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MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love
Member since 4/06 6005 total posts
Name:
Chrissy
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What do you consider a deal-breaker...
in a friendship.....
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Posted 2/12/07 9:02 AM  |
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Shorty
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Member since 5/05 30390 total posts
Name:
really
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
back-stabbing
disloyalty
general unhealthiness
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:06 AM |
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angnick
Life is So Wonderful!
Member since 8/06 6663 total posts
Name:
Angela
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
lying
avoidance of the other
big differences in opinion when neither party will give in.
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:07 AM |
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MrsPorkChop
Twinning!!
Member since 5/05 9941 total posts
Name:
Missy
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
when the friendship goes from asset to liability
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:07 AM |
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lululu
LIF Adult
Member since 7/05 9511 total posts
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
anything that breaks my trust.
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:10 AM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
Name:
Michelle
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
Posted by lululu
anything that breaks my trust.
ITA!
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:13 AM |
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IluvBo
NICKY & EVIE
Member since 6/05 3321 total posts
Name:
Rose
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
jealousy
lost of trust
lying
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:13 AM |
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Nicole728
My Happy Girl
Member since 7/06 8198 total posts
Name:
Me
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
Posted by IluvBo
jealousy
lost of trust
lying
and backstabbing!
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:15 AM |
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leighla
Support Cancer Research
Member since 5/05 16353 total posts
Name:
Lauren
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
Being overly demanding of my time and attention.
Some friends just can't deal with the fact that I have other friends and a job and responsibilities that they don't have and if I don't drop EVERYTHING EVERY time they call and want to do something they get pi$$y.
We're adults now. Gotta learn to share.
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:17 AM |
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MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love
Member since 4/06 6005 total posts
Name:
Chrissy
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
Posted by leighla
Being overly demanding of my time and attention.
Some friends just can't deal with the fact that I have other friends and a job and responsibilities that they don't have and if I don't drop EVERYTHING EVERY time they call and want to do something they get pi$$y.
We're adults now. Gotta learn to share.
I completely agree. I have a friend right now that flips her lid on me for the very reason!
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:19 AM |
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jxnoscar
Baby Delicious!
Member since 8/06 4156 total posts
Name:
Nancy
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
If I were betrayed,
seriously lied to,
or misled
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:23 AM |
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ml110
LIF Adult
Member since 1/06 5435 total posts
Name:
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
being betrayed or stabbed in the back... the only friendship i have ever ended ended because of this.
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:31 AM |
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Lucky09
2017!
Member since 1/06 7537 total posts
Name:
DW
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
LYING (or very important omissions)
Stealing (I had a friend in h.s. who would borrow my stuff and never return it)
Always wanting you to be there for them and not wanting to hear it when you need them to listen.
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| Posted 2/12/07 9:37 AM |
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cazhley
I ♥ cheesiness.
Member since 1/07 1429 total posts
Name:
Cassie
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
I ended a friendship once because it was always all about her. It wasn't two-way, in any respect. ha-ha.
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:02 AM |
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SweetestOfPeas
J'taime Paris!
Member since 3/06 32345 total posts
Name:
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
back stabbing or someone who uses you like a door mat
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:02 AM |
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Phoebee
LIF Adult
Member since 11/06 1623 total posts
Name:
Michelle
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
All of the above plus, if you're there for someone day in and day out for whatever reason- b/c that's what friends do..
Then, it comes time for you to need support and they're SO not there for you. IMO- that's a one sided friendship, and one not worth making the effort for anymore...
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:03 AM |
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alisonggg
Cutie
Member since 3/06 4749 total posts
Name:
a
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
Posted by leighla
Being overly demanding of my time and attention.
Some friends just can't deal with the fact that I have other friends and a job and responsibilities that they don't have and if I don't drop EVERYTHING EVERY time they call and want to do something they get pi$$y.
We're adults now. Gotta learn to share.
thats very important to me as well
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:12 AM |
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KGools
Happy
Member since 9/06 9532 total posts
Name:
Kim
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
all of the above
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:13 AM |
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Stacey1403
Where it all began....
Member since 5/05 24065 total posts
Name:
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
When it is not equal. I have lost a very good friend because she expected me to go above and beyond but never did herself.
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:16 AM |
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Maathy317
Grammie's Little Man
Member since 2/06 3235 total posts
Name:
D
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
Someone who:
has a big mouth and can't keep anything to themselves
is judgmental
knows everything there is to know about everything
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:24 AM |
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Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)
Member since 5/06 23378 total posts
Name:
remember, when Gulliver traveled....
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
Posted by ChrissynRicky
Posted by leighla
Being overly demanding of my time and attention.
Some friends just can't deal with the fact that I have other friends and a job and responsibilities that they don't have and if I don't drop EVERYTHING EVERY time they call and want to do something they get pi$$y.
We're adults now. Gotta learn to share.
I completely agree. I have a friend right now that flips her lid on me for the very reason!
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:24 AM |
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JP826
=)
Member since 9/06 10903 total posts
Name:
Me!! All about ME!
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
When you consider them "toxic" in your life.
You are whom you closely associate with. Always remember that. 
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:29 AM |
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MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love
Member since 4/06 6005 total posts
Name:
Chrissy
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
Posted by Ophelia
Posted by ChrissynRicky
Posted by leighla
Being overly demanding of my time and attention.
Some friends just can't deal with the fact that I have other friends and a job and responsibilities that they don't have and if I don't drop EVERYTHING EVERY time they call and want to do something they get pi$$y.
We're adults now. Gotta learn to share.
I completely agree. I have a friend right now that flips her lid on me for the very reason!
Not you my love...you guys are very accepting that I have others in my life! 
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:30 AM |
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lorich
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Member since 6/05 9987 total posts
Name:
Grammie says "Lora Gina"
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
Lying...there's no freakin' reason for it!
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:33 AM |
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BikerGrl
Merry Christmas!
Member since 5/05 2875 total posts
Name:
It's not the destination....it's the journey!
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Re: What do you consider a deal-breaker...
When that person stops considering you and your feeelings, whether it's in things they say to you (being mean, disrespectfull or inconsiderate) or their actions (or sometimes non actions).
And of course the obvious things like lying, going behind your back and the like.
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| Posted 2/12/07 10:50 AM |
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