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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
this recently happened when I went to a funeral service at my best friends moms house.....her bother saw the chocolate cake I brought and said he was taking it home and then he HID it.....I found it very odd.....my bfs dh tried to unhide it and put it out for guests but it was hidden again
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Diane
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
I find this rude
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| Posted 5/17/11 5:33 PM |
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jgl
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Yea rude. Not a big deal if there were 2 of the sane dessert brought or if she took one out for herself to make sure she got it.
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| Posted 5/17/11 5:36 PM |
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munchkinbugs
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
That's VERY rude!!
It's one thing if they just forgot in the rush of getting food out. But to say it and then not put them out!! 
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| Posted 5/17/11 5:44 PM |
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dbleplay17
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
VERY RUDE jmo
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| Posted 5/17/11 6:05 PM |
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MrsFrizzle
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
My mom does this sometimes and it drives me crazy. I dont see anything wrong with cutting a slice or putting some cookies or something extra on the side for the host but seriously not to serve it at all? I didnt make it for you I made it for everyone. Same goes for something you bought.
My mom sees nothing wrong with it so now I dont tell her what I bring for dessert until it's time for dessert and put it out myself. So yes I think it's kinda rude.
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| Posted 5/17/11 6:16 PM |
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JennZ
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Yes, more tacky than rude.
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Eireann
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Does this remind anyone of the "marble rye" in Seinfeld? George's parents bring it to Susan's parents' for dinner, but they never put it out so Mr. Costanza takes it back home. George is all mortified and wants to buy a new one to put it back and sends Jerry to get one (and he steals it from that old lady) and then...
he gets caught!
Nobody? 
Anyway, I wouldn't think to much about it, but yeah, I'd think it was weird.
Message edited 5/17/2011 7:20:05 PM.
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HeathKernandez
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
now i want cupcakes. thanks
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| Posted 5/17/11 7:26 PM |
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kelkel09
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Posted by Eireann
Does this remind anyone of the "marble rye" in Seinfeld? George's parents bring it to Susan's parents' for dinner, but they never put it out so Mr. Costanza takes it back home. George is all mortified and wants to buy a new one to put it back and sends Jerry to get one (and he steals it from that old lady) and then...
IMAGE
he gets caught!
Nobody?
Anyway, I wouldn't think to much about it, but yeah, I'd think it was weird.
 this is exactly what DH said!
Message edited 5/17/2011 7:29:40 PM.
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| Posted 5/17/11 7:29 PM |
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jellybean78
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Totally rude. She could have just taken one or two for herself
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| Posted 5/17/11 7:32 PM |
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MrsA1012
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
100 % rude.
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| Posted 5/17/11 7:39 PM |
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dawnygirl25
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
VERY rude 
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missfabulous
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Rude, tacky, and cheap. can't she just buy her own cupcakes!??
ETA- I meant buy her own for another day. Obviously the ones you brought were for the party since she asked!
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| Posted 5/17/11 8:26 PM |
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Kmarie36
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
She could have kept one for herself and put the rest out. That is rude
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| Posted 5/17/11 8:46 PM |
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Jax430
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Posted by LightUpOurLife
If she kept one or two aside for herself to enjoy the next day I wouldn't have a problem with it, but to not put any out is rude.
Agreed.
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| Posted 5/17/11 8:57 PM |
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ThePinkGoose
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Posted by Sandy55
Rude.
I would have mentioned it to her at dessert time. Even jokingly, "Hey...where are my cupcakes??!"
Exactly!
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| Posted 5/17/11 9:09 PM |
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Christine
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
I think its rude only because she asked you to bring dessert but I can see holding stuff back if a host ends up with too many, I once had a smallish family party where there were actually more desserts then people...I just couldn't open everything because most of it would go to waste.
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| Posted 5/17/11 9:17 PM |
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Frenchy49
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
I have to agree with everyone...it is rude of her because they weren't meant for her alone they were for everyone. If she really needed to have one (which I can't blame her because they are yummy) I would have taken one for myself and put the rest out for everyone as long as there was enough for everyone to enjoy.
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Goobster
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Thats rude. I know someone who does this too. Guess they think its a gift for them.
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| Posted 5/17/11 9:53 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Extremely Rude!
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Mrs213
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Very rude
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butterfly20
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Posted by CaMacho
I would have thought she was joking, how many did you bring? She could have kept one or two for herself and put the rest out...
agreed.... I could see keeping one or two aside but not withholding the whole thing...... I do try and bring desserts which I eat and dh will eat. ( dh can not eat dairy so he's restricted from alot of the desserts), so yeah I'd be a little ticked if someone withheld my cupcakes...
eta- stuff never goes to waste with our parties. I open everything up. When the party is over I save a little of the stuff I want, and send everyone else home with samplers of desserts leftover. If I love something I cut myself a larger leftover piece.
Message edited 5/17/2011 11:27:50 PM.
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mypumpkin
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Seriously I love cupcakes and would have said~ hey I love Crumbs too and was looking forward to having one!
My SIL does the funniest thing with desserts at her house. I will bring a delicious all chocolate cake, because we both love chocolate, and she will wrap up all the 'other' desserts when the party is over and send them with me, but she keeps the rest of the chocolate cake I brought all for herself!
I am thinking hey I don't want all the gross desserts for my kids, we want chocolate! lol
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familyoffive
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Re: bringing food to a party: would you think this is rude?
Very rude.
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