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dcl08
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wwyd...baptism related

the church is at 10 so im figuring the party for 12-4 on a sunday. We will have beer,wine and soda. Do you think i need liquor? i figured no cause its a baptism and its early but honest opinions please.

Posted 3/27/08 1:41 PM
 
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ckone
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

not necessary. i had beer, wine, soda and seltzer. we had one bottle of liquor that we know is my fil's favorite. that's the only reason we had any liquor.

Posted 3/27/08 1:43 PM
 

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Re: wwyd...baptism related

you do what suits your budget....

I had an open bar but our friends are lunatics and need shots!

Posted 3/27/08 1:43 PM
 

monkeybride
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

IMO a baptism does not need liquor. Even no alcohol at all is fine. While it's a celebration it's not really a party for people to get drunk at IMO.

Posted 3/27/08 1:44 PM
 

dcl08
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

i can afford the liquor thats not an issue i just figured its lunch time do they really need liquor? if it was later at night i def would but a sunday afternoon?

Posted 3/27/08 1:45 PM
 

WannaBeAMommy
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

where are u having the party?

after DS's Christening, we had lunch at a restaurant. we included soft drinks with the cost pp but left liquor as an open-bar thing. we figured since it was sunday, not everyone would find the need to "pound them back" at noon. Chat Icon

it worked for us and no one seemed to be put off by it.

HTH

Posted 3/27/08 1:45 PM
 

FrankiesGirl107
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

We're having beer, wine, iced tea, lemonade and water. I wanted something the kids could drink, and something "adult" but I didn't feel it was necessary to do a full bar...

But I think it's what your own personal preferences are and what you know your guests/family enjoy...

ETA - our party starts as 12noon as well...

Message edited 3/27/2008 1:49:03 PM.

Posted 3/27/08 1:48 PM
 

dpli
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

I am having the party at a restaurant, where my brother works. He recommended that we do an open tab, rather than a price pp for even jsut beer and wine. He said for this type of a party, it usually ends up cheaper that way. My sister did her kids' Communion parties the same way and said it did work out to be a lot cheaper.

ETA: Even if you can afford it, why spend the extra $$ if people aren't going to drink that much? Get a fabulous cake instead. Chat Icon

Message edited 3/27/2008 1:52:03 PM.

Posted 3/27/08 1:50 PM
 

ckone
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

just to add, we had the baptism party at home so we had juice boxes for the kids.

Posted 3/27/08 1:55 PM
 

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Re: wwyd...baptism related

I would not worry
beer and wine and soda are GOOD :)

Posted 3/27/08 1:57 PM
 

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Re: wwyd...baptism related

Are you having it out? I would say beer wine and soda and run a tab if anyone wants to order a drink w/liquor

Posted 3/27/08 1:59 PM
 

Laura1976

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Re: wwyd...baptism related

i8 think its totally fine and would be happy with it if i was a guest.

Posted 3/27/08 2:01 PM
 

DUCKS2001
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

i think beer wine and soda is fine no need for the other stuff

Posted 3/27/08 2:02 PM
 

jes81276
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

I am doing beer, wine and soda too. I had the same thoughts that you did - liquor is not necessary at a Sunday afternoon chirstening. If a guest wants liquor that bad then they can get the drink themselves.

Posted 3/27/08 2:02 PM
 

twicethefun
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

no need

Posted 3/27/08 2:20 PM
 

longford73
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

Posted by jellybean1420

Are you having it out? I would say beer wine and soda and run a tab if anyone wants to order a drink w/liquor



That's what I'm doing.

Posted 3/27/08 2:23 PM
 

LuvMy2Girls
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Re: wwyd...baptism related

Both parties i only paid for soda, my guests could order anything they wanted but they had to pay for it. IMO alchohol not necessary for a sunday afternoon christening.

I come from a big loud partying family and for both my christenings, hardly any alchohol was consumed-a few beers and a couple glasses of wine.

Posted 3/27/08 2:25 PM
 
 

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