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saraH
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by marymoon

As per shorty's LIW thread...there are definitely queen bees around who have to be right

and the prevailing opinions go in cycles. Now you're spoiled if you're having a big wedding, a saturday night wedding, a may wedding, 2 or more favors, a band, or you're not paying for it yourself....

I don't remember this ebing the prevailing opinion a year or more ago




wow! it HAS really changed from a few years ago!! Chat Icon

hmmm...lets see....

1. i had a saturday night wedding
2. i had 2 or more favors....

however,

1. i did NOT have a may wedding
2. i did NOT have a band
3. we paid for our own wedding...

guess that makes me a HALF SPOILED BRAT!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



TOTALLY SPOILED!!

Posted 2/27/06 8:32 PM
 
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MrsERod
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

Posted by marymoon

Posted by MrsERod

wow! it HAS really changed from a few years ago!! Chat Icon

hmmm...lets see....

1. i had a saturday night wedding
2. i had 2 or more favors....

however,

1. i did NOT have a may wedding
2. i did NOT have a band
3. we paid for our own wedding...

guess that makes me a HALF SPOILED BRAT!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




2/5 spoiled brat? so maybe you're ok...less than half..
Did you shop around for the absolute most dirt cheap vendors? If not, that could push youy over the edge into complete spoiled bratdom!



Chat Icon no i didn't!!! what WAS i thinking!!???? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/06 8:33 PM
 

JenniferEver
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by marymoon

Posted by MrsERod

wow! it HAS really changed from a few years ago!! Chat Icon

hmmm...lets see....

1. i had a saturday night wedding
2. i had 2 or more favors....

however,

1. i did NOT have a may wedding
2. i did NOT have a band
3. we paid for our own wedding...

guess that makes me a HALF SPOILED BRAT!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




2/5 spoiled brat? so maybe you're ok...less than half..
Did you shop around for the absolute most dirt cheap vendors? If not, that could push youy over the edge into complete spoiled bratdom!



Chat Icon no i didn't!!! what WAS i thinking!!???? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Oh I just realized, you're a total spoiled brat...you had your KIDS at the wedding, didn't you?Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/06 8:34 PM
 

saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

Posted by marymoon

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by marymoon

Posted by MrsERod

wow! it HAS really changed from a few years ago!! Chat Icon

hmmm...lets see....

1. i had a saturday night wedding
2. i had 2 or more favors....

however,

1. i did NOT have a may wedding
2. i did NOT have a band
3. we paid for our own wedding...

guess that makes me a HALF SPOILED BRAT!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




2/5 spoiled brat? so maybe you're ok...less than half..
Did you shop around for the absolute most dirt cheap vendors? If not, that could push youy over the edge into complete spoiled bratdom!



Chat Icon no i didn't!!! what WAS i thinking!!???? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Oh I just realized, you're a total spoiled brat...you had your KIDS at the wedding, didn't you?Chat Icon



and kids!!!!??? chris what the hell???







Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/06 8:35 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

is there some spoiled brat haters clique going on here?

I feel LEFT OUT Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/06 8:37 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

Posted by BNL2005

Posted by marymoon

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by marymoon

Posted by MrsERod

wow! it HAS really changed from a few years ago!! Chat Icon

hmmm...lets see....

1. i had a saturday night wedding
2. i had 2 or more favors....

however,

1. i did NOT have a may wedding
2. i did NOT have a band
3. we paid for our own wedding...

guess that makes me a HALF SPOILED BRAT!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




2/5 spoiled brat? so maybe you're ok...less than half..
Did you shop around for the absolute most dirt cheap vendors? If not, that could push youy over the edge into complete spoiled bratdom!



Chat Icon no i didn't!!! what WAS i thinking!!???? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Oh I just realized, you're a total spoiled brat...you had your KIDS at the wedding, didn't you?Chat Icon



and kids!!!!??? chris what the hell???

Chat Icon Chat Icon




hey...the kids paid half price!!! does that help my cause???? Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/06 8:39 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

I don't respond only if what I say is going to be repetitive and/or unnecessarily negative.
There's no point in saying " I really, really hate that".
I don't get that opinionated about most things on here, and if I do then I will definitely respond.

Posted 2/27/06 8:45 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

I guess I shouldn't be surprised to hear what's going on on LIW now...what the majority opinon is but I am a little. Getting called a spoiled brat for having a Saturday night wedding? It'll flip around again... before you know you you'll look "cheap" if you have a friday night wedding.

