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ARIELSMOM
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Re: Whats your opinion...
I would check the credit report and hold off on approaching him until there is some sorty of evidence other than coupons to approach him about. I would snoop, IMO she shouldnt say anything to him until there is something more concrete. If it were me- id be searching high and low for more clues.
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
here's the thing, if he was cheating on her, would he really be stupid enough to have materials sent to the house?
Thats what i thought.....
but eventually everyone gets caught.....
Also-i think the only way reason she questioned it was because she knew there was no way this stuff was for her (nothing comes in her size) She couldnt- like you mary- think yay presents for me
Message edited 5/5/2006 1:46:58 PM.
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Whats your opinion...
well if he is cheating, he's not very bright
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JenniferEver
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Re: Whats your opinion...
He may have signed up for paper statements and told them no catalogs. Or he could be an authorized user on someone else's account. Or, it could be completely incorrect.
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| Posted 5/5/06 1:47 PM |
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by Princessmaris
Posted by marymoon
In order to be a gold member you have to spend at least $500 a year or something on the VS credit card.
There's no other way, as far as I know for anyone to get the gold member stuff.
If hes not buying VS for her, he's buying it for someone else 
See- she thought something like this (like it had to do with a cc) but wasnt sure....
OMG- I feel so horrible...
my boss suggested spying- but just from knowing what my mom went through with my dad- I told her I dont think its a good idea...
Can she call the comp. and find out how he got on the mailing list??? And maybe having them tell her- its from spending 500+ on whatever...
The stuff... DEF isnt for her!
But what I dont understand- was wouldnt she realize checks paying a cc bill every month?
I would have her call VS and say that her friend is getting all these great coupons and stuff for being a gold member and she would like to find out how she can become a gold member and then she should just ask them could she join the gold member club any other way like joinging a mailing list or what not. And then she should have her answer on how he is on the list. But I would think that if he was on the Gold list and something was going on he would try to hide it from her, which he does not seem to be doing.
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JenniferEver
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Re: Whats your opinion...
it could also be a total mistake if she hasn;t receved anything from VS before. We get a catalog every 3 days
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| Posted 5/5/06 1:50 PM |
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Honestly he might not even be cheating but maybe it is for him, I am not trying to be funny you really never know.
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by bridget-n-jimmy
Honestly he might not even be cheating but maybe it is for him, I am not trying to be funny you really never know.
i thought that too 
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05mommy09
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Re: Whats your opinion...
she never got before
but she said he got a few things the past few weeks
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05mommy09
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by bridget-n-jimmy
Honestly he might not even be cheating but maybe it is for him, I am not trying to be funny you really never know.
this is true...
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JenniferEver
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by Princessmaris
she never got before
but she said he got a few things the past few weeks
So maybe he went out and bought $500+ in the past few eeks.
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Blu-ize
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by bridget-n-jimmy
Honestly he might not even be cheating but maybe it is for him, I am not trying to be funny you really never know.
Meaning, maybe he likes to cross dress or likes ladies undergarments? That could be..it would be a better situation than him cheating. At least that's a fetish problem at the least.
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05mommy09
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She did sa something to him this morning...fooling around... like:
If your gonna buy your girlfriend underwear dont have the bill mailed here...
He just laughed....
However- Its rare that a cheater come clean...
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| Posted 5/5/06 1:55 PM |
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05mommy09
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by marymoon
Posted by Princessmaris
she never got before
but she said he got a few things the past few weeks
So maybe he went out and bought $500+ in the past few eeks.
Are you sure thats the amount?
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| Posted 5/5/06 1:56 PM |
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pmpkn087
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Re: Whats your opinion...
I would definately be suspicious and I would confront him about it.
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Blu-ize
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Re: Whats your opinion...
I just called them out of morbid curiosity. The gold card is the credit card but is now being replaced by the Angel VIP card. After you hit $250 or 250 points you start getting discounts.
The gold card thing is just the credit card itself.
So he has to have a credit card in his name according to VS.
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05mommy09
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by Blu-ize
I just called them out of morbid curiosity. The gold card is the credit card but is now being replaced by the Angel VIP card. After you hit $250 or 250 points you start getting discounts.
The gold card thing is just the credit card itself.
So he has to have a credit card in his name according to VS.
I did too- Because I really dont want my boss to say something that isnt correct info- and you are 100% correct.... they customer service line told me the same thing...
Now- my next question- would this come by mistake? More than once?
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Bxgell2
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
here's the thing, if he was cheating on her, would he really be stupid enough to have materials sent to the house?
The mags and coupons would even if he has stuff sent elsewhere (i.e. work, someone else's home, etc) because you have to give your billing address to use your card.
BUT, has anyone thought that maybe this could be a case of identity fraud? It has happened to so many people I know... I would start with a credit check!
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05mommy09
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by Bxgell2
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
here's the thing, if he was cheating on her, would he really be stupid enough to have materials sent to the house?
The mags and coupons would even if he has stuff sent elsewhere (i.e. work, someone else's home, etc) because you have to give your billing address to use your card.
BUT, has anyone thought that maybe this could be a case of identity fraud? It has happened to so many people I know... I would start with a credit check!
Well I think- when and if she approaches it- shes gonna do it with the suspicions of identity theft.....
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Whats your opinion...
If it were me, I would tell DH that I think someone stole his identity & that I'm going to pull a credit report just to make sure.
I'm sure she has all of the info she needs on him to do it. Tell him upfront & it's not sneaking around.
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Bxgell2
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by Princessmaris
Well I think- when and if she approaches it- shes gonna do it with the suspicions of identity theft.....
I think that's the way to do it. Something along the lines of, hey hubby, I was talking to a girlfriend at work and she told me the only way you can get gold coupons is if you have a VS credit card in your name. I'm going to order a credit report and check this out, and call VS and find out where this stuff is being delivered... at that point, he knows he'll be found out if he IS cheating
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Bxgell2
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by nrthshgrl
If it were me, I would tell DH that I think someone stole his identity & that I'm going to pull a credit report just to make sure.
I'm sure she has all of the info she needs on him to do it. Tell him upfront & it's not sneaking around.
See my post below... great minds think alike 
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nrthshgrl
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Also I would tell him when he was least likely to stop me. Call his cell phone & tell him I'm checking it right now.
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nov04libride
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Re: Whats your opinion...
This is unrelated, but a few days ago Geico called me and said we hadn't paid our bill...Turns out there was a computer glitch and they had an incorrect address for us (after being a customer with them for 5 years). They tried to convince me DH called them and requested a new address, which was totally untrue.  So mistakes do happen. if she has a good relationship with him (it sounds like she doesn't) I'd just say what's up with that? If I was cheating (I wouldn't) I would pay cash. Sounds to me like he wants to be found out, so I wouldn't assume he would deny it.
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| Posted 5/5/06 2:25 PM |
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MelToddJulia
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Re: Whats your opinion...
Posted by marymoon
In order to be a gold member you have to spend at least $500 a year or something on the VS credit card.
There's no other way, as far as I know for anyone to get the gold member stuff.
If hes not buying VS for her, he's buying it for someone else
Yup! I use to work at VS, I'm a gold member and it goes by what your credit card is to make to a member. You start out as a platnium member then it goes to gold......I say hes up to something!
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