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What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

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MrsPorkChop
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Member since 5/05

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Missy

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

dont put oil on your body to tan, use sunscreen

pay attention in college, you can get more out of it

dont buy the house - save more money

dont cry over him anymore, you found someone better



Posted 6/25/08 12:01 PM
 
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ihilani
LIF Adolescent

Member since 9/07

858 total posts

Name:
alias

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

every instinct you have is wrong, do the opposite and be free and happy

Posted 6/25/08 12:03 PM
 

Ambersmom
Straight up nasty

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Sharon

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

Do better in school

Push for higher ed

Don't marry STBX

Posted 6/25/08 12:07 PM
 

beautyq115
New Year!

Member since 5/05

13729 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

Stay away from credit cards

Go for teaching instead of Communication ( I would be tenured with a nice paying LI job now if I had done thisChat Icon )

Posted 6/25/08 12:08 PM
 

GioiaMia
Let's Go Rangers!

Member since 1/07

14818 total posts

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Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

you are not fat
you are too tan
do not use credit
enjoy your time with your friends but remember - even though they feel like family they aren't and they can hurt you more than your family EVER would.

Message edited 6/25/2008 12:11:37 PM.

Posted 6/25/08 12:11 PM
 

glinda-goodwitch
:-)

Member since 7/06

9149 total posts

Name:
Beth

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

Give other career options that you don't think of as "smart careers" a chance. I thought I had to be a doctor or researcher to feel smart. But really, I just need a career that makes me happy.

Posted 6/25/08 12:16 PM
 

isabelle2137
LIF Adult

Member since 12/06

1076 total posts

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Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

It's not ok the way he treats you. Do not marry this man.

Leave Boston after your divorce.

Life is so short, enjoy everything that you can, and tell your family how much you love them Chat Icon

Posted 6/25/08 12:18 PM
 

Waste06
Waste not, want not

Member since 6/06

7219 total posts

Name:
Lois Mom Mommy Mama Ma

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

- Say No to credit card debt
- Stand up for yourself more
- You're away at college - take advantage that all it has to offer (don't come home so much)

And to my really younger self:
- Wear your retainer

Posted 6/25/08 12:19 PM
 

ODonnell
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Member since 9/05

5983 total posts

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Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

Just one thing:

It's okay not to have a boyfriend and to spend time alone.

Posted 6/25/08 12:27 PM
 

PeasandCarrots

Member since 5/07

9579 total posts

Name:
L

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

To RELAX!!

To go right to nursing school and work at MMR part time.....It seems like forever, but it's really not.

That Jamie's not the one

That Nick's not the one

The one is somebody you never would have imagined

To enjoy your family...they're all you have

That life changes...change with it, not against it

Posted 6/25/08 12:27 PM
 

CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)

Member since 5/05

19978 total posts

Name:
Jen - counting my blessings...

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

Do not use those credit cards! You will be paying for that shopping spree 10 years later! Chat Icon

Posted 6/25/08 12:31 PM
 

mommy2bella
Where does time go?

Member since 12/05

9747 total posts

Name:
Kelly

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

hmmmm, this is hard because all of my crappy experiences have put me in this amazing spot now, so I don't regret them.

I would tell myself I guess.

The boobies will come (to my HS self)
You'll get over Joe eventually (to my college self)
Life without my mother is a better one (just a general note)
You'll be best friend's with your Dad after 22.

Message edited 6/25/2008 12:33:00 PM.

Posted 6/25/08 12:32 PM
 

DirtyBlonde
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Member since 11/07

7344 total posts

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Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

- you are not fat

- you are pretty

- don't date old men

- save your $$

- stop drinking blackhaus

Posted 6/25/08 12:35 PM
 

GioiaMia
Let's Go Rangers!

Member since 1/07

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Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

Posted by DirtyBlonde


- stop drinking blackhaus



ditto
oh yeah and Cisco (sp?)

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Posted 6/25/08 12:49 PM
 

SweetCin
My green-eyed boy

Member since 5/05

13499 total posts

Name:
Cin

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

- SAVE SAVE SAVE

- You're pretty

- Trust your gut, he's cheating (ex)

- Take a friend on the cruise, not the guy you recently started going out with

- Start college right after secretarial school & go straight through to your masters

- Re: masters, specialize in something, don't just do ECE

- Let it go, it's not worth it

Posted 6/25/08 12:56 PM
 

HelenZ
So worth the wait :)

Member since 10/07

2862 total posts

Name:
Helen

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

-after my first major break up (4 yr relationship), I'd tell myself to stay single longer, and have more fun....but then again if I did that, I might not be with DH now! Chat Icon

-relax, you don't have to take care of EVERYTHING yourself

-I'd tell my teenage self to cherish the time w/ my dad, since he wouldn't make it past my teenage years Chat Icon if only I could take back some of my "rebellious" time to just hang out with him

Posted 6/25/08 12:57 PM
 

HelenZ
So worth the wait :)

Member since 10/07

2862 total posts

Name:
Helen

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

Posted by Tilde

Posted by DirtyBlonde


- stop drinking blackhaus



ditto
oh yeah and Cisco (sp?)

