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Would You Attend a Kiddie Party if You're Not a Parent?

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No way 12 7.32%
Yes 111 67.68%
Only if I have nothing to do 12 7.32%
Maybe 29 17.68%
 

Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

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headoverheels
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Member since 6/07

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LB

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

i would and i have - we and our friends are about the same age, and i have found that there are generally more adults than kids at those parties, so socializing is not an issue.

Posted 8/25/08 8:34 AM
 

charon54
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Rebecca

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

If they are close friends and we don't see them often yes. Most of the one's we are invited to are mostly family and friends, not a lot of other kids.

Posted 8/25/08 8:49 AM
 

princess99
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ME

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

Ihave and will only go for good friends. the last kids party we went to, I was sooo bored. My freinds MIL was griling me on when am I going to have a babay- and it really p$%%^ me off. This was not the time or place to ask me. I will only go for my best friends daughter who I have known since the day she was born, and I have known my best friend since I was 11 .

Posted 8/25/08 9:09 AM
 

IrishLasss334
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Patty

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

I would, especially if it is a child I am related to.

If our schedules permit, I would go, I don't make a point NOT to go.

Posted 8/25/08 9:22 AM
 

kimbalina
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Member since 6/08

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Kim

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

For family or really close friends I would go. But being that I am not a kid person.. i might feel uncomfortable

Posted 8/25/08 9:24 AM
 

Diana712
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Diana

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

Only if I was the God Mother or Aunt and asked to come. Other than that No Way..

Posted 8/25/08 9:25 AM
 

kerrycec03
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Kerry

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

absolutely

Posted 8/25/08 9:34 AM
 

Tulips915
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Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

I have and wouldnt think twice about it. Your invited for a reason you're family or friends, doesnt matter if you have kids or not.

Posted 8/25/08 9:38 AM
 

MarisaK
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Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

Posted by Goobster

Generally I have not, if they were for kids specifically. If it's a family party in the house for a child's bday, we would still go but in a place designated for children's activities, we really had no interest in going if we did not have children.



I agree, but we don't get invited to these anyway .......I admist it's not my favorite thing to do on a Saturday afternoon, but I wouldn't skip a party for a friend just b/c I don't have any kids .........

Posted 8/25/08 9:44 AM
 

SoinLove
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Kristin

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

Yes, I would.

Posted 8/25/08 10:26 AM
 

MrsPornStar
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Mama

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

We have and do. Many of our friends have children whom we love so of course we'll celebrate with them.

Posted 8/25/08 11:26 AM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

I do it all the time.

we are godparents to some or simply close to the parents.

and kiddies are so much fun Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/08 11:31 AM
 

Diane
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D

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

yes, becfore we had our kids, we went to many kids parties.

Posted 8/25/08 11:32 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

Yes.

Before we had kids we went to everyone's child's birthday parties. I always felt that part of being friends with someone is celebrating the things they ask you to celebrate.

I brought my camera to every event & took pictures for people. It was a way of getting out of small talk about breastfeeding, etc. Afterwards, I'd send the mom the photos. I didn't realize until I had my own kids how much they appreciated it. It's hard to capture the day & take photos when you're trying to be a good hostess.

I would also help the parents out with 2 kids. Everyone could always use a break from their kids so they can eat.

We started some interesting conversations with the ones that didn't have run after their children...things like "If there was a fight between Wife A & Wife B, who do you think would win?" "Wife B. She has a lot of pent up anger." "How about Wife B & Wife C?" "Wife C. She's very scrappy." Then we moved on to the kids...

It's like being at a wedding with a sucky DJ & being stuck at the old people's table. You can b1tch about it or you can chat up your tablemates about their lives & get them on the dance floor. IMO, fun is what you make of it.

Posted 8/25/08 11:40 AM
 

Jillysmom
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Jenn

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

it depends on the friend .. and if it is a good friend i would not even think twice about it .

Posted 8/25/08 12:08 PM
 

DmarieK
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Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

I've always attended kids parties. All of my friends and family had kids way before I did.

Posted 8/25/08 12:12 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

if it is family/friends and they wanted us there then we would go

considering we dont have kids, it is not common for us to be invited..but if i had a close friend who needed me there to help etc. then id go in a heartbeat



but considering you guys are always invited to kiddie parties, i think that is weird. sounds like a ploy for a gift (unless its family).

i dont think id ever expect my child-less friends to come to a kiddie party

Message edited 8/25/2008 12:18:14 PM.

Posted 8/25/08 12:16 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

Yes. I would without a second thought.

Posted 8/25/08 12:26 PM
 

FelAndJon
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Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

Posted by smdl

DH and I have done it many times for our close friends and family and think nothing of it. A little bit of playing with the kids, a little bit of time with the adults, time for DH and I only in the party.

We always found a way to have fun.



Same with DH and I Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/08 12:29 PM
 

MetsGirl07
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Deanna

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

i have, and found nothng wrong with it!!

Posted 8/25/08 12:35 PM
 

ILJ619
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Member since 6/06

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Irene

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

I have invited single friends/relatives so they dont feel left out. I think if you are invited its because you are special to the person.

Posted 8/25/08 12:52 PM
 

evenedan
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D

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

Of course. A few of our close friends have had birthday parties for their children and I didn't miss any of them.

Posted 8/25/08 1:04 PM
 

BRod-Cheng
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Betty

Re: Would You Attend A Kid's Party if You're Not a Parent? POLL

DH and I have done it. Usually the invite is from a close friend or a family member.

Posted 8/25/08 1:13 PM
 
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