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WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

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Tine73

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WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

They liked our boy names but did not like (let me re-phrase, HATED) our girl names....If this happened to you, did you still use a name they didn't like?

Our girls names are...or were...(who knows now):

Madelyn/Madeleine Rose (not sure of the spelling yet and no significance)

Zoey Dianne (Dianne is my mom's name so I thought that was cinch it for her...she didn't seem to care Chat Icon )

WWYD?

Message edited 10/12/2009 2:40:52 PM.

Posted 10/12/09 2:40 PM
 
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neener1211
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Use them if YOU like them. It is not their child, they got to pick names for their kids already.

They will love the baby no matter what the name, and if they make mention of the names again, tell them when they push a 9 lb baby out THEIR hoo ha, then they can name it.

(I know it doesn't help you, but this is why we didn't tell the names we were picking).

Posted 10/12/09 2:43 PM
 

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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

I think I would still use them

Those are both really nice names. I mean, ifit was something like Princess Jellybean, then maybe I would think about it..

What don't they like?

Posted 10/12/09 2:45 PM
 

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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Posted by neener1211

Use them if YOU like them. It is not their child, they got to pick names for their kids already.

They will love the baby no matter what the name, and if they make mention of the names again, tell them when they push a 9 lb baby out THEIR hoo ha, then they can name it.

(I know it doesn't help you, but this is why we didn't tell the names we were picking).



ITA! Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/09 2:46 PM
 

neener1211
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Posted by KateDevine

I think I would still use them

Those are both really nice names. I mean, ifit was something like Princess Jellybean, then maybe I would think about it..

What don't they like?



So, I shouldn't use Princess Jellybean? Back to the drawing board!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


To the OP I like the two names you picked too! Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/09 2:46 PM
 

Tine73

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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Posted by KateDevine

I think I would still use them

Those are both really nice names. I mean, ifit was something like Princess Jellybean, then maybe I would think about it..

What don't they like?



I know! Chat Icon I thought they would at least like Madelyn. I knew Zoey would be a hard sell anyway, but we think it's cute.

No other girl names are really grabbing us!

Posted 10/12/09 2:47 PM
 

nicrae
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

My God daughter's name is Madelyn Rose Chat Icon

Honestly I don't think I could use a name that my mom hated. Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/09 2:48 PM
 

Tine73

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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Posted by neener1211

Use them if YOU like them. It is not their child, they got to pick names for their kids already.

They will love the baby no matter what the name, and if they make mention of the names again, tell them when they push a 9 lb baby out THEIR hoo ha, then they can name it.

(I know it doesn't help you, but this is why we didn't tell the names we were picking).




Good point!! Thanks Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/09 2:48 PM
 

LSP2005
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Everyone in my immediate family HATED our first thoughts for DSs middle name. We changed it. I will say that I was still up in the air about the name in the first place so it was ok with me.

Posted 10/12/09 2:51 PM
 

Janice
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

my mother hates both my boy name and girl name.

julian is too feminine
emmanuelle she just doesn't understand at all.

she named her's...i will name mine.

she really wants me to go with joaquin. and for a girl she wants lily or quinn.

no one on earth says josh as much as i do to this kid. i have to pick a name i want to be said over and over again.

Posted 10/12/09 2:51 PM
 

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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Use the name that YOU AND YOUR DH like ...

Posted 10/12/09 2:52 PM
 

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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Posted by neener1211

Posted by KateDevine

I think I would still use them

Those are both really nice names. I mean, ifit was something like Princess Jellybean, then maybe I would think about it..

What don't they like?



So, I shouldn't use Princess Jellybean? Back to the drawing board!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


To the OP I like the two names you picked too! Chat Icon



I don't know your last name, maybe it goesChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Can't be as bad as the Momy N. Dadie Chris picked up the other day to take to the hospitalChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/09 2:54 PM
 

neener1211
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Posted by Tine73

Posted by neener1211

tell them when they push a 9 lb baby out THEIR hoo ha, then they can name it.





Good point!! Thanks Chat Icon



Off topic, but...
This also works for just about anything else anybody says to you too. I said it to my 53 year old uncle that told me that he wasn't going to give me my son so he could take a 'stupid picture with his stupid cake'. I told him when he pushes a 8 lb baby out of his vagina, he can not have his kid take a stupid picture with cake. He promptly gave me my son and had no comeback (which he normally does). I think half the party nearly peed their pants when they heard that one.

Posted 10/12/09 2:54 PM
 

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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Personally, it doesn't matter to me what other people think, even my parents. It is the name that DH and I chose and if they don't like it, so be it.

I would not change a name that DH and I selected because family members don't like it.

Posted 10/12/09 2:55 PM
 

chelle
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

My kids = I get to pick their names regardless of who likes them or not.

Posted 10/12/09 2:55 PM
 

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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

This is exactly why I am not telling anyone, including my parents and in-laws, the names we pick because I don't want to hear it. Honestly, it would probably bother me so much that they hated it I would reluctantly change them.

Posted 10/12/09 2:56 PM
 

4PsInaPod
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Use them....they'll get over it Chat Icon for the record,I love your girls names.

Posted 10/12/09 2:57 PM
 

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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

my dad and my mother in law hated the name logan. we named our ds logan anyway. we loved it. now my dad and mother in law admit my son looks like a total logan and the name has grown on them.

Posted 10/12/09 2:58 PM
 

JennZ
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

It's you r kid, who care what others think.

Posted 10/12/09 3:00 PM
 

Goobster
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

That;s why we didn't tell anyone beforehand...lol

I like Mad with the 2nd spelling. And yes if I loved it I would not care what they like!

Posted 10/12/09 3:11 PM
 

eroxgirl
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

I believe my maternal grandparents hated my name and I was their only grandchild! My mother didn't care.

I know my MIL doesn't like the name Elizabeth - she told me so years before I had her. I don't care.

And Madeline is a contender for my not-yet-conceived baby #2. I think you and I should name all of our children the same! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/09 3:14 PM
 

KangaMom
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Your child you choose whatever you want. People will always have something to say...

Posted 10/12/09 3:19 PM
 

bayla
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

do what you want...someone is always going to not like a name. We have a first and middle name picked out for ourChat Icon but my grandfather is dying of cancer, should he pass before I give birth we will be changing the middle name to honor him. and honestly there are not many names beginning with the letter of his name that sounds good with the first name we want. So I know people are prob not going to like her middle name, but I dont really careChat Icon

Message edited 10/12/2009 3:37:25 PM.

Posted 10/12/09 3:37 PM
 

Alex110879
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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

Absolutely... my father hates our option of a girl name and was very vocal for weeks about it and i looked at him and told him i didnt care

Posted 10/12/09 3:38 PM
 

Salason

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Re: WWYD: If your parents hated the names you picked out. Did you use them anyway?

I would go with what you like. They got their chance to pick names!

Both of our parents HATED DS's name. My mom even kept telling us to buy a baby name book every time I spoke to her even though we had our names picked before we were even PG. Funny how now she says what a beautiful name it is (and completely denies ever not liking it!) and how much it suits him. Trust me, when they see that baby, they'll start to love the name Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/09 3:38 PM
 
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