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BabySurprise
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Small wedding help?

Hi everyone,

My FH and I are looking to have a small wedding (100 guests or less). I'm 5 months pregnant and don't want to have a huge grand wedding, we want to get married fairly quickly, and cheaply... Want to get married at the place. Can anyone recommend a place in Suffolk or maybe Nassau that isn't too expensive but nice? Has anyone ever been to just a restaurant? Married there and just dinner?

I'm so torn. We went to east wind and could get something for 15k but with baby on the way and a new house being closed on in the next month, we are strapped.

Any ideas? Thanks!

Posted 12/15/13 2:51 PM
 
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ElizaRags35
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Small wedding help?

Stonebridge Country Club
Brentwood Country Club
Smithtown Landing Country Club
Timber Point (had my wedding here and LOVVVVVED them!)
View
Shandon Court
Snapper Inn
Captain Bill's

Posted 12/15/13 3:19 PM
 

Whattheheck
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Re: Small wedding help?

My DD got married at the Snapper Inn. The food was excellent. They invited 60 people and it cost 5000. The gazebo was beautiful. The service was exceptional.

Posted 12/15/13 4:08 PM
 

LemonHead
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Small wedding help?

I was married at Miller Beach Surf Club. I think their max is 100

Posted 12/15/13 4:09 PM
 

jerrysgirl
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Re: Small wedding help?

My friend got married at a restaurant in Point Lookout, the Fisherman's Catch. It was really nice and simple.

Posted 12/15/13 4:53 PM
 

FranM
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Small wedding help?

Would you consider a Knights of Columbus - the Memarie Club in Seaford is very nice and very reasonable.

Posted 12/15/13 5:30 PM
 

2BadSoSad
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Re: Small wedding help?

Definitely check out Snapper Inn.

Posted 12/15/13 6:21 PM
 

MrsM429
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Re: Small wedding help?

Beach Club Estate in Lake Ronkonkoma (my cousin was married there in 2011- beautiful venue and delicious food)

Crest wood Manor in Northport

Thatched Cottage in Centerport

Snapper In in Oakdale

The View in Oakdale (our friends were married there this past June, loved this venue)

The Irish Coffee Pub in East Islip (never been to an event there, but I've had dinner there before and it's delicious)

Danfords Hotel in Port Jefferson

Posted 12/15/13 8:35 PM
 

Mrs213
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Small wedding help?

I to married at the west sayville country club, we had about 90 guests and it was very affordable

Posted 12/15/13 8:48 PM
 

WannaBeAMom11
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Small wedding help?

Skip Danfords its pricy.

Posted 12/15/13 8:54 PM
 

Bluechristmas
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Re: Small wedding help?

Milleridge Inn
Wantagh Inn
Irish Coffee Pub (so nice!!)

Posted 12/15/13 9:50 PM
 

Ookpik
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Re: Small wedding help?

Country House in Stony Brook!
Country House

Posted 12/15/13 9:56 PM
 

BabySurprise
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Me

Small wedding help?

Thank you everyone! I have a bunch of phone calls to make! :)

Posted 12/16/13 5:39 PM
 

Xelindrya
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Small wedding help?

10yrs ago I did Stewart Manor Country Club.. I was on a TIGHT and SMALL budget! but it was very nice.. huge fireplace!

Posted 12/16/13 5:44 PM
 

MommaG
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Gloria

Small wedding help?

Irish Coffee Pub - East Islip
Babylon Carriage House - Babylon
Villa Monaco in West Islip
Beachtree Café - East Islip

Posted 12/16/13 7:15 PM
 

RubyWoo
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Re: Small wedding help?

Would you consider having a brunch reception as opposed to a dinner? I went to a brunch wedding at Three Village Inn that was very nice. I'm sure other venues would offer this as well.

You could also do a cocktail party style reception, or a buffet to try to keep the cost down.

Posted 12/16/13 8:57 PM
 

frosty
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Re: Small wedding help?

Another vote for Snapper Inn.

I had my reception there (I got married elsewhere). We did a brunch reception and at the time (2005) it cost us around $35 per person and we had about 85 guests. They have since renovated the room we used (due to damage from Sandy), so I don't know how many people it can accommodate.

Posted 12/17/13 9:39 AM
 

APT910
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Re: Small wedding help?

Posted by Xelindrya

10yrs ago I did Stewart Manor Country Club.. I was on a TIGHT and SMALL budget! but it was very nice.. huge fireplace!



This is where I was going to recommend. My uncle got married there and it was very nice!

Posted 12/17/13 10:24 AM
 

Mtk1605
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Small wedding help?

i had a dinner after my church ceremony for 60 guests at bellport country club. I spent less than 4k with open bar (paid the tab at the end) they had music piped into the room we had an amazing appetizer, entree (3 to pick from) and dessert

Posted 12/17/13 12:59 PM
 

bpmom
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Re: Small wedding help?

Posted by Mrs213

I to married at the west sayville country club, we had about 90 guests and it was very affordable



Same here, and then we also had a bereavement event on very short notice. (DH's grandfather asked us to have a party after his funeral.) They worked with us on EVERYTHING....ask if Steve is still there and he'll handle it all.

Posted 12/17/13 1:15 PM
 

MrsM429
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Small wedding help?

My coworker just attended a wedding at the Bonwitt Inn in Commack, and was raving about it. They had around 80 people, and had a 4 hour package that included a salad, appetizer and a sit down dinner for less than 4k

Posted 12/17/13 1:52 PM
 

moonmist09
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Antonella

Small wedding help?

Millerridge Inn

Posted 12/17/13 2:29 PM
 

J9-13
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Re: Small wedding help?

Posted by LemonHead

I was married at Miller Beach Surf Club. I think their max is 100



Yes Yes Yes!
I just got married there in Oct. The min. is 75 and max 120! I had 72 ppl and it was PERFECT! and it's def. in your budget!
They were all amazing to work with and the food was delish!

Posted 12/18/13 1:34 PM
 

J9-13
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Re: Small wedding help?

Posted by Whattheheck

My DD got married at the Snapper Inn. The food was excellent. They invited 60 people and it cost 5000. The gazebo was beautiful. The service was exceptional.



This was in my top 2 of the venues I looked at. Great place!

Posted 12/18/13 1:35 PM
 

jessnbrian
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Jessica

Small wedding help?

Riviera - they can't even hold more than 150-ish, so 100 and under would be perfect. We had our wedding for $95/plate back in 2011 for August Saturday night, if you do day-time or after the high season it's even less. Our ceremony was there, it was GORGEOUS.... I wouldn't have changed a single thing about the day.

Posted 12/18/13 3:37 PM
 
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