Re: I have always wonder why some people want to

When you hold the baby in your arms this will be your big reward and suprise after labor! And believe me, when when know the sex throughout your pregnancy you will still be plenty surprised: this is going to be yoru baby that never ever met before, so surprise element will totally be there, trust me on that one!

We found out the sex of the baby for many reasons. First of all, I hate yellow and green

SOcond of all, the minute I knew we were having a son, I felt like a bond between him and me became a thousand times stronger. It wasn't just a baby, it was MY SON, a very specific person in my mind, of whom I could dream, imagine what he will look like, what kind of character he will have. I can't imagine having an opprtunity for that kind of early connection and not taking advantage of it!

Besides, it took us a while to settle on a name, and if I had to have a set of two just in case, I would certainly go crazy!

Message edited 9/5/2006 4:48:32 PM.

Re: I have always wonder why some people want to

Posted by stephanief

Posted by nancygrace

I have to say being pregnant this is one of the issues that bothers me the most. I am finding out however there are people in DH's life (and mine now) that are so dam n opinionated and against this that its crazy!!! They act as if they are disappointed that we are finding out. I want to tell them to F-off!!!!Its our live and our choice and believe u me I have been surprised with many things in my life (proposal, 30 b-day party, a job that I wanted, romantic things Dh does for me etc....) why do I keep hearing that there are such few surprises when there are tons everyday!!! AS u can see I really needed to VENT!!! Thanks for listening.

To each his own, people need to mind their own business