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What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

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Faithx2
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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Posted by LaurenExp

Photographer, no doubt. I used:

JoVon Photography



I used them too as was so unhappy with them Chat Icon

I agree food, music, photographer but sadly in my case it was a mistake......

Posted 1/2/07 9:10 AM
 
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MrsPorkChop
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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

you have your pictures forever. that was most important to me

Posted 1/2/07 9:14 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by nrthshgrl

Photographer & music.




agreed!



I agree! Video is important too!!

Posted 1/2/07 9:15 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Our two big splurges were rings and the honeymoon. We stuck to a low budget for almost everything else and I don't regret anything about it.

Posted 1/2/07 9:33 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Photographer

Posted 1/2/07 9:34 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Posted by Beth1210

drinks and food
music
photographer
honeymoon

in that order


things not to spend a ton on- IMO

wedding dress- just make sure you look and feel good in it

flowers- most people don't care- and would rather not have something in the center on the table - blocking seeing the people on the other side

invites- most people throw them away

favors- make a donation to a favorite charity instead



I totally agree. Although I loved my flowers and spent a good deal of change on them, they definately weren't necessary.

Posted 1/2/07 9:36 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Posted by debsey75

Photographer & Food



I think I have to agree.

Posted 1/2/07 9:41 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

I went all out on two things. Food and photos.

I did not do a sit down wedding. I had passed foods and small stations throughout the mansion. I upgraded the food packages and liquor as well as having custom drinks, hot cider, funky stuff like that. I had custom deserts brought in, such as Tiramisu gelato and stuff like that. I did a candy bar as the favor...and exactly one month later, people are still talking about the food and deserts. I'm so happy I put the most effort into this. I didn't eat that nihgt, but I heard you couldn't get near some of the foods, people were going nuts.

Since I didn't eat, at least I'll have the photos to see what everything looked like Chat Icon

Posted 1/2/07 9:47 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Video and Photography!

Posted 1/2/07 9:50 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

music, food and adding at least one unique personal touch. i am not a fan of "cookie cutter" weddings and tried my hardest to steer clear of that...

Posted 1/2/07 9:53 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Posted by Beth1210

drinks and food
music
photographer
honeymoon


I agree except I put them at equal importance.

Food & entertainment were priority for our guests and the photographer & honeymoon were priority for us. We knew who & what we wanted...and we splurged on the honeymoon.

Posted 1/2/07 9:54 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Posted by Beth1210

drinks and food
music
photographer
honeymoon

in that order


things not to spend a ton on- IMO

wedding dress- just make sure you look and feel good in it

flowers- most people don't care- and would rather not have something in the center on the table - blocking seeing the people on the other side

invites- most people throw them away

favors- make a donation to a favorite charity instead





this is exactly the order I would put on things as well. Years later, people still comment about our food and music - much more than I look at my photos. I was just at a wedding with the worst food and it definitely sticks out! But I will give them the music was great! I didn't have to eat, b/c I was having a great time dancing!

Message edited 1/2/2007 9:57:37 AM.

Posted 1/2/07 9:57 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Posted by emilain

ok, ladies, some great answers, so now for the next question, any decently priced catering halls? And any idea to cut costs? We will do her centerpieces, invites, veil, but hoe else can she cut costs? TIA, in this so very helpful sicve I hav enot planned in MANY yearsChat Icon


well this time around it was my second wedding so i wasn't setting out to be fancy. we went with the meadow club in port jeff which was really reasonably priced. and it actually ended up to be beautiful the food was excellant and the maitre d and attendents were more than spoiling of me!!!Chat Icon

Posted 1/2/07 10:03 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

For me it was:

Photographer
Music
Dress

Posted 1/2/07 10:57 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

HONEYMOON!! Chat Icon

Posted 1/2/07 11:03 AM
 

Mom-2-Liam
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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Food and music should be the main focus. A great centerpiece is nice but really, it's all about the music and food (well it's all about the couple for starters!! but after that it's all about the food/music). A decent selection of alcohol should be considered too, like top shelf or "middle" shelf...we wanted Guiness and Magner's Irish Cider since 1/2 of the guests drank either...and definitely a few bottles of Jamesons too(big irish wedding). Our caterers were AWESOME working with us on that and people actually still tell me our wedding was the best they've been to. It wasn't in a high priced place, but it was definitely very nice, but the food and music were great and I think that is what made it.

The other thing we splurged on was the honeymoon - HawaiiChat Icon

ETA: Oh yeah a great photographer is a must, don't skimp on that, I did and I hate my photos. I haven't even gotten my video yet from the place since I'm too nervous to see how they botched it and I've been married almost 3 years!
(the place itself is very good - we chose them based on referrals and all the stuff we saw was great - just some reason our photographer that day didn't do a great job).

Message edited 1/2/2007 1:57:18 PM.

Posted 1/2/07 1:53 PM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Photographer and music

ETA: Good food should be an obvious thing when choosing a reception hall...

Message edited 1/2/2007 2:01:31 PM.

Posted 1/2/07 2:00 PM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

1. The food......I always remember how good a wedding was by how good the food was

2. Music

3. Photographer

4. Honeymoon

Posted 1/2/07 2:19 PM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

1. photographer
2. food
3. music

Posted 1/2/07 2:38 PM
 

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Re: What do you think is the most important thing to splurge on with your wedding?

Posted by jozieb0925

1. photographer
2. food
3. music



I agree!

Photographer/Videographer
Hall/Food
Music

Posted 1/2/07 9:49 PM
 
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