP sort the cans.

My point was that going out of her way to crush all those cans and peel of the labels was spiteful and she should consider the desperate circumstances people are under before taking that action. She could have just ignored the last note and hoped the person was neater in the future. If the mess continued, she could have called the police at that point.



How was it spiteful ? The OP stated right away she does not mind people collecting cans to recycle , and left a nice note asking her to pleae not throw the rest of the stuff on her lawn. The woman then had the b*lls to write she should pre-sort everything FOR HER. The OP has the right to crush any cans she wants since this woman had no regard for her personal property AND is technically tresspassing on her property.Why she she HOPE that this person is neater? How is that fair? It is HER property, and HER cans.

This woman had NO EXCUSE for behaving the way she did, and she should and being desperate is no excuse for being rude .

To the OP- I am a confrontational person by nature, but this loon knows where you live. I would call the police and let them handle it so you have a record of it .



And as I said, she could have just ignored the last note and hoped the person was neater in the future. If the mess continued, she could have called the police at that point.

She has now spent her time and money in order to prevent this other person from having the cans and the only reason she did it was to prevent the rummager from having them because the rummager was presumptuous. It was spiteful, regardless of whether it's fair, her property, or legal.

Posted 7/10/09 11:14 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

I would beat this perspn to a bloody pulp.

In fact, I'm so mad about what happened to you I'm willing to come over and help you teach this person some manners that Italian way



Posted 7/10/09 11:15 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Posted by MrsList

Posted by bellaluna

Posted by MrsList

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by MrsList

I think you should definitely call the police but I think that going out of your way to spite this person for suggesting that you sort your cans was a little much. I understand it was way out of line, but have a little compassion for someone who has to pick out of people's trash cans in order to live.



Just b/c the person may need Money doesnt justify them putting the garbage on the lawn or their rudeness. People are accountable for all their actions broke or not Chat Icon



I said that she should call the police and that it was out of line for the person to have requested that the OP sort the cans.

My point was that going out of her way to crush all those cans and peel of the labels was spiteful and she should consider the desperate circumstances people are under before taking that action. She could have just ignored the last note and hoped the person was neater in the future. If the mess continued, she could have called the police at that point.



How was it spiteful ? The OP stated right away she does not mind people collecting cans to recycle , and left a nice note asking her to pleae not throw the rest of the stuff on her lawn. The woman then had the b*lls to write she should pre-sort everything FOR HER. The OP has the right to crush any cans she wants since this woman had no regard for her personal property AND is technically tresspassing on her property.Why she she HOPE that this person is neater? How is that fair? It is HER property, and HER cans.

This woman had NO EXCUSE for behaving the way she did, and she should and being desperate is no excuse for being rude .

To the OP- I am a confrontational person by nature, but this loon knows where you live. I would call the police and let them handle it so you have a record of it .



And as I said, she could have just ignored the last note and hoped the person was neater in the future. If the mess continued, she could have called the police at that point.

She has now spent her time and money in order to prevent this other person from having the cans and the only reason she did it was to prevent the rummager from having them because the rummager was presumptuous. It was spiteful, regardless of whether it's fair, her property, or legal.



Wow

Posted 7/10/09 11:21 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

wow!!!!Chat Icon
Filing a police report is a good idea, in the case the crazy person actually damages your property one day since they are mad

Posted 7/10/09 11:25 AM
 

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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Posted by annoyedTTCer

I would beat this perspn to a bloody pulp.





Chat Icon OMG I don't think extreme violence is the answer to someone who is clearly desperate (albeit extremely rude) and threw trash on the OP property.

To the OP, I would call the cops since this person obviously knows where you live and doesn't sound completely stable. I can't believe the nerve of some people!

I also don't think you were wrong for crushing the cans. A sane person would have seen your first note and either not replied but not made a mess, or responded with a simple apology. Obviously they felt no need to respect your property and likely would continue to trash it if you kept providing cans and bottles for this idiot.

Posted 7/10/09 11:30 AM
 

bellaluna
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Re: I cant believe the ball$ on this person

Posted by MrsList

Posted by bellaluna

Posted by MrsList

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by MrsList

I think you should definitely call the police but I think that going out of your way to spite this person for suggesting that you sort your cans was a little much. I understand it was way out of line, but have a little compassion for someone who has to pick out of people's trash cans in order to live.



Just b/c the person may need Money doesnt justify them putting the garbage on the lawn or their rudeness. People are accountable for all their actions broke or not Chat Icon



I said that she should call the police and that it was out of line for the person to have requested that the OP sort the cans.

My point was that going out of her way to crush all those cans and peel of the labels was spiteful and she should consider the desperate circumstances people are under before taking that action. She could have just ignored the last note and hoped the person was neater in the future. If the mess continued, she could have called the police at that point.



How was it spiteful ? The OP stated right away she does not mind people collecting cans to recycle , and left a nice note asking her to pleae not throw the rest of the stuff on her lawn. The woman then had the b*lls to write she should pre-sort everything FOR HER. The OP has the right to crush any cans she wants since this woman had no regard for her personal property AND is technically tresspassing on her property.Why she she HOPE that this person is neater? How is that fair? It is HER property, and HER cans.

This woman had NO EXCUSE for behaving the way she did, and she should and being desperate is no excuse for being rude .

To the OP- I am a confrontational person by nature, but this loon knows where you live. I would call the police and let them handle it so you have a record of it .



And as I said, she could have just ignored the last note and hoped the person was neater in the future. If the mess continued, she could have called the police at that point.

She has now spent her time and money in order to prevent this other person from having the cans and the only reason she did it was to prevent the rummager from having them because the rummager was presumptuous. It was spiteful, regardless of whether it's fair, her property, or legal.



But why should she ignore it? The response note was hostile and spiteful to begin with. She owes this person nothing and frankly I cannot empathize with someone who was down right rude and disrespectful for throwing her unwanted recycles all over her lawn in the first place. She was beyond presumptuous IMO with that response in to the OP's first note. She should have written " sorry about that, I will be careful next time " instead of being an ingrate to "free money" and personal property.

Even if crushing the cans was done out of spite why would you side with someone who is breaking the law and threatening her ? I don't get it .

Posted 7/10/09 11:33 AM
 
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