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bicosi
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
Why are you upset?
You aren't being straight to the point with her.. she isn't a mindreader and has a gazillion things going on right now that quite frankly, your situation is the last thing on her mind.. If I was her, I'd be thinking that you're trying to blow me off and not what the real problem is.. so just come out with it and tell her...beating around the bush isn't solving your problem! 
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bicosi
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
wait, your mom can watch him for the weekend?
if that's the case, then what's the problem? you said he takes bottles.. so just leave him with your mom..
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| Posted 3/16/11 4:39 PM |
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4PsInaPod
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
Posted by bicosi
wait, your mom can watch him for the weekend?
if that's the case, then what's the problem? you said he takes bottles.. so just leave him with your mom..
She doesn't want to leave him for 3 days. Stated in OP.
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| Posted 3/16/11 4:43 PM |
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bicosi
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
Posted by DPerotti
Posted by bicosi
wait, your mom can watch him for the weekend?
if that's the case, then what's the problem? you said he takes bottles.. so just leave him with your mom..
She doesn't want to leave him for 3 days. Stated in OP.
actually, she said she had no one to watch him but then in another post said her mom could.. which is why i got confused..
Message edited 3/16/2011 4:46:30 PM.
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| Posted 3/16/11 4:45 PM |
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LadyBug1209
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
Posted by bicosi
Why are you upset?
You aren't being straight to the point with her.. she isn't a mindreader and has a gazillion things going on right now that quite frankly, your situation is the last thing on her mind.. If I was her, I'd be thinking that you're trying to blow me off and not what the real problem is.. so just come out with it and tell her...beating around the bush isn't solving your problem!
I know.. I'm a big wuss LOL. I know she doesn't want to be bothered with this, so I just feel bad, ya know? I just know if it were me, I would DEF tell her to bring her DC. It's HER wedding though, not mine, so I have to deal. After giving it some thought and reading everyones responses, bringing him to the wedding just isn't an option. It's all fine and dandy now, but on the day of, I'm going to be going nuts... I already know that.
My parents can only watch him Satuday night into Sunday. I think I've decided to skip the RD and just go up Saturday morning for all the wedding festivities an d get a sitter for the daytime.
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| Posted 3/16/11 4:49 PM |
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LadyBug1209
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
Posted by bicosi
Posted by DPerotti
Posted by bicosi
wait, your mom can watch him for the weekend?
if that's the case, then what's the problem? you said he takes bottles.. so just leave him with your mom..
She doesn't want to leave him for 3 days. Stated in OP.
actually, she said she had no one to watch him but then in another post said her mom could.. which is why i got confused..
I only have someone (parents) from 6pm on Saturday into Sunday.
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| Posted 3/16/11 4:50 PM |
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4PsInaPod
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
Posted by Maria31
My parents can only watch him Satuday night into Sunday. I think I've decided to skip the RD and just go up Saturday morning for all the wedding festivities an d get a sitter for the daytime.
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| Posted 3/16/11 4:51 PM |
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bicosi
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
Posted by Maria31
Posted by bicosi
Posted by DPerotti
Posted by bicosi
wait, your mom can watch him for the weekend?
if that's the case, then what's the problem? you said he takes bottles.. so just leave him with your mom..
She doesn't want to leave him for 3 days. Stated in OP.
actually, she said she had no one to watch him but then in another post said her mom could.. which is why i got confused..
I only have someone (parents) from 6pm on Saturday into Sunday.
ah, okay..
I know it stinks! trust me.. leaving them the first night is a horrible feeling but you will be okay...He will be fine.. just think of it as a nice weekend with your DH and your friends..
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| Posted 3/16/11 4:52 PM |
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brownie
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
Just tell her....if you're close enough w/her to be in her bridal party, I'm sure you two can figure out an arrangement that works for the both of you.
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| Posted 3/16/11 4:55 PM |
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LadyBug1209
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
THANKS LADIES!!! 
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| Posted 3/16/11 4:56 PM |
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Janice
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
odd man out here...i would just bring baby.
maybe she won't understand now...but one day she will.
why should you have to sit home and stress this upcoming wonderful event in your bff's life?
it is a baby, not a barking dog...not a screaming toddler...not an underage drinking tween.
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| Posted 3/16/11 6:25 PM |
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smdl
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
Can you bring DH?
I would bring both of them. The two of them stay at the hotel.
You will need BFing breaks also. You cannot go the whole day/reception without pumping. My sister tried that. Engorgement, mastitis. The party was longer than she thought.
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| Posted 3/16/11 6:26 PM |
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Bridex100
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Re: Need some opinions! OOT Wedding - WWYD?
She is your best friend. I would just ask her.
I would be prepared to have DH stay in the room with DC. We went to a few weddings when DS was 4m old. He was invited but we still chose not to bring him. At one wedding OOT wedding, DH didn't attend the ceremony and reception and went back to the room with DS.
Maybe my DH just isn't into weddings but he wouldn't mind watching DS while I went to the rehearsal dinner, wedding, etc. You could BF/pump before you leave the room. No big deal.
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