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wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

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Meggo613
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wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

so we have recieved a birthday invite for a 60th/ 1st birthday dinner party it says in big bold letters "please no gifts" while i can understand this for the 60 year old i cant imagine going to celebrate a babys 1st birhtday and not bringing a gift... so WWYD? bring a gift or not?

Posted 3/14/10 10:23 PM
 
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Bridex100
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

Posted by Meggo613

so we have recieved a birthday invite for a 60th/ 1st birthday dinner party it says in big bold letters "please no gifts" while i can understand this for the 60 year old i cant imagine going to celebrate a babys 1st birhtday and not bringing a gift... so WWYD? bring a gift or not?



I would still bring a gift like books or puzzles. I don't think a kid can ever have too many books.

Posted 3/14/10 10:26 PM
 

Dani77
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

Since the invitation IS for both partys, I would call the person handeling it just to verify... But that's just me. I couldn't imagine going to a 1st bday without a gift either...

Posted 3/14/10 10:26 PM
 

Meggo613
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

Posted by Bridex100

Posted by Meggo613

so we have recieved a birthday invite for a 60th/ 1st birthday dinner party it says in big bold letters "please no gifts" while i can understand this for the 60 year old i cant imagine going to celebrate a babys 1st birhtday and not bringing a gift... so WWYD? bring a gift or not?



I would still bring a gift like books or puzzles. I don't think a kid can ever have too many books.



thats a really great idea thank you

Posted 3/14/10 10:28 PM
 

FelAndJon
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

Maybe a bond or something like that for the 1st birthday?

Posted 3/14/10 11:20 PM
 

JChia
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

I still bring a small gift.

Posted 3/14/10 11:21 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

I'd bring a card with some scratch off lotto tickets for the 60th and a bond for the 1 year old. They're technically not really gifts and I wouldn't feel right not bringing something. Or make a donation in their names or something like that.

Posted 3/14/10 11:27 PM
 

AimeeE2006
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

Say "Hallelujah, I don't have to buy any gifts!"...ha ha! Chat Icon

Posted 3/14/10 11:55 PM
 

MEWF
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

maybe a charity donation.

Posted 3/14/10 11:59 PM
 

AMF1115
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

I'd probably buy a gift and mail it.

Posted 3/15/10 6:52 AM
 

organichic
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

I like the idea of scratch off in the card for the 60th and a book for the child.

Posted 3/15/10 6:56 AM
 

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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

Posted by AimeeE2006

Say "Hallelujah, I don't have to buy any gifts!"...ha ha! Chat Icon




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Posted 3/15/10 8:02 AM
 

BnBdreamin
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

I would not bring a gift. Seeing all of my nephew's play rooms bursting at the seams with toys, I can totally see not wanting gifts. I would consider putting that on an invite because Nolan has plenty of toys and we just do not need any more beyond what immediate family would give. Too much stuff in life. I'd just want to celebrate the day/occassion with friends and family. Your gift would be your time and presence. So this makes sense to me and out of respect, would oblige.

Same thing for the 60th... at this point, what could they need besides good company of friends and family having a good celebration.

Posted 3/15/10 8:24 AM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

Posted by prncsslehcar

I'd bring a card with some scratch off lotto tickets for the 60th and a bond for the 1 year old. They're technically not really gifts and I wouldn't feel right not bringing something. Or make a donation in their names or something like that.



I like this idea.

Posted 3/15/10 8:43 AM
 

maymama
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

Posted by MEWF

maybe a charity donation.




same! Chat Icon

Posted 3/15/10 8:44 AM
 

Kate
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

I would respect their wishes and not bring a gift.

Posted 3/15/10 9:11 AM
 

babyonthebrain
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

how about a gift card for the baby?

Posted 3/15/10 9:19 AM
 

babymakes3
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Re: wwyd with and invite that says "please no gifts"

I'd probably bring a book and a coloring book for the 1yo. They probably meant no gifts because the kid has a gazillion toys but you can never have too many books and coloring books.

I like the card/lotto ticket idea for the 60yo.



Posted 3/15/10 9:26 AM
 
 

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