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TooSoontoTell
LIF Adolescent
Member since 11/11 501 total posts
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It's over for me again - Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
After an early M/C last November, I am finally back with a BFP. I am afraid to even post on here for fear of jinxing myself! I never imagined it would happen last year but it did, and so now I am just so worried.
Just seems like so many hurdles to jump over before even considering feeling "safer". Not sure what I am looking for, other than to get this off my chest. I don't know how I am going to deal with this waiting game. So many things running through my mind and I am not sure what to do with any of them. How do you make it through the waiting game, again? Updated - I can't believe this. It's over again. HPTs are now negative and so was my beta. In 4 days, it is gone. Gone.
Message edited 11/29/2013 1:04:41 AM.
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Posted 10/1/12 11:01 PM  |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
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Stacey
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Re: Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
First off - congrats on your BFP!!!
I totally understand your fears...It's like, once you have a mc, you're jaded. I had a mc in March of last year and found out I was pregnant again in September. I was petrifiied. But, every doctor's appt., every sono, every time I heard her heartbeat, I felt a little better.
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| Posted 10/2/12 8:01 AM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
I think a great goal is getting past the point of your pregnancy where you had a loss last time. Many of my losses were in the first tri so getting beyond 8 weeks is big for me ... although getting past 17wk2d is a MAJOR milestone for me and that's REALLY what I'm waiting for, once I have a baby on the way.
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| Posted 10/2/12 9:38 AM |
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TaraVinny
my miracle coming October!!!
Member since 10/09 1049 total posts
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Tara
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Re: Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
Congrats on your BFP!!!! I really hope everything is OK. I understand feeling jaded. But each dr apt will make you feel more positive. Good luck
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| Posted 10/2/12 9:47 AM |
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TooSoontoTell
LIF Adolescent
Member since 11/11 501 total posts
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Re: It's over for me again - Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
It's over again. Beta is negative and HPTs were negative as of this am.
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| Posted 10/4/12 8:21 PM |
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beachgirl
LIF Adult
Member since 7/05 7967 total posts
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sara
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Re: It's over for me again - Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
OMG I am so, sorry for your loss...again.
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| Posted 10/4/12 8:30 PM |
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TessMike214
Gabriella Aubrey born 3/26!
Member since 5/10 2440 total posts
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Tess
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Re: It's over for me again - Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
I am so sorry
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| Posted 10/4/12 11:22 PM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
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Stacey
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It's over for me again - Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
I am so very sorry!!!
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| Posted 10/5/12 7:47 AM |
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nancy6485
So in love
Member since 10/05 3363 total posts
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Nancy
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Re: It's over for me again - Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
so sorry
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| Posted 10/5/12 11:43 AM |
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JamieW
LIF Toddler
Member since 7/05 471 total posts
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Jamie
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It's over for me again - Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
So sorry for your loss. I have been there. You can ask your dr to run the recurrent pregnancy loss panel. It tests for somethings that can possibly complicate pregnancy, like a blood disorder. Good luck.
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| Posted 10/5/12 11:58 AM |
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08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.
Member since 10/07 9151 total posts
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Re: It's over for me again - Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
I am so very sorry for your loss 
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| Posted 10/11/12 11:01 AM |
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MarsB
LIF Adult
Member since 11/10 1456 total posts
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Martha
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It's over for me again - Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
I'm so sorry to hear that.
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| Posted 10/11/12 2:09 PM |
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TyReseGreen
Lil Prince is here
Member since 8/11 6338 total posts
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Theresa
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It's over for me again - Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
Sorry to hear that.
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| Posted 10/14/12 6:22 PM |
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TaraVinny
my miracle coming October!!!
Member since 10/09 1049 total posts
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Tara
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Re: It's over for me again - Got a BFP and having fears of MC again
i'm so sorry
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| Posted 10/14/12 8:14 PM |
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