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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
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Samantha aka Sammy Bones
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Relationship question here...
Does anyone's SO.. Get in really crappy moods?? Like acts like a child??
Ryan gets in these moods sometimes and I can't take it.. Then when I tell him he's being nasty he flips out and runs away from the situation, by either hanging up on me or walking away, and I find it really childish.. We got into a fight yesterday and he hung up on me. I called him 3x after I got out of the gym and texted him and its 10am and I have yet to hear from him
If your hunny gets like this what do you do to help the situation 
Thanks 
OH and Don, I would like a guys perspective on this too 
Message edited 12/7/2006 10:03:41 AM.
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nixy
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Re: Relationship question here...
I am the one that gets like this.
I usually just need some time to realize I am acting like a 4 yr old and then I snap out of it.
My DH making me laugh usually speeds up the process....although I try to pretend it's not working and that I am still mad.
My DH calling me brat DOES NOT help!
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| Posted 12/7/06 10:06 AM |
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greenfreak
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greenfreak
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Re: Relationship question here...
DH and I don't really fight but he gets like that too. And tries to pick a fight.
When he acts like a child, I treat him like one. I ignore him. I make it look like I couldn't care less, even though I do.
Sometimes it takes minutes, sometimes hours, but eventually we talk about it like adults. He just doesn't realize that I can see right through him and these childish ways sometimes.
We never ever go to sleep angry, so we always work it out. Even if we're laying in the dark, in bed, we work on it.
HTH! 
Message edited 12/7/2006 10:13:49 AM.
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| Posted 12/7/06 10:13 AM |
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Shorty
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by greenfreak
DH and I don't really fight but he gets like that too. And tries to pick a fight.
When he acts like a child, I treat him like one. I ignore him. I make it look like I couldn't care less, even though I do.
Sometimes it takes minutes, sometimes hours, but eventually we talk about it like adults. He just doesn't realize that I can see right through him and these childish ways sometimes.
We never ever go to sleep angry, so we always work it out. Even if we're laying in the dark, in bed, we work on it.
HTH!
same here!
i chalk it up to male PMS.
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| Posted 12/7/06 10:15 AM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
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Re: Relationship question here...
I usually just ignore him, also. I used to call obsessively but realized that was EXACTLY what he wanted. So, I stopped. Now I'll go all day without talking to him if he starts acting that way, I don't care. I can't deal with it and won't. There are enough problems that we have to deal with in our everyday work/social/LIF lives that we don't need sh*t at home, too.
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| Posted 12/7/06 10:17 AM |
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
Member since 8/06 6636 total posts
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Samantha aka Sammy Bones
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by Shorty
Posted by greenfreak
DH and I don't really fight but he gets like that too. And tries to pick a fight.
When he acts like a child, I treat him like one. I ignore him. I make it look like I couldn't care less, even though I do.
Sometimes it takes minutes, sometimes hours, but eventually we talk about it like adults. He just doesn't realize that I can see right through him and these childish ways sometimes.
We never ever go to sleep angry, so we always work it out. Even if we're laying in the dark, in bed, we work on it.
HTH!
same here!
i chalk it up to male PMS.
It gets so bad, that he acts so childish its really a turn off... like grow up and act like a man seriously  
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| Posted 12/7/06 10:18 AM |
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
Member since 8/06 6636 total posts
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Samantha aka Sammy Bones
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by LaurenExp
I usually just ignore him, also. I used to call obsessively but realized that was EXACTLY what he wanted. So, I stopped. Now I'll go all day without talking to him if he starts acting that way, I don't care. I can't deal with it and won't. There are enough problems that we have to deal with in our everyday work/social/LIF lives that we don't need sh*t at home, too.
Yea, thats what I am doing.. if he calls me today I WILL NOT answer any of his phone calls.. SORRRRYYYYYY!!!!
When you want to start acting like an adult let me know
FYI-don't piss me off.. i can get evil 
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| Posted 12/7/06 10:19 AM |
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KGools
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Re: Relationship question here...
lets just put it this way.... FH got all bent out of shape when I threw out 4 day old pizza... he just kept saying "I cna't believe you would throw out perfectly good pizza".
That is what he chooses to get all bent out of shape about. It's childish... I just ignore him
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| Posted 12/7/06 10:20 AM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by Libragal07
Yea, thats what I am doing.. if he calls me today I WILL NOT answer any of his phone calls.. SORRRRYYYYYY!!!!
When you want to start acting like an adult let me know
FYI-don't piss me off.. i can get evil
Good for you!
PS - I would never piss you off.
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| Posted 12/7/06 10:21 AM |
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anonttcer
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Re: Relationship question here...
Mine does the EXACT same thing.
If I say something that he knows is right and he KNOWS he is wrong- he will run away or freak out on me- rather than admit he is wrong.
He gets VERY defensive. I HATE it too because we can never have an adult discussion.
I'm sorry but it is VERY immature.
If I am wrong I will own up to it- not run away to avoid it.
I'm glad to hear it's not just mine who is like this.
Here's some hugs for you. He'll get over it- they always do! Men!!!
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| Posted 12/7/06 10:23 AM |
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sirk1020
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Re: Relationship question here...
I just walk away -- there is no talking to them when they get like that, and then it gets even more frustrating
he knows though that this is a one of the things I can't stand when we fight -(his walking away, or acting like a kindergardener)
so fortunately, it just takes a little while for dh to calm down and realize he is being a child and then he comes around, apologizes and usually offers to do something nice like make dinner
edit: and of course me not talking to him until he does, speeds up the process
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| Posted 12/7/06 10:26 AM |
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CowgirlChick97
Nike. Just do it.
