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I feel so defeated....

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BabyBearA
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I feel so defeated....

I am 8dp3dt. We put back 2 high quality 8 and 10 cell embryos and I can't shake this feeling that it's not going to work. In fact this morning I woke up feeling like AF is on her way. She usually comes 12dpo but I guess since I'm on suppositories this will mess it up. I just have that warm feeling in my belly like she's about to come, 4 years we have been trying with a loss 5 years ago and there have been so many obstacles in the road bc my DH was hesitant with treatment. We finally came this far and I feel totally defeated... and to top it all off I forgot to take my estrace pill this morning. Should I go home during lunch to take it???

Posted 10/19/16 7:56 AM
 
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Posted 10/19/16 8:42 AM
 

IUIGirl
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Re: I feel so defeated....

I would go home and take it. Prayers and sticky dust to you!!! With one of my IUI's I swore my period was coming and that one was a positive beta! Period symptoms are very similar to pregnancy symptoms. Hang in there, this struggle is one of the worst!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/19/16 8:55 AM
 

MrsB12614
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I feel so defeated....

Many hugs to you!! I also would go home and take it. Same with my IUI. I had severe cramps, bloating, knew I was just about to get an ugly dose of AF and boom- pregnant with twins. Hang in there. Infertility is a B***** and definitely has been the darkest moment of my life- I don't even know who I was. Stay confident! Period and pregnancy symptoms are so siniliar!! Keep us updated!

Posted 10/19/16 9:52 AM
 

IVFmiracle
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Re: I feel so defeated....

Don't get too discouraged. Go home, take your estrace and test tomorrow!
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Good Luck!

Message edited 10/19/2016 10:25:56 AM.

Posted 10/19/16 10:25 AM
 

MemorialDayBride12
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Re: I feel so defeated....

hugs. Hang in there hun. I would go home if you can to take the estrace pill. Try to keep calm, I know it's easier said then done believe me. But when I doubt myself, I always come on this board and the women on here are so nice and kind and help keep me positive!

Posted 10/19/16 10:45 AM
 

WannaBeAMom11
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I feel so defeated....

Every symptom sounds good. I just got my bfp and I still feel like my period is coming any day. Wet feeling, cramps galore, sore boobs. This is exactly how I felt when pregnant with dd. Crossing my fingers and everything else for you.

Posted 10/19/16 2:01 PM
 

TooSoontoTell
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Re: I feel so defeated....

I understand how you feel. I was sure my cycle when I was pg last time was not going to work. I got a BFP on 7dp5dt (12d). Faint and need to squint to see. Your symptoms could appear out of nowhere, which is what happened to me this time (no symptoms but a positive test very early, 4dp5dt. Many prayers for your BFP.

Posted 10/19/16 7:37 PM
 

BabyBearA
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I feel so defeated....

Thank you. I'm having a bad couple of days. This process is so emotionally draining...

Posted 10/19/16 8:50 PM
 

babydreams21
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I feel so defeated....

You are still in the game. Hang in there.

Posted 10/19/16 10:22 PM
 

BabyBearA
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I feel so defeated....

I tested this morning and as expected it was a big fat negative! I am so sick of seeing that one line. My heart is broken. Beta isn't until Monday which stinks since it's just going to prolong things. Hoping we can move right into a natural FET....

Posted 10/20/16 8:47 AM
 

WannaBeAMom11
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Re: I feel so defeated....

Posted by BabyBearA

I tested this morning and as expected it was a big fat negative! I am so sick of seeing that one line. My heart is broken. Beta isn't until Monday which stinks since it's just going to prolong things. Hoping we can move right into a natural FET....



I'm so sorry. Hugs.

Posted 10/20/16 9:21 AM
 

MemorialDayBride12
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Re: I feel so defeated....

i'm still hoping for a BFP for you today. Good luck!Chat Icon

Posted 10/24/16 10:11 AM
 
 

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