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Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

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Michelle1110
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Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

Today I saw Dr. Brenner for my second opinion and I loved him !! He recommended IVF also. I was really happy because things will hopefully happen now. I've had two unsuccessful iui's (in 2ww for third). I was assigned a nurse, got scripts for water Sono and biopsy.
Then I saw the billing lady who informed me that with GHI I need six iui's before Ivf.
What???????????
Brenner said he will write a letter and attach supporting documents and it might work for GHI to approve it. The billing lady said it won't work. The nurse said to listen to the doctor.
Brenner also said I have a 6 percent or less chance of iui working.
So now I have to waste my time??!!!
Anyone with NYC doe GHI plans that have experience with this? I am so upset!!

Posted 7/22/13 1:39 PM
 
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JWG421
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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

sorry, i am not familair w the plan- I have emblem GHI, its different,
but glad you loved Brenner

Posted 7/22/13 2:12 PM
 

Michelle1110
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Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

Congrats on your bfp! I really liked brenner and Jackie. I'm happy I am switching but feel so deflated I still have to wait!

Posted 7/22/13 2:16 PM
 

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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

I used to go to LIIVF - Dr. Brenner (LOVED Jackie). He contacted my insurance (who also required IUIs first) and I was approved to go straight to IVF. It all depends on your Dx. Don't stress...things will happen as they are meant to (says someone two years into IF and finally realizing the truth of that statement). GL!!! Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/13 2:28 PM
 

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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

Posted by mrsanonymous

I used to go to LIIVF - Dr. Brenner (LOVED Jackie). He contacted my insurance (who also required IUIs first) and I was approved to go straight to IVF. It all depends on your Dx. Don't stress...things will happen as they are meant to (says someone two years into IF and finally realizing the truth of that statement). GL!!! Chat Icon [/QUOTE


Thanks! Did you also have GHI? Good luck to you as well! IF is torture Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/13 2:34 PM
 

CindySN23
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Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

It depends on your diagnosis. GHI will decide if you can bypass the 6 IUI's. I am surprised they did not tell you that before your consult.

Posted 7/22/13 2:49 PM
 

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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

Posted by Michelle1110

Posted by mrsanonymous

I used to go to LIIVF - Dr. Brenner (LOVED Jackie). He contacted my insurance (who also required IUIs first) and I was approved to go straight to IVF. It all depends on your Dx. Don't stress...things will happen as they are meant to (says someone two years into IF and finally realizing the truth of that statement). GL!!! Chat Icon




Thanks! Did you also have GHI? Good luck to you as well! IF is torture Chat Icon



I don't have GHI, but from what I've seen (I've personally had two diff insurance companies during my journey), it's normal (albeit a challenge sometimes) to bypass IUI if the diagnosis calls for it and the doctor sends proper documentation.

Posted 7/22/13 2:56 PM
 

babydreams21
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Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

YUP. I am a NYC DOE teacher and I'm on IUI #6. IVF in the fall. Since we are unexplained there is nothing to document so we had to do 6 IUIS. My RE says GHI is behind the times.

Posted 7/22/13 3:00 PM
 

cateyemm
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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

nyc doe= we bypassed the 6 iuis. i think we did 4. i dont know what your issues were, but my doctor's reasoning in the letter was that i respond really well to the meds and i was at risk for high order multiples (which the ins company DOESNT want to pay for, since that is usually more expensive than ivf).

Posted 7/22/13 3:04 PM
 

Michelle1110
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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

Thanks ladies, that gives me hope. I'm classified as ovulatory disfunction and Dh has slight mf. I'm really hoping I can call it quits after 3 iui's. so ridiculous!

Posted 7/22/13 3:13 PM
 

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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

I have GHI and my RE said there are strict guidelines to bypass the 6IUI's.. even with the Dr's letter. They need clinical proof.

Most important-
*Stage 4 endometriosis
OR
*Both tubes blocked
OR
*Two consecutive SA with 2% or less.
If you fit into either of these, they can pass you through.

My office manager just showed me the GHI paperwork confirming this.

-- we are nypd

Message edited 7/22/2013 3:14:56 PM.

Posted 7/22/13 3:14 PM
 

Michelle1110
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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

Posted by babydreams21

YUP. I am a NYC DOE teacher and I'm on IUI #6. IVF in the fall. Since we are unexplained there is nothing to document so we had to do 6 IUIS. My RE says GHI is behind the times.



Ridiculous!! I just got off the phone with them and they said 29 is too young to bypass the iui I need to show medical need. The billing lady wasn't optimistic but I guess it depends how the dr writes it up. Ugh!
Best of luck to you! ESP starting a new school year and doing it! I'm not looking forward to that combination lol

Posted 7/22/13 3:16 PM
 

Michelle1110
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Posted by Lillies

I have GHI and my RE said there are strict guidelines to bypass the 6IUI's.. even with the Dr's letter. They need clinical proof.