Anyway, the dynamic is definitely different here when it comes to posting opinions on things like Red said (a dress, for instance). I feel I can be honest more freely here and people aren't so uptight. But, I agree with what alot of other people said (uh-oh!) in that I won't post a negative opinion if someone already BOUGHT something because there's really no point and all that comes of it is possibly some hurt feelings and it appears as though they are really just looking for validation that they made a good choice.

Posted 2/27/06 8:49 PM
 

Jessica
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

Posted by Redhead

To the people who wrote this in response to the other thread about lying in posts...

Why do you not respond?

Fearful of offending?
don't want to be rude?



If I don't respong to a post, it's either because I
1) read the thread too late, it's already a couple of pages back and don't feel it necessary to be bumped
2) My opinion is already stated by numerous people who answered the thread
3) I just don't have a strong enough opinion on the topic, being that I don't really care much about it or haven't had enough experience on the topic.

But, as a newbie I do not really see a clique as other people posted. A lot of people are more friendly with each other and might post the same response, but friends usually have the same opinion and they have stronger bonds b/c they know each other longer.

I imagine I will get very close to a couple of ladies here as timepasses and I post more.

And I joined this forum to ask questions to receive honest answers. I like to see other people's opinions. It makes me think harder. THat is why I love the current event topics that are posted

Posted 2/27/06 8:56 PM
 

MrsProfessor
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

Sometimes, it's a matter of taste. Something/somplace etc. might be perfectly fine but not for me. No point in asking.

I also don't respond to something if I think that I can't be very clear in my response. It's too easy to be misconstrued. And sometimes, it's just not a topic I know enough about. (i.e. ttc related things)

Posted 2/27/06 8:58 PM
 

JenniferEver
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

Posted by BabyAvocado

I guess I shouldn't be surprised to hear what's going on on LIW now...what the majority opinon is but I am a little. Getting called a spoiled brat for having a Saturday night wedding? It'll flip around again... before you know you you'll look "cheap" if you have a friday night wedding.




I know. Sometimes I really want to say "maybe I'm not spoiled, maybe you're just CHEAP"

Posted 2/27/06 8:58 PM
 

Snozberry
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

Posted by marymoon

Posted by BabyAvocado

I guess I shouldn't be surprised to hear what's going on on LIW now...what the majority opinon is but I am a little. Getting called a spoiled brat for having a Saturday night wedding? It'll flip around again... before you know you you'll look "cheap" if you have a friday night wedding.




I know. Sometimes I really want to say "maybe I'm not spoiled, maybe you're just CHEAP"



Oh how the sh1t would hit the fan if that was said!!! Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/06 9:03 PM
 

JenniferEver
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

Posted by Snozberry

Posted by marymoon

Posted by BabyAvocado

I guess I shouldn't be surprised to hear what's going on on LIW now...what the majority opinon is but I am a little. Getting called a spoiled brat for having a Saturday night wedding? It'll flip around again... before you know you you'll look "cheap" if you have a friday night wedding.




I know. Sometimes I really want to say "maybe I'm not spoiled, maybe you're just CHEAP"



Oh how the sh1t would hit the fan if that was said!!! Chat Icon



But seriously though!

Sometimes it seems like a competition for who is on the smallest budget. It's my wedding day. The only one, and I don't want to be cheap about it. If you're calling me spoiled, it's probably because you're JEALOUS!



ok I feel a little better now!

ETA: Please tell me you agree with me..not because I need you to join my clique, but because these girls really try to make me feel like shi* sometimes, if I am spending more money than they are.....

Message edited 2/27/2006 9:10:12 PM.

Posted 2/27/06 9:08 PM
 

Snozberry
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Re: If i don't like it i won't respond

Posted by marymoon

Posted by Snozberry

Posted by marymoon
I know. Sometimes I really want to say "maybe I'm not spoiled, maybe you're just CHEAP"



Oh how the sh1t would hit the fan if that was said!!! Chat Icon



But seriously though!

Sometimes it seems like a competition for who is on the smallest budget. It's my wedding day. The only one, and I don't want to be cheap about it. If you're calling me spoiled, it's probably because you're JEALOUS!



That's so true, Jen. I almost can't handle it there sometimes....

For right now on LIF, I just don't respond because I'm still feeling everything out. That and if I can't say something constructive or positive, I'd rather be quiet.

Posted 2/27/06 9:12 PM
 
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