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MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: mens rooms

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

we all have the right to our opinions
But honestly if someone took your car with your child in it IT WOULD BE YOUR FAULT

and if your child was taken from your front lawn, thats your fault- there is no difference when it comes to safety issues here. and I guess they would have to hot wire it too if I took the keys huh? Chat Icon



DID YOU READ MY LAST POST???????????

I WOULDNT LEAVE MY CHILDREN UNSUPERVISED IN THE FRONT

Posted 2/12/06 1:43 PM
 
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Re: mens rooms

while I don't think it was acceptable for the dad to bring his daughter in with him, that's much better than to leave her on her own when in a split second anything can happen even in the ladies's room.
He did what he felt was in his daughter's best interest and I commend him for that. At least he can see her and supervise her.

Posted 2/12/06 1:43 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by IslandGrl

But thats where parents differ..
I DO live my life to protect my children.. when they grow up and are on there own I will STILL worry about them.. but obviously there is a time to let go..
I dont feel that age is at 10.

who is saying to let go for letting your daughter go into a ladies room by herself letting go??????????????Chat Icon



ok.

WHat if it was the *DAD* That had to go... and he Could NOT hold it in????? Honestly- i think that if it were just the Daugher that had to go, he probably wouldve waited outside.

Posted 2/12/06 1:44 PM
 

justme1
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Re: mens rooms

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by IslandGrl

But thats where parents differ..
I DO live my life to protect my children.. when they grow up and are on there own I will STILL worry about them.. but obviously there is a time to let go..
I dont feel that age is at 10.

who is saying to let go for letting your daughter go into a ladies room by herself letting go??????????????Chat Icon



Well I meant.. obviously they get to an age where they might be able to fight god forbid a crazy person off.. a 10 year old no matter how responsible and mature they are.. are STILL CHILDREN.. they make way to many bad choices ( as all kids do) to be able to be left alone.

Posted 2/12/06 1:44 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Someone else brought up guilt vs criminal acts regarding parents not me. Back to my main point (not being kids left in cars or being stolen from cars), I think 10 yr old girls should be allowed to go in womens bathrooms solo.

Posted 2/12/06 1:44 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by IslandGrl

Posted by Princessmaris

Im just wondering...who else who is actively involved in this thread has children???




I think thats obvious...



i dont.

Posted 2/12/06 1:45 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

As someone else said, when you become a parent, and your are overwhelmed with love and responsibilty, your views ( with the exception of a few VERY SMART, non moms who are posting) will change

Message edited 2/12/2006 1:45:50 PM.

Posted 2/12/06 1:45 PM
 

MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: mens rooms

AND SERIOUSLY DOESNT COMMONSENSE COME INTO PLAY HERE

dont leave your child alone that is why YOU are the parent and they are the CHILD

Posted 2/12/06 1:46 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by Princessmaris

As someone else said, when you become a parent, and your are overwhelmed with love and responsibilty, your views ( with the exception of a few VERY SMART, non moms who are posting) will change



I can honestly not believe this post ist still going on.
Condeming a man for doing what he thought was in the best interst of his child...that basterde...let's burn him at the stake Chat Icon

Message edited 2/12/2006 1:47:06 PM.

Posted 2/12/06 1:46 PM
 

PrincessP
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Re: mens rooms

I am a parent

Posted 2/12/06 1:47 PM
 

MommyofG
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Re: mens rooms

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

Girlygrl33
I dont think you get it!!!!!!

YOU MUST PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN!!!!!
so that means realizing this world isnt sugar and spice and everything nice

ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN ANYWHERE ANYTIME
so trying your best to prevent bad things happening to your child is your job as the parent

I wouldnt allow my children to play out in the front yard without my supervision, or leave them alone in the car,or let them wait outside while I use the bathroom and I am sure a lot of other things I wont let them do unsupervised because its my job to PROTECT THEM

LOLChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Since this is like the 3rd time you are calling me out and telling me to live my life according and blah blah blah- who the hell said it was sugar and spice. you need glasses AND a class on reading comprehension.

YOU DONT GET IT obviously cause youre making statements that dont pertain to what I have been saying: and I dont have to have kids to understand and how to be a protective parent.

Posted 2/12/06 1:47 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

we all have the right to our opinions
But honestly if someone took your car with your child in it IT WOULD BE YOUR FAULT

and if your child was taken from your front lawn, thats your fault- there is no difference when it comes to safety issues here. and I guess they would have to hot wire it too if I took the keys huh? Chat Icon



DID YOU READ MY LAST POST???????????

I WOULDNT LEAVE MY CHILDREN UNSUPERVISED IN THE FRONT

yea ok the phone rings, your cooking have to check the food, ok you always have your EYES on your kids 24-7Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/12/06 1:48 PM
 

MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: mens rooms

well obviously you do need a class because you are willing to leave your kid alone in a car while your in a store and you think thats ok

Posted 2/12/06 1:49 PM
 

PrincessP
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Re: mens rooms

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

Girlygrl33
I dont think you get it!!!!!!

