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Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

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CaMacho
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Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

Since I don't want to know, but am kinda still up in the air, and DH really really wants to know asap, we decided to do this (a cute idea I found online somewhere):

At the 20wk u/s we're going to have the sono tech write either BOY or GIRL, whatever she determines it is, on a piece of paper and seal it in an envelope. I'm going to give the envelope to my mom and wherever she has the cake done for my shower she's going to give the envelope to them still sealed. They will open it and either put blue or pink icing in the middle of the cake (and not tell us a thing), depending on if it's Chat Icon or Chat Icon written on the paper! Then at the end of my shower DH and I will cut the cake together and we'll either see pink or blue and get to share the moment with those we love!

The only thing is actually NOT opening that envelope for 10+ weeks... we'll have to give it to someone to hold on to until I see my Mom so we're not tempted. Chat Icon

Think we'll be able to hold out?

Posted 2/5/09 12:39 PM
 
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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

that is a VERY cute idea - but there is no way on earth your mom won't open that envelope...

my mom would - no matter what....(she might try to hold it up to the light) - but she'd get that sucker open!

we didn't want to know at first, but as the weeks' went by - i changed my tune pretty quickly!

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

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Posted 2/5/09 12:41 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

My girlfriend did something of the sorts. She had the tech write boy or girl on the envelope and gave it to her mom. She had her mom read the results and told all of the guests on the shower invitation it was a girl - At her shower her mom decorated everything pink with lots of "It's a Girl" stuff.

Cute idea! Chat Icon

Posted 2/5/09 12:44 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

that is such a cute idea!

Posted 2/5/09 12:45 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

That is SUCH a cute idea!

I do agree about your mom looking though. I know my mom would, also!Chat Icon

Posted 2/5/09 12:45 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

What a CUTE idea! I wish I had the willpower to wait to find out the sex but if they could have told me at 5 wks I would have wanted to know!.......Like the PP said do you think your mom will really be able to keep that envelope sealed???!?! Chat Icon Bravo to you and DH though for willpower!

Posted 2/5/09 12:46 PM
 

CaMacho
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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

Posted by davenjess

that is a VERY cute idea - but there is no way on earth your mom won't open that envelope...



My mom definitely wouldn't open it if I told her not to! She actually kept the pregnancy a secret (which I thought would have been impossible for her) until we had our u/s at 11 weeks.

I actually told her the idea already and she LOVED it. It will be especially nice b/c she and the rest of my family live in NY and we live in FL so when we go up for the shower some family members will be seeing me for the first time pregnant.

Posted 2/5/09 12:48 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

Just a thought..since you are finding out the sex anyway maybe do it before your shower so you get gender specific items? Just a thought!!...I still think its amazing you would want to share that experience with your family......the room will be silent for sure!

Posted 2/5/09 12:49 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

That is so sweet - you brought tears to my eyes as I pictured you & DH finding out in front of your families together Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/5/09 12:50 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

What a cute idea!!

Posted 2/5/09 12:51 PM
 

CaMacho
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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

Posted by NoahsArkTummy

Just a thought..since you are finding out the sex anyway maybe do it before your shower so you get gender specific items? Just a thought!



That's the thing, I don't want all pink or all blue stuff. I actually like green and yellow and most of the baby stuff we like as of now is mostly neutral anyway.

Posted 2/5/09 12:54 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

Posted by CaMacho

Posted by NoahsArkTummy

Just a thought..since you are finding out the sex anyway maybe do it before your shower so you get gender specific items? Just a thought!



That's the thing, I don't want all pink or all blue stuff. I actually like green and yellow and most of the baby stuff we like as of now is mostly neutral anyway.



we are SO on the same page! We're not revealing the sex to everyone until the shower...for that EXACT reason! I LOVE green and yellow stuff - frogs and duckies are my FAVORITES!!!!!!!!!!!

At the shower - i'll have a shirt on that says what we're having....and we'll give a prize to those who guessed correctly based on how i'm carrying....

Posted 2/5/09 12:56 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

I think your family is going to be so honored that you included them in such a personal moment!....You will probably not have a dry eye in the place...good tears of course!

Posted 2/5/09 12:56 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

Thats an amazing idea!!!! I love it!

Posted 2/5/09 12:59 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

Cute idea - I have a silly question though, who will be picking up the cake? Won't they see the color then, or maybe you can ask the bakery to put it in a white box and wrap it up tight

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Posted 2/5/09 1:10 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

I LOVE that idea! So cute!!!

Posted 2/5/09 1:11 PM
 

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omg thats the cutest thing i've ever heard!!!!! what a great idea!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/5/09 1:11 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

I think it's a very cute idea and if you don't mind greens and yellows at your shower you should def. do it!

Posted 2/5/09 1:13 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

i did this with my son- except i kep the paper- and i cheated the day after the sono.

Posted 2/5/09 1:16 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

That is such a cute idea...We are doing something similar.

We are going to have the tech write it on a paper & seal it in an envelope. Then DH & I are going to go to a nice dinner & will open it together. This way we can share in the moment instead of hearing the tech say it.

Then we will announce it to family on Easter (since our level 2 will be right before that)

Posted 2/5/09 1:24 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

Posted by Mikismom

Cute idea - I have a silly question though, who will be picking up the cake? Won't they see the color then, or maybe you can ask the bakery to put it in a white box and wrap it up tight

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I think the blue or pink will be in the middle of the cake...inside.


I think it's a great idea!!!!

Posted 2/5/09 1:29 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

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Posted by Mikismom

Cute idea - I have a silly question though, who will be picking up the cake? Won't they see the color then, or maybe you can ask the bakery to put it in a white box and wrap it up tight

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I think the blue or pink will be in the middle of the cake...inside.


I think it's a great idea!!!!



ahh, makes sense now, thanks Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/5/09 1:30 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

That is such a sweet idea! I love it! The suspense will be hard, but so worth it! It will be incredible! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/5/09 1:40 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

that is soooooooooo cute - i wish we had the willpower to do that

Posted 2/5/09 1:44 PM
 

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Re: Ok, so this is what DH and I decided to do when it comes time to finding out the sex of the baby...

Cute idea!

Posted 2/5/09 1:52 PM
 
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