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Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

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Pomegranate5
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Re: Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

I'm so sorry for your loss. What you decide to do for this baby is so personal, but I hope your doctor or the hospital can refer you to someone to talk to to maybe help you work through some of your thoughts. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/13/17 10:27 AM
 
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Ellsey10
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Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

I am so so so so sorry. My heart aches for you

Posted 9/13/17 10:41 AM
 

PennyCat
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Re: Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

My very first pregnancy loss was at 17 weeks. Our baby was named and buried. Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm so sorry you are going through this, I know the pain very well and I wish I could tell you it gets easier but what I can tell you is you just find a new normal.

ETA: Please feel free to reach out through FM anytime. I've been in a similar place to what you're going through many times at various stages of pregnancy so I can identify so much with what you're experiencing.

Message edited 9/14/2017 12:16:24 AM.

Posted 9/14/17 12:05 AM
 

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Posted 9/14/17 7:37 PM
 

myboysmyheart
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Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

Thank you ladies. This is such an awful feeling. I am so sorry to anyone who has had to go through this. <3

Posted 9/14/17 10:50 PM
 

gina409
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Re: Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

I am so very sorry

Posted 9/16/17 10:36 PM
 

Christine2
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Re: Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

I am so sorry! It happened to me at my 12 week sonogram and it was the worst feeling ever Chat Icon I had the D&C and found out the sex. I sort of wish I hadn't because it makes me so sad to this day (at the time I had 2 DS and the lost baby was a DD). I keep thinking of our life if the baby had come to term. It makes it that much harder to find out the gender and in many ways I wish I did not know.

Posted 9/16/17 11:49 PM
 

Dolphinsbaby
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Re: Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

Posted by Christine2

I am so sorry! It happened to me at my 12 week sonogram and it was the worst feeling ever Chat Icon I had the D&C and found out the sex. I sort of wish I hadn't because it makes me so sad to this day (at the time I had 2 DS and the lost baby was a DD). I keep thinking of our life if the baby had come to term. It makes it that much harder to find out the gender and in many ways I wish I did not know.



I know what you mean. I had a D&C at 11 weeks. Never found out the sex. Didn't want to know. This was my first. I now have 3 boys and sometimes wonder if my 1st baby was a girl, but am glad I don't know since there's nothing I can do it about it anyway.Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/17 4:04 PM
 

myboysmyheart
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Re: Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

Posted by Dolphinsbaby

Posted by Christine2

I am so sorry! It happened to me at my 12 week sonogram and it was the worst feeling ever Chat Icon I had the D&C and found out the sex. I sort of wish I hadn't because it makes me so sad to this day (at the time I had 2 DS and the lost baby was a DD). I keep thinking of our life if the baby had come to term. It makes it that much harder to find out the gender and in many ways I wish I did not know.



I know what you mean. I had a D&C at 11 weeks. Never found out the sex. Didn't want to know. This was my first. I now have 3 boys and sometimes wonder if my 1st baby was a girl, but am glad I don't know since there's nothing I can do it about it anyway.Chat Icon



This was my 4th baby, I have 3 boys. I didn't want to know the sex. It would make it that much harder. We decided on a gender neutral name. It will be our Angel in heaven always.

Posted 9/17/17 7:41 PM
 

katiebug
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Re: Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

I am so very sorry.

Posted 9/17/17 7:44 PM
 

bunnyluck
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Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

Sorry, sending a big hug.

Posted 9/18/17 8:08 PM
 

Dolphinsbaby
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Re: Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

Posted by myboysmyheart

Posted by Dolphinsbaby

Posted by Christine2

I am so sorry! It happened to me at my 12 week sonogram and it was the worst feeling ever Chat Icon I had the D&C and found out the sex. I sort of wish I hadn't because it makes me so sad to this day (at the time I had 2 DS and the lost baby was a DD). I keep thinking of our life if the baby had come to term. It makes it that much harder to find out the gender and in many ways I wish I did not know.



I know what you mean. I had a D&C at 11 weeks. Never found out the sex. Didn't want to know. This was my first. I now have 3 boys and sometimes wonder if my 1st baby was a girl, but am glad I don't know since there's nothing I can do it about it anyway.Chat Icon



This was my 4th baby, I have 3 boys. I didn't want to know the sex. It would make it that much harder. We decided on a gender neutral name. It will be our Angel in heaven always.



Yup. Totally makes sense. Love the idea of a gender neutral name.Chat Icon

Posted 9/18/17 10:27 PM
 

sweetie101
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Re: Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

Sorry for your loss

Posted 9/22/17 12:32 AM
 

LIRascal
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Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

I am so so sorry this happened to you Chat Icon I hope there is a way you can find peace. Do what is right for you and your family Chat Icon

Posted 9/22/17 8:31 PM
 

Sparrow
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Totally heartbroken... need to just get it out

I'm so sorry for your loss!

Posted 9/23/17 10:13 AM
 
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