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Charly
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mom's of girls...

do you ever get annoyed when people keep calling her a "him"?

I know I shouldn't let it bother me, but it does sometimes. There are days she's in all pink and I can't for the life of me think they really think she's a boy. I can't wait for her to have some hair that I can put in a bow. Maybe that will make it clear!!!

Posted 11/7/07 1:45 PM
 
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SweetCin
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Cin

Re: mom's of girls...

It happens to my DD all the time...even on posts here Chat Icon she has barely no hair at all yet

Posted 11/7/07 1:50 PM
 

dawnygirl25
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Re: mom's of girls...

I used to always try to keep bows in Alyssa's hair for this reason. if she doesnt have enough hair for a clip - maybe a headband?Chat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 1:56 PM
 

FrankiesGirl107
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Re: mom's of girls...

It drives me crazy! The other day I had her in a pink outfit, with a pink patterned blanket and a bib that said "Thank heaven for little girls."

This man comes up and says "He's very cute!" ?!?!?!?!!?!?!?

Posted 11/7/07 1:57 PM
 

LisaI
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Re: mom's of girls...

Chat Icon Chat Icon YES! I still get this very rarel now, but it annoys me to no end. She would be in full on pink from head to toe and people still would be like, he's so cute... It's b/c she had no hair for so long, but I still think she looked like a girlChat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 2:12 PM
 

FireIslandLove

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Re: mom's of girls...

UGH! And sometimes my response is "She's wearing a PINK dress!!!!" So HUH? Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 2:14 PM
 

bee
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Re: mom's of girls...

ALL THE TIME.
People always mistaken her for a boy. I know she has short hair (we shaved her head when she was 7 months), but hello, she's wearing girl colors.

We usually get:
"Oh, he is so cute."
"Hello, handsome."
"How old is he?"

My favorite, a 4 year old asks her dad: "Daddy, is that a boy or a girl, I can't tell."

Posted 11/7/07 2:34 PM
 

Smileyd17
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Re: mom's of girls...

She gets it all the time. I correct them and laugh.

I dont get it though, she always either in pink/ purple...or a dress.

HELLO???

Message edited 11/7/2007 2:36:13 PM.

Posted 11/7/07 2:35 PM
 

LuvMy2Girls
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Re: mom's of girls...

Didn't happen with my oldest since she was born with rod stewarts hair do from the 80s, but my 2nd has peach fuzzies, and it doesn't bother me all that much. I just reply with SHE is .......and that usually embarrasses them enough to leave me aloneChat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 2:39 PM
 

DandN
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Re: mom's of girls...

happens a lot - no matter what she's wearing. Not much hair on her head, so I guess in the absence of a hairbow, she's a boy - even if she's wearing a pink outfit or a dress. Chat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 3:13 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: mom's of girls...

It used to drive me crazy but I overdressed her in pink to clear it up. Now she's all about the dresses, so there is no mistake.

Posted by SweetCin

It happens to my DD all the time...even on posts here Chat Icon she has barely no hair at all yet




Actually I noticed that which is why I suggested an outfit on the santa hat. I think people assume nipples showing mean boy - even for babies.

Posted 11/7/07 3:16 PM
 

MommyofG
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Re: mom's of girls...

I guess b/c I dress her very girly, I have never had that problem.
but it would annoy me if it did. Chat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 3:32 PM
 

carolyns4cupcakes
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Re: mom's of girls...

that was one of the benefits of having her ears pierced so young.

Posted 11/7/07 3:34 PM
 

Belladonna219
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Re: mom's of girls...

I dont have a girl but the other day my neighbor asked "what's her name?" I say" HIS name is Nicholas". "OH I thought he was a girl"!!

What the heck!

Posted 11/7/07 3:35 PM
 

Eireann
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Re: mom's of girls...

It's happened a bunch of times, but it doesn't bother me--I figure it's like how people always assume animals are "boys" plus my infant carrier is blue. The best is when she's in floral or something! Most of the time I don't even bother correcting them.

However, I would never assume any baby was one gender or another--I would ask!

Posted 11/7/07 3:37 PM
 

CunningOne
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Re: mom's of girls...

Happens to me ALL the time. I guess with DD's hair growing in all crazy like a mullet, she can look a little boyish, but she is always in all PINK. The lady in CVS siad to me the other day "My you are blessed to have two beautiful boys". Chat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 4:47 PM
 

purplegirl
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Re: mom's of girls...

It is so annoying! She was wearing pants with brown flowers and someone in the mall asked me if I wanted to sign HIM up for a child modeling agency. No thanks!

Posted 11/7/07 5:35 PM
 

Karebaby
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Re: mom's of girls...

That used to happen to us all the timeChat Icon So I started putting hair bows or headband on her and it didn't happen as often but every now and then someone would say,"Oh he's so cute!"Chat Icon Like I would put a hair bow on a boy, come on now!

Posted 11/7/07 6:53 PM
 

MelToddJulia
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Re: mom's of girls...

I use to hear this all the time when Julia was small and her hair was so short, I was always hear what a cute son I had-lol After a while I would just say thanks....Chat Icon She would be dressed in all pink too, I'm like hello are ya blind--lol

Posted 11/7/07 6:55 PM
 

Tany
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Re: mom's of girls...

yes, it bother me so much, even with long hair, people have said she looked like a boy, but hello she is wearing pink.

So annoying!!Chat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 6:56 PM
 

Spring Baby06
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Jillian

Re: mom's of girls...

Yeah, sometimes it gets to me...but then I really think about it, and they(strangers) mean no harm. I get it a lot from older people. She is only starting to get hair now at alomost 20 months. I was a baldy until 2...some thing you just gotta let roll off your back!

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Posted 11/7/07 6:57 PM
 

2kids2cats
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Re: mom's of girls...

Yes even when she is in ALL pink WITH EARRINGS. Some people are just clueless. Not all little girls are born with a full head of hair!!Chat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 7:44 PM
 

nymommy2be
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Re: mom's of girls...

we get the opposite. I put DS in obvious boy clothes and people say "she is so beautiful"Chat Icon Chat Icon It drives me crazy.

Posted 11/7/07 7:47 PM
 

pmpkn087
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Re: mom's of girls...

Posted by nymommy2be

we get the opposite. I put DS in obvious boy clothes and people say "she is so beautiful"Chat Icon Chat Icon It drives me crazy.



That's because he has such a beautiful face and beautiful thick, long hairChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 7:50 PM
 

CkGm
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Christine

Re: mom's of girls...

we are so used to it. She even has hair and is all in pink and STILL people call her a boy. We just laugh now but I get annoyed when DH even says it.

Jodi- just another similarity between our girlsChat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 8:35 PM
 
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