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OMG!! cisco! liquid crack! Chat Icon

Posted 6/25/08 12:58 PM
 

MrsB-07
proud RELAXIVIST

Member since 11/07

2027 total posts

Name:
b

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

oh wow - I have lots!

*Don't sell yourself short b/c you doubt your capabilities or are afraid of what people may think (I was so busy trying to fit into a certain mold that I missed out on a lot of things I would have liked to do)

*Practice a healthy, natural lifestyle - as you get older you realize how important that is (I used to smoke, ate fast food everyday and never exercised. I was always thin back then so I didnt think anything of it, now as I'm regressing back to a much more healthy, natural way of life and working out and caring about my health I realize how valuable this would have been if I would've incorporated it years ago!)

*Only about 1/4 of the things you stress about actually warrent stress. (I am total type A and perfectionist and stress over everything...now I'm a very anxious person and I hate it. I wish I could've continued being carefree like I used to be. I think I got caught up in stressing mostly in college)

*Travel - get out and live life! Don't be afraid to do it on your own. (I'm in the process of this goal now, but I see so many younger people having done so much travel, either HS trips or studying abroad or taking a year off to backpack thru Europe, I wish I would've considered that rather than rushing into the real world)

Posted 6/25/08 1:00 PM
 

SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!

Member since 12/05

20105 total posts

Name:
Lauren

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

go away to college

Posted 6/25/08 1:00 PM
 

GioiaMia
Let's Go Rangers!

Member since 1/07

14818 total posts

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Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

Posted by HelenZ

Posted by Tilde

Posted by DirtyBlonde


- stop drinking blackhaus



ditto
oh yeah and Cisco (sp?)

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OMG!! cisco! liquid crack! Chat Icon



crack juice! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

but such a strange drunk though!!

Posted 6/25/08 1:01 PM
 

MichLiz213
Life is Good!

Member since 7/07

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Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

-Save your money and stop shopping so much!

-Stop eating fast food.

-Concentrate on college more! It will come back to bite you later in life!

Posted 6/25/08 1:06 PM
 

leese
Sarge!

Member since 5/05

1965 total posts

Name:
Leese

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

To myself two years ago -- don't go immediately back to eating carbs when you just spent four years avoiding them = "marriage weight"!

To myself six years ago -- this guy is a keeper (well, I did tell myself that but I didn't want to believe it!).

To myself in college -- have more fun and hang out with people regardless of whether they are cool or not!

To myself in high school -- relax! I was too Type A (well, still am).

Posted 6/25/08 1:09 PM
 

leese
Sarge!

Member since 5/05

1965 total posts

Name:
Leese

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

Posted by sfp0701

Me first: "You are not fat! Enjoy yourself."

(I am getting ready to go to the beach and I am squeezing my butt into a bikini that it shouldn't be in but, it's a wednesday at the beach, who am I gunna see?

I am running around looking for some kind of beach coverup and remembering me in in high school. I had a teeny tiny bikini with no supportive cups or full coverage bottoms and I wore a belly bracelet. A belly bracelet. I drew attention to my belly. But I still thought I was fat. I don't even think that belly bracelet would clasp now.)

Also: "Give a little more effort to your grades. You are smarter than you think."



Your 40-year old self just called me a minute ago... told me to tell you that "you are not fat and you look hot in that bikini - go flaunt it"

LOL. Chat Icon

PS - I remember that belly chain! You were so cool! LOL.

Posted 6/25/08 1:10 PM
 

statusquoscreenname
LIF Adolescent

Member since 9/07

885 total posts

Name:
Victoria

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

-be more patient with my parents, because i'll be exactly like them soon enough

-you don't always need to be the one worrying about everyone else - worry about yourself!

-savor the part-time jobs and summer adventures. create MORE of those stories you'll still be telling 15 years later.

Posted 6/25/08 1:13 PM
 

Reese1106
Family of 4! :o)

Member since 8/06

6655 total posts

Name:
Theresa

Re: What would you tell your younger self, if you could?

Break up with that idiot, he's not right for you.

Tell your sister not to marry the cheating ******* instead of minding your own business.

Spend more time with Mom.

Be smarter with your credit cards.

Stay in school.

Posted 6/25/08 1:13 PM
 
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