Most important-
*Stage 4 endometriosis
OR
*Both tubes blocked
OR
*Two consecutive SA with 2% or less.
If you fit into either of these, they can pass you through.

My office manager just showed me the GHI paperwork confirming this.

-- we are nypd



This is sad. Dh has 4% Chat Icon
Are you doing the six iui first?

Posted 7/22/13 3:17 PM
 

JWG421
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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

Posted by Michelle1110

Congrats on your bfp! I really liked brenner and Jackie. I'm happy I am switching but feel so deflated I still have to wait!




LOVE jackie, she is amazing
she makes all the phone calls along w lauren

Posted 7/22/13 3:34 PM
 

2BirdsofaFeather
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Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

I bypassed iui altogether and we have NYC GHI

Posted 7/22/13 3:37 PM
 

TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
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Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

Best of luck to you..if it's any consolation, when I got PG with my daughter, I was about to go to IVF, planned the meeting, etc...and...it was my month..keep us posted because this time around, it may end up that way and I have the same insurance..keep your head up and trust Dr. Brenner...

Posted 7/22/13 3:39 PM
 

Lillies
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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

Posted by Michelle1110

Posted by Lillies

I have GHI and my RE said there are strict guidelines to bypass the 6IUI's.. even with the Dr's letter. They need clinical proof.

Most important-
*Stage 4 endometriosis
OR
*Both tubes blocked
OR
*Two consecutive SA with 2% or less.
If you fit into either of these, they can pass you through.

My office manager just showed me the GHI paperwork confirming this.

-- we are nypd



This is sad. Dh has 4% Chat Icon
Are you doing the six iui first?


They are clearing me bc DH has 2%.. thank god bc clomid keeps giving me cysts, delaying my cycles!!

Posted 7/22/13 3:52 PM
 

Michelle1110
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Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog

Best of luck to you..if it's any consolation, when I got PG with my daughter, I was about to go to IVF, planned the meeting, etc...and...it was my month..keep us posted because this time around, it may end up that way and I have the same insurance..keep your head up and trust Dr. Brenner...



Congrats! Thanks for your kind words, I hope this is all for nothing. That would be nice lol

Posted 7/22/13 4:01 PM
 

Anne44
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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

Sorry - i know how frustrating it can be. I have GHI and I could not bypass so we decided to pay oop for ivf. Paying for injectibles adds up so if we had to do that for a few more months of iui it would get very costly -almost cost of ivf cycle.

Posted 7/22/13 4:11 PM
 

Michelle1110
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Posted by Lillies

Posted by Michelle1110

Posted by Lillies

I have GHI and my RE said there are strict guidelines to bypass the 6IUI's.. even with the Dr's letter. They need clinical proof.

Most important-
*Stage 4 endometriosis
OR
*Both tubes blocked
OR
*Two consecutive SA with 2% or less.
If you fit into either of these, they can pass you through.

My office manager just showed me the GHI paperwork confirming this.

-- we are nypd



This is sad. Dh has 4% Chat Icon
Are you doing the six iui first?


They are clearing me bc DH has 2%.. thank god bc clomid keeps giving me cysts, delaying my cycles!!



Good for you! (But poor dh)when do you start?
Is it sad I hope Dh has a worse SA now?

Posted 7/22/13 4:58 PM
 

Michelle1110
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Posted by Anne44

Sorry - i know how frustrating it can be. I have GHI and I could not bypass so we decided to pay oop for ivf. Paying for injectibles adds up so if we had to do that for a few more months of iui it would get very costly -almost cost of ivf cycle.



I respect your determination ! Did the dr work with you regarding the price?

Posted 7/22/13 4:59 PM
 

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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

when i did it it was 12 iui

after 8 my doc wrote and they approved ivf

def go for it

Posted 7/22/13 5:03 PM
 

Anne44
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We are unexplained - still 20 months after my DD was born and about to begin the adventure again- this infuriates me. I wound up doing the attain program - was more $ - but seemed worth it. I luckily conceived my DD on my first fresh cycle at NSUH but had a prior failure when I hyperstimulated with another RE and only could do an FET.

Posted 7/22/13 7:43 PM
 

Michelle1110
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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

Posted by Anne44

We are unexplained - still 20 months after my DD was born and about to begin the adventure again- this infuriates me. I wound up doing the attain program - was more $ - but seemed worth it. I luckily conceived my DD on my first fresh cycle at NSUH but had a prior failure when I hyperstimulated with another RE and only could do an FET.



It really is infuriating!! Do you have to start back at iui's before you do Ivf even though you did Ivf to conceive?

Posted 7/22/13 7:47 PM
 

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Re: Ivf consult today... I am so mad!

We chose not to redo any testing and went straight to ivf. Since GHI wont cover it we felt it was the best decision for us to go straight to what worked for us in the past. I was in denial for 18 months hoping i would get lucky this time but finally came to the realization that it wasnt happening naturally for us - at least not now.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/13 7:54 PM
 
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