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Re: Relationship question here...
he does this too. if he doesnt have enough sleepy hes a moody prickaroonie
i tell him hes actin like a huge panis--
i hate male pms
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| Posted 12/7/06 10:30 AM |
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
Member since 8/06 6636 total posts
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Samantha aka Sammy Bones
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Re: Relationship question here...
Just want to update everyone...
I still have YET..to hear from him
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| Posted 12/7/06 5:20 PM |
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2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair
Member since 5/06 19861 total posts
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Best Wife & Mommy
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by Libragal07
Just want to update everyone...
I still have YET..to hear from him
Aww, that is not good. Do not try to call him just wait until he gets home and then you approach him with whatever that is bothering you. Try not to yell and if he starts to yell then you be the bigger person and walk away until everything is calm. I hope you guys will talk soon.
Message edited 12/7/2006 5:25:08 PM.
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| Posted 12/7/06 5:24 PM |
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
Member since 8/06 6636 total posts
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Samantha aka Sammy Bones
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by BellaPaige
Posted by Libragal07
Just want to update everyone...
I still have YET..to hear from him
Aww, that is not good. Do not try to call him just wait until he gets home and then you approach him with whatever that is bothering you. Try not to yell and if he starts to yell then you be the bigger person and walk away until everything is calm. I hope you guys will talk soon.
and we don't live together... so its def not good   
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Re: Relationship question here...
I tell him he is a miserable ba$tard. I also tell him to snap out of it.
I leave him alone until he does. I used to chase him but I stopped. It made me nuts.
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| Posted 12/7/06 5:28 PM |
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LightUpOurLife
Totally in love
Member since 8/06 12785 total posts
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Re: Relationship question here...
OMG I am so glad to hear from all of you guys to hear that I am not the only one. Although I have to give kudos to the ladies who can just walk away. I can't do that. Any hints?
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| Posted 12/7/06 5:35 PM |
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2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair
Member since 5/06 19861 total posts
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Best Wife & Mommy
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by Libragal07
Posted by BellaPaige
Posted by Libragal07
Just want to update everyone...
I still have YET..to hear from him
Aww, that is not good. Do not try to call him just wait until he gets home and then you approach him with whatever that is bothering you. Try not to yell and if he starts to yell then you be the bigger person and walk away until everything is calm. I hope you guys will talk soon.
and we don't live together... so its def not good
I am really sorry I did not know that you are not living with your SO. Sorry, my mistake.
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| Posted 12/7/06 5:35 PM |
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
Member since 8/06 6636 total posts
Name:
Samantha aka Sammy Bones
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by BellaPaige
Posted by Libragal07
Posted by BellaPaige
Posted by Libragal07
Just want to update everyone...
I still have YET..to hear from him
Aww, that is not good. Do not try to call him just wait until he gets home and then you approach him with whatever that is bothering you. Try not to yell and if he starts to yell then you be the bigger person and walk away until everything is calm. I hope you guys will talk soon.
and we don't live together... so its def not good
I am really sorry I did not know that you are not living with your SO. Sorry, my mistake.
thats ok sweetie!! haha you didn't know
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| Posted 12/7/06 5:36 PM |
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Bri
I Love You to Pieces!
Member since 5/05 9919 total posts
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Re: Relationship question here...
Boys will be boys
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| Posted 12/7/06 5:36 PM |
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2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair
Member since 5/06 19861 total posts
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Best Wife & Mommy
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by Libragal07
Posted by BellaPaige
Posted by Libragal07
Posted by BellaPaige
Posted by Libragal07
Just want to update everyone...
I still have YET..to hear from him
Aww, that is not good. Do not try to call him just wait until he gets home and then you approach him with whatever that is bothering you. Try not to yell and if he starts to yell then you be the bigger person and walk away until everything is calm. I hope you guys will talk soon.
and we don't live together... so its def not good
I am really sorry I did not know that you are not living with your SO. Sorry, my mistake.
thats ok sweetie!! haha you didn't know
Do not chase him let him chase after you. He needs to stop the madness.
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| Posted 12/7/06 5:37 PM |
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
Member since 8/06 6636 total posts
Name:
Samantha aka Sammy Bones
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by BellaPaige
Posted by Libragal07
Posted by BellaPaige
Posted by Libragal07
Posted by BellaPaige
Posted by Libragal07
Just want to update everyone...
I still have YET..to hear from him
Aww, that is not good. Do not try to call him just wait until he gets home and then you approach him with whatever that is bothering you. Try not to yell and if he starts to yell then you be the bigger person and walk away until everything is calm. I hope you guys will talk soon.
and we don't live together... so its def not good
I am really sorry I did not know that you are not living with your SO. Sorry, my mistake.
thats ok sweetie!! haha you didn't know
Do not chase him let him chase after you. He needs to stop the madness.
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Relationship question here...
what does he do for a living?
is it high stress?
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| Posted 12/7/06 6:14 PM |
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
Member since 8/06 6636 total posts
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Samantha aka Sammy Bones
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
what does he do for a living?
is it high stress?
he just started working 3months ago in NYC for CBS Outdoor selling advertisement space
Message edited 12/7/2006 6:14:57 PM.
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| Posted 12/7/06 6:14 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Relationship question here...
Posted by Libragal07
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
what does he do for a living?
is it high stress?
he just started working 3months ago in NYC for CBS Outdoor selling advertisement space
no excuses for him
but that is stressful
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