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Is this response too rude? UPDATED BELOW WITH SOME info about why the question scares me.........
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Re: Is this response too rude? UPDATED BELOW WITH SOME info about why the question scares me.........
Posted by dpli
Kerie, whenever possible, just tell them the due date and leave it at that. I wouldn't even mention that I am having a planned c-section unless it is something you have already told them.
Here's another  for you 
I do that, usually, but for people who may either visit the hospital or come to the bris, I want to tell them that the date is more certain than if I were going naturally. There are also clients who deserve to know when I am going out, but they have been wonderful about it, better than my close friends, especially now that I have my work backup in place.
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waterspout4
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Re: Is this response too rude? UPDATED BELOW WITH SOME info about why the question scares me.........
Kerie, I don't think it's rude at all. I too had to go through these questions, especially from my family. I am still fielding crap from them because of my complications. They keep asking if I HAD to do it. People need no explanation. All I said was that it was necessary to ensure the safety of my baby and me. If they pressed for more info, I didn't give any more info. You are not rude with your answer at all. I know you can be rude, so bring it on! 
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Re: Is this response too rude? UPDATED BELOW WITH SOME info about why the question scares me.........
Posted by waterspout4
Kerie, I don't think it's rude at all. I too had to go through these questions, especially from my family. I am still fielding crap from them because of my complications. They keep asking if I HAD to do it. People need no explanation. All I said was that it was necessary to ensure the safety of my baby and me. If they pressed for more info, I didn't give any more info. You are not rude with your answer at all. I know you can be rude, so bring it on!
OMG, they keep asking after the birth?!!  I think I am going to hit someone!!!!!!
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Re: Is this response too rude? UPDATED BELOW WITH SOME info about why the question scares me.........
BTW. and thanks to all who answered, by FM and on this thread. When I posted I did not expect to get as much concern as I got!!! I know that I will be okay and that I have to learn that if I piss someone off, it is probably b/c they asked for it.
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BaroqueMama
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Re: Is this response too rude? UPDATED BELOW WITH SOME info about why the question scares me.........
I would just say, "Honestly, I'm kind of tired of talkign about it."
Especially if it's your friends. I would totally say that to my friends and HAVE about other things. No one gets offended and they the point
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