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nbc188
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Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Does this happen when you change your DD's diaper??

DD screams and clenches her legs together when I have to thoroughly clean her "privates" (I can't say any other words, I'm such a prude Chat Icon Chat Icon )...this happens about 90% of the time, esp. after cleaning up poop that I want to make sure I got everything.

I spoke to her ped a few weeks ago, he said it's perfectly normal for the age group...she's not irritated or anything in there, she looks perfectly fine.

I was wondering if it WAS common, or if it was because of her testing she had a few months ago that was invasive down there, but she was sedated when it occurred but may have felt some residual discomfort from it afterwards, and she's just afraid that will happen again.

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Posted 1/28/09 9:15 PM
 
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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Ava's not in diapers, but she still doesn't like to be "wiped" down there. I def. think it's normal.

Posted 1/28/09 9:18 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Well, I have a boyChat Icon

But he does this too, obviously not to the same degree b/c his is on the outside, but he does it with his butt too.

I think *maybe* they are learning to either be embarrassed or that poop is kinda gross?Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/09 9:18 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

My niece did that. DD has not yet hit that stage.

Posted 1/28/09 9:20 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Yup! DD tells me "No" if I try to really clean inside. "No, Mommy do it!" I know it doesn't hurt her b/c she tells me when things hurt her. I just think somehow she knows that they are her privates---which to me is great!

Posted 1/28/09 9:22 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Thanks for the replies ladies Chat Icon

She's fine with being wiped down there, it's just when I pull things apart for a deep cleaning (way too graphic, I know, but I don't know what else to say Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon ) that she gets soooo upset.

Posted 1/28/09 9:23 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Also a mom of a boy, but Logan's started to cover up and freak if I have to pull back to clean.

I tihnk Kate's right, there's a new awareness of some things.

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Posted 1/28/09 9:24 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Posted by nbc188

Thanks for the replies ladies Chat Icon

She's fine with being wiped down there, it's just when I pull things apart for a deep cleaning (way too graphic, I know, but I don't know what else to say Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon ) that she gets soooo upset.



DD does this too! She totally freaks, especially when I'm trying to clean the poop out of all the crevices!

Posted 1/28/09 9:36 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

DD does this, too!

Posted 1/28/09 9:39 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Posted by InShock

DD does this, too!

so does mine.

Posted 1/28/09 10:06 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Lily isn't a fan of the thorough cleaning either.

Posted 1/28/09 10:11 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Well, it must be common because it happens to us too- very recently! All of a sudden, DD does this- and never did before!

Posted 1/28/09 10:20 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

My DD is only 11 months but does this EVERY time I need to give her a good cleaning.

Posted 1/28/09 10:55 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

OK I am wondering about this "thorough examination" you speak of......

Posted 1/28/09 11:01 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

It happens over here - and now because of this post, I feel sooooo much better

It started a couple of weeks ago, but this past week, when we wipe down there - she says 'Uck' every time!!

She does not like it at all.

it has gotten a little better the last two days, when I gave her a baby wipe and told her to wipe herself. So she wipes and then she lets me wipe Chat Icon Chat Icon Freakin Drama Queen I have Chat Icon

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Posted 1/28/09 11:11 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Posted by nbc188

Thanks for the replies ladies Chat Icon

She's fine with being wiped down there, it's just when I pull things apart for a deep cleaning (way too graphic, I know, but I don't know what else to say Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon ) that she gets soooo upset.



Kristina does the same thing.... After her bad diaper rash, I take no chances, so when I spread her lala open to make sure that there aren't any party favors left over.... She tries to push me away, or clamp her legs together.

Sorry baby girl..... mommy is stronger and bigger! I am going to make sure that EVERYTHING is clean! Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/09 11:29 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Same here..DD clamps her knees together & she has got some powerful legs.

Posted 1/28/09 11:34 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Posted by KateDevine

Well, I have a boyChat Icon

But he does this too, obviously not to the same degree b/c his is on the outside, but he does it with his butt too.



same with my DS and his little tushy LOL

Posted 1/28/09 11:59 PM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Posted by Marcie

It started a couple of weeks ago, but this past week, when we wipe down there - she says 'Uck' every time!!



SAme for us! DD will say "EEEEWWWW!!" Because we usually refer to her poopies as "EW!"...so even when it's just pee she's like "EEEEEW!' and I'm trying to convey to her that her privates are not "EW!" Chat Icon just the poopie!!!

She doesn't always like to have herself wiped either. Most of the time I try to distract her with something so she's more interested in that than what I'm doing.

Posted 1/29/09 7:34 AM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

DD doesn't like it either-sometimes she is more upset than other times. It's good to know it's not just us!

Posted 1/29/09 8:16 AM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Posted by KateDevine

Well, I have a boyChat Icon

But he does this too, obviously not to the same degree b/c his is on the outside, but he does it with his butt too.

I think *maybe* they are learning to either be embarrassed or that poop is kinda gross?Chat Icon



Same here! He clenches his little tush together that I need to pry it open to get it there - and he covers his penis with his hand the entire time! Chat Icon

Posted 1/29/09 8:47 AM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Marron does the same thing. Clenches everything and even tightens up her legs so they are kind of straight up in the air and I can't even move them. I thought it was just her because she's had a really bad rash in the past few weeks.

Posted 1/29/09 9:08 AM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Hailey is now potty trained but she did/does the same thing when she gets wiped. I just assumed that she is sensitive.

Posted 1/29/09 9:32 AM
 

nbc188
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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Ok, thanks everyone Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Not that I want other little ones to be unhappy during diaper changes, but I'm glad to hear that it's not that DD was traumatized from her procedure.

Thanks girls! Chat Icon

Posted 1/29/09 9:33 AM
 

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Re: Moms of girls in diapers (most likely toddlers)

Thank you sooo much for posting this.. Ive had this concern for awhile now and was afraid to ask. My dd is only taken care of family so didnt think anything physically happend to her, but it still crossed my mind. Im soo happy to hear other little girls are doing this too!!

Posted 1/29/09 9:35 AM
 
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