Sniff Sniff Sniff.......Bad moment

So it's only been about 3wks since our m/c. Today out of the blue a co-worked and his wife walk in with their newborn. They looked right at me and said here you'll need the practice, and as they went to hand we the baby I just looked at my boss and said I can't I have to leave. I just spent 20 min bawling my eyes out. I knew that this moment would come when I would have to see a newborn but I was so unprepared for it. I used to LOVE seeing and holding babies, but right now seeig them or even thinking about a newborn breaks my heart. I just feel so sad and overwhelmed after seeing the baby.

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I'm so sorry
all I can do is send you
I know exactly how you must be feeling and I wish I could say something to make you feel better

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I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how you feel. You poor thing you get big hugs today!

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I hate it that i know exactly how you feel. The first 4 or so weeks after my m/c was SO awful. The hormones are all over the place and the sadness inside is overwhelming. It was the worst weeks of my life.

Here i am almost 2 mons since my D&C and im feeling so much better. Once af comes, youll start to feel normal again. Everyone said that to me and i so looked forward to AFs arrival.

Its still hard. Only 2 nights ago i broke down again. It happens.
We are all here for you!!!!!!!

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my heart goes out to u, im so sorry for ur loss, but know that you are able to get pregnant and u will one day soon be pregnant with a healthy baby.

i know its hard right now but keep ur strength u will get threw this hard time.

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I'm sooo sorry.
the same thing happened to me.

About 2 days after I found out the m/c I had was a girl, a coworker came in with their newborn girl and threw her in my arms and said "here, it will make you want to have one."

I held that baby soo awkward, you would think it was a stick of dinomite.
They looked at me a little funny, they had no idea. They must have thought,"wow, this chick really hates kids." :)

It gets better. You're in the thick of it now... but you'll pull thru.



Anytime you need to talk, I'm here.

Message edited 12/12/2008 7:20:19 AM.

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oh my gosh you poor thing....