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Myrockette
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Would it bother you if...

your dh's b-day was coming up and your mil calls you and tells you she wants to give him a surprise party at her house and TELLS you the date it will be on? Not even asking if I, his wife would like to do this or what date is good for us, if we have plans that weekend? nothing.
**Don't laugh, BUT this party already came and wentChat Icon but it just came up talking to a friend and it still bugs me to this day! Just wondering if it's just me or if dear mil Chat Icon was out of line.

Posted 7/20/05 11:39 AM
 
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Redhead
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Re: Would it bother you if...

yes i think it would

Posted 7/20/05 11:42 AM
 

Janice
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Re: Would it bother you if...

no it would not bother me.

Posted 7/20/05 11:42 AM
 

MsMBV
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Re: Would it bother you if...

um, yes. way out of line
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Message edited 7/20/2005 12:17:05 PM.

Posted 7/20/05 12:16 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: Would it bother you if...

It wouldn't bother me that she threw a party...it would Pi$$ me off that she didn't askif we were busy or not or if we already had plans. MIL loves to compete w/ me. Oh well...I just ignore it & vent w/ dh. Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/05 12:23 PM
 

NoStressMom
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Re: Would it bother you if...

If she was going to pay for the party! Then no problem!!

Posted 7/20/05 12:33 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: Would it bother you if...

Posted by NoStressBride

If she was going to pay for the party! Then no problem!!



Hee-Hee so true! Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/05 12:33 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Would it bother you if...

Posted by NoStressBride

If she was going to pay for the party! Then no problem!!



that is exactly why I would not have a problem with it!!Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/05 12:37 PM
 

Diane
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Re: Would it bother you if...

yes, it would

Posted 7/20/05 12:39 PM
 

dld4e
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Re: Would it bother you if...

Yes, it would. It would have been nice to ask for your input since YOU are now the woman in his life! Even if she didn't accept any of your suggestions, it would have been nice to be asked.

Posted 7/20/05 12:54 PM
 

mskimmy98
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Re: Would it bother you if...

It would bother me very much!!!!!

Posted 7/20/05 2:04 PM
 

Jenziba
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Re: Would it bother you if...

OMG...she actually did that?!?!

Oh, I would totally be annoyed and would've come up with some sort of excuse as to why that date was not good for me...maybe I wouldn't have been able to flat out tell her that she was out of line...but, I wouldn't let her go through with HER plan.

Posted 7/20/05 2:08 PM
 

ChristineR
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Re: Would it bother you if...

Yes that would bother me. I hate the fact that my MIL wants to have a cake for him at her house. What's wrong with me getting a cake and having it at my house?

I can relate...Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/05 2:16 PM
 

05mommy09
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Re: Would it bother you if...

grrr... sounds like something my MIL would do...

Today she called me and said...I know Ryan needs a shirt for friday...why dont you drop it off at my house and Ill iron it...

Ummm hello... I can iron! Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/05 5:13 PM
 

dooodles
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Re: Would it bother you if...

I know it would bother the heck out of me!

Posted 7/20/05 5:26 PM
 

Miro127
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Re: Would it bother you if...

Posted by Princessmaris

grrr... sounds like something my MIL would do...

Today she called me and said...I know Ryan needs a shirt for friday...why dont you drop it off at my house and Ill iron it...

Ummm hello... I can iron! Chat Icon



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You almost have to laugh ...!

Posted 7/20/05 5:38 PM
 

saraH
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Re: Would it bother you if...

yes it would bother me.

Posted 7/20/05 5:43 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: Would it bother you if...

The party idea wouldn't bother me. The fact that I was not asked to help would bother me a lot!

Posted 7/20/05 11:58 PM
 
 

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