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anon
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Re: Whats your opinion...

i would just ask him flat out. i'm not one to jump to conclusions unless there are other reasons to be suspicious.

i got on a gambling mailing list somehow, DH cracks up every time i get something gambling related and tells me i need to seek counseling for my "problem"...

DH used to get promotional mailings from VS and other stores because he used to spend $$$ on previous girlfriends. i put a stop to the frivolous spending, but he still may get things here and there.

Posted 5/5/06 2:29 PM
 
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ladybug78
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Re: Whats your opinion...

If this is her DH, the person who she loves and married, she shouldn't have a problem asking him upfront what is going on unless they have major communication problems....From there, if he denies it and there are more signs of suspicious activity, then she should look into it further.

Message edited 5/5/2006 3:27:01 PM.

Posted 5/5/06 3:22 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: Whats your opinion...

I'm not condoning snooping but she could always check his wallet to see if he has a card. If he does she can get the account number and check it online. But my first instinct would be to just come out and ask him about it.

Message edited 5/5/2006 3:23:12 PM.

Posted 5/5/06 3:22 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Whats your opinion...

in order to be a gold member, you would have had to have spent $250 or more on your VS card.

it could be a mistake on VS part.

but it sounds like he may have a card and she doesn't know it Chat Icon

Posted 5/5/06 3:33 PM
 

MsG
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Re: Whats your opinion...

I'm confused - he DID buy things recently? Your friend knows he did?

Posted 5/5/06 3:42 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: Whats your opinion...

I am thinking no doubt he has a card...qusetion in who is he buying things for? Reccomend a credit check as her best bet

Posted 5/5/06 3:47 PM
 

CowgirlChick97
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Re: Whats your opinion...

i have to say
i would be concerned too
but my FATHER gets coupons sometimes

what they do in express/bath & body works, is take ur # and the coupons go to the owner of the house....so ur friend might have given her number, then it was sent to her husband ?

Posted 5/5/06 3:54 PM
 
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