YOU MUST PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN!!!!!
so that means realizing this world isnt sugar and spice and everything nice

ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN ANYWHERE ANYTIME
so trying your best to prevent bad things happening to your child is your job as the parent

I wouldnt allow my children to play out in the front yard without my supervision, or leave them alone in the car,or let them wait outside while I use the bathroom and I am sure a lot of other things I wont let them do unsupervised because its my job to PROTECT THEM

LOLChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Since this is like the 3rd time you are calling me out and telling me to live my life according and blah blah blah- who the hell said it was sugar and spice. you need glasses AND a class on reading comprehension.

YOU DONT GET IT obviously cause youre making statements that dont pertain to what I have been saying: and I dont have to have kids to understand and how to be a protective parent.



girlgirl33...you are right. You dont have to be a parent to know what is right or wrong.

Posted 2/12/06 1:49 PM
 

neenie

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by PrincessP

Someone else brought up guilt vs criminal acts regarding parents not me. Back to my main point (not being kids left in cars or being stolen from cars), I think 10 yr old girls should be allowed to go in womens bathrooms solo.



i dont disagree with letting her go into the bathroom herself, and (the dad) waiting right outside of the door. Give it 5 minutes, if shes not out, then take action.

BUT, i think its different if it was because (now i sound like i'm beating a dead horse) HIM that needed to go.

Posted 2/12/06 1:50 PM
 

MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: mens rooms

I dont care what you think but I can honestly say that I have NEVER LEFT my children in the front alone EVER

Message edited 2/12/2006 1:51:07 PM.

Posted 2/12/06 1:50 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Could of she gone in by herself- yes

If dad had to go though... then he did the right thing... plain and simple...

If your DH came home and said, Jenny got abducted at the movie theater because I had to pee... you'd say to him... "why couldnt you hold it" or "Why didnt you bring him in"

He did the right thing...botttom line! He was protected his child... bottom line...

I can only hope my DH would do the same in that situation...

And as for leaving a child in a car.... Im sorry... leaving a CHILD in a car unattended is STUPID!

Posted 2/12/06 1:50 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Did anyone ever see that news special where they take kids whose parents have warned them about abducters and such and they are early teens and they approach these kids and the parenst watch and some kids actually get in the car. The parents are watchign this so you never know what yur kid would do. If you have ever seen this you know what i am talking about Parents were convinced NOT MY KID MY KID WOULD NEVER GET IN A CAR WITH A STRANGERE wel gyuess what half of them did! so how do you know???

Message edited 2/12/2006 1:52:11 PM.

Posted 2/12/06 1:51 PM
 

PrincessP
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Re: mens rooms

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

well obviously you do need a class because you are willing to leave your kid alone in a car while your in a store and you think thats ok



I hope you are not talking to me because once again the whole CAR DRAMA has nothing to do with me. I said for the last time if I saw someone elses child left in a car, I would not call the cops if they were 10 and 12.

Posted 2/12/06 1:51 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by 04bride

Did anyone ever see that news special where they take kids whose parents have warned them about abducters and such and they are early teens and they approach these kids and the parenst watch and some kids actually get in teh car. The parents are watchignthis so you never knowwhat yur kid would do. If you have ever seen this youknow what iu am talkingbaout Parenst were convinced NOT MY KID MY KID WOULD NEVER GET IN A CAR WITH A STRANGERE wel gyuess what half odf them did! so how do you know???



huh?

Posted 2/12/06 1:51 PM
 

MommyofG
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Re: mens rooms

Posted by Princessmaris

As someone else said, when you become a parent, and your are overwhelmed with love and responsibilty, your views ( with the exception of a few VERY SMART, non moms who are posting) will change

this is RUDE- just because you ARE a mom doesnt make us NON moms unable to be PROTECTIVE mothers or person!

Posted 2/12/06 1:51 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by PrincessP

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girlgirl33...you are right. You dont have to be a parent to know what is right or wrong.



No- but hopefully after she has kids...she'll learn... because the things she's saying now, is ridiculous!

Posted 2/12/06 1:52 PM
 

justme1
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Re: mens rooms

I think its impossible for any mom to watch their kids 24-7.
I think what some of us are saying is that we do the best we can with what we have control over..
I have control over leaving my children alone in a public place or in a car..

Posted 2/12/06 1:52 PM
 

neenie

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by PrincessP
You dont have to be a parent to know what is right or wrong.



i agree. But, i also agree that alot of views do change once you Do have kids (again, i Dont have kids, but this is my opinion).

Posted 2/12/06 1:53 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by Princessmaris

As someone else said, when you become a parent, and your are overwhelmed with love and responsibilty, your views ( with the exception of a few VERY SMART, non moms who are posting) will change

this is RUDE- just because you ARE a mom doesnt make us NON moms unable to be PROTECTIVE mothers or person!



Let me tell ya...

Neenie and Deb (well Deb your a mom, your baby just not here yet) are right on the money- and there not moms... you my dear... are somewhere else!

Posted 2/12/06 1:53 PM
 
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