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Carolyn
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I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
I am sitting here at my desk with my door closed crying. I can't take the stress of this job anymore. My boss was out on vacation last week, came in first thing this morning to yell at me about something that went wrong last week (not my fault but still didn't warrant yelling)...so that started the day off really crappy. Then I realized I sort of screwed something else up and I started getting upset about that on top of getting yelled at. Then I started thinking about all the stuff I have to do and I feel like I'm drowning. My stomach/uterus feels all tight and I am a total emotional/hormonal mess right now. I don't know how much longer I can do this and I'm only 19 weeks  .
I know I'm just having a really bad day but this can't be good for me or the babies. Sorry just needed to vent...
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
i am sorry, that really stinks! no one should ever be yelled at by a boss, how unprofessional!
i hope your day gets better 
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| Posted 7/27/09 11:49 AM |
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JennyPenny
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
I'm sorry you're having a bad day. Hopefully tomorrow will be better 
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| Posted 7/27/09 11:50 AM |
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carissa1643
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
Posted by Carolyn
I am sitting here at my desk with my door closed crying. I can't take the stress of this job anymore. My boss was out on vacation last week, came in first thing this morning to yell at me about something that went wrong last week (not my fault but still didn't warrant yelling)...so that started the day off really crappy. Then I realized I sort of screwed something else up and I started getting upset about that on top of getting yelled at. Then I started thinking about all the stuff I have to do and I feel like I'm drowning. My stomach/uterus feels all tight and I am a total emotional/hormonal mess right now. I don't know how much longer I can do this and I'm only 19 weeks .
I know I'm just having a really bad day but this can't be good for me or the babies. Sorry just needed to vent...
I feel exactly the same way!! I'm so irritable and emotional I feel like I could breakdown right now. I just thought of walking out bc there is just so much bs stress with this stupid job that I'm not even coming back to! I feel like   And I'm only 15.5 weeks I really cant take much more!
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| Posted 7/27/09 11:52 AM |
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summerBaby10
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
Hang in there and try to calm down. You are only one person & you can only do so much at work.
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| Posted 7/27/09 12:01 PM |
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bayla
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
hang in there!
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| Posted 7/27/09 12:05 PM |
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
Sorry you're having a bad day. I think you should think about whether ur job kinda stinks and ur emotional on top of it or whether ur job is really hell and will never change.
About 2 years ago I had my first real job out of school. I hated it SO much. I couldn't stand like 90% of the people, the work stunk, and I was a wreck all the time. I kept thinking that I didn't want to be a quitter and that maybe it was just me... But it SO wasn't just me and I was like a different person when I left.
So, anyway I know it might not be feasible to walk away from your job in this economy esp w/ baby coming- but it's something to think about. No harm in getting those resumes out there if you're truly unhappy and it's not just a hormonal day paired w/ a jerky boss!
ETA that u crying at ur desk is what reminded me of that old job of mine... I used to just have outbursts... That is SO not like me...
Message edited 7/27/2009 12:06:19 PM.
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| Posted 7/27/09 12:05 PM |
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Carolyn
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
Posted by BrinaEsq
Sorry you're having a bad day. I think you should think about whether ur job kinda stinks and ur emotional on top of it or whether ur job is really hell and will never change.
About 2 years ago I had my first real job out of school. I hated it SO much. I couldn't stand like 90% of the people, the work stunk, and I was a wreck all the time. I kept thinking that I didn't want to be a quitter and that maybe it was just me... But it SO wasn't just me and I was like a different person when I left.
So, anyway I know it might not be feasible to walk away from your job in this economy esp w/ baby coming- but it's something to think about. No harm in getting those resumes out there if you're truly unhappy and it's not just a hormonal day paired w/ a jerky boss!
ETA that u crying at ur desk is what reminded me of that old job of mine... I used to just have outbursts... That is SO not like me...
Funny, I used to really like it and the stress would not get to me like it does now. I know it is mostly hormones but since getting pregnant I also feel like none of this matters anymore, that my babies are the most important things in my life instead of work. I am an attorney and worked very hard to be where I am. I have been here for six years and they are usually very understanding so I really hesitate walking away at this point. Hopefully tomorrow will be better 
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| Posted 7/27/09 12:23 PM |
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Daisy32
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
I'm so sorry you're having such a rough day Carolyn. To be honest your boss has some set on him upsetting a pregnant woman like this....UNCALLED FOR in my book 
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| Posted 7/27/09 12:53 PM |
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KrisT
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
I'm so sorry you are having a bad day and feeling like this It always seems like when one thing goes wrong, then 5 other things go wrong and nothing can go right!
Do you have anyone that you can delegate any work to?
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| Posted 7/27/09 1:07 PM |
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
I totally understand, my boss is a cranky managing partner. While I dont wish bed rest on anyone, I TG that I am hone on disability and not in the office with that man screaming all day. I found that it took all the patience i had to deal with him on a regular day, that I had none when I was a pregnant hormonal woman
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| Posted 7/27/09 3:06 PM |
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| Posted 7/27/09 3:27 PM |
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lucyloo
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
Try to relax... take a sick day if you can! Remember your health comes before your job!
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| Posted 7/27/09 3:29 PM |
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mrswask
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
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| Posted 7/27/09 6:54 PM |
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codybear
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
ugh, I feel your pain. I've had more than one crying in my office day in my career, many many more than one! Sometimes it seems unbearable, and I'm terrible at dealing with stress, although I've been working hard to deal better, cause lord knows the job isn't going to fix the problem.
Anyway, no advice, sorry, but much empathy.
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| Posted 7/27/09 11:50 PM |
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GenLCSW
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
Posted by Carolyn
I am sitting here at my desk with my door closed crying. I can't take the stress of this job anymore. My boss was out on vacation last week, came in first thing this morning to yell at me about something that went wrong last week (not my fault but still didn't warrant yelling)...so that started the day off really crappy. Then I realized I sort of screwed something else up and I started getting upset about that on top of getting yelled at. Then I started thinking about all the stuff I have to do and I feel like I'm drowning. My stomach/uterus feels all tight and I am a total emotional/hormonal mess right now. I don't know how much longer I can do this and I'm only 19 weeks .
I know I'm just having a really bad day but this can't be good for me or the babies. Sorry just needed to vent...
I can empathize with you. All last week was horrible at work. I cried every single day. DH felt terrible and didnt know what to do 
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| Posted 7/28/09 5:32 AM |
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aliasPook
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missrock
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Re: I can't take my job anymore - vent/pity party
Who yelled at you??? Was is Dave or Chris?? I hear ya though. That job is so stressful even as a secretary. I guess the reason for me leaving.
Try not to let them get to you and remember that your pregnancy is the most important thing right now.
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| Posted 7/28/09 6:21 AM |
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