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Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

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yes 101 53.72%
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Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

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PreshusSmurf
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Jess

Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

I'm curious about this ...

I added a poll for those who want to keep their answer anonymous.

Posted 9/22/08 12:28 PM
 

MeeshMosh
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

me and DH lived in an illegal apt for a year and half before we got married...im not giving any details incase of lurkers - but it did the job until we bought our house!

Message edited 9/22/2008 12:59:05 PM.

Posted 9/22/08 12:58 PM
 

AliceCullen
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

I guess the 8 of us who answered yes would be out on the streets if everyone felt the need to call and report us.

Posted 9/22/08 12:58 PM
 

HeathKernandez
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Posted by AliceCullen

I guess the 8 of us who answered yes would be out on the streets if everyone felt the need to call and report us.



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Posted 9/22/08 1:00 PM
 

ave1024
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Posted by AliceCullen

I guess the 8 of us who answered yes would be out on the streets if everyone felt the need to call and report us.




No you would be adjusting your budget to afford something legal.

Posted 9/22/08 1:03 PM
 

HeathKernandez
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Posted by ave1024

Posted by AliceCullen

I guess the 8 of us who answered yes would be out on the streets if everyone felt the need to call and report us.




No you would be adjusting your budget to afford something legal.




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Posted 9/22/08 1:04 PM
 

charon54
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Yes, I lived in one for a year before getting married. We could not afford an apartment in an apartment complex. We did not have loud parties, kept to ourselves, and parked in front of the house we lived in.

ETA: For those of you who would condone this, honestly think about if you tell me that you have never broken a single law. You never roll through a stop sign, never talk on your cell while driving (even on speaker phone), never smoked a joint, etc.

Message edited 9/22/2008 1:07:20 PM.

Posted 9/22/08 1:05 PM
 

LIMOMx2
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Yes. And I would do it again and I wouldn't care if our neighbors had them either. I could care less.

Posted 9/22/08 1:06 PM
 

PotofLuck06
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

DH and I = no. We rented from an apt. complex.

My BIL and his wife = currently yes.

Posted 9/22/08 1:06 PM
 

nferrandi
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Posted by ave1024

Posted by AliceCullen

I guess the 8 of us who answered yes would be out on the streets if everyone felt the need to call and report us.




No you would be adjusting your budget to afford something legal.




Most people in this situation would have to live in a less safe neighborhood to afford an apartment and all of the utilities. So you're suggesting that this is the better option? Chat Icon

Posted 9/22/08 1:06 PM
 

springchick
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

I did, and at that time I either I pay for college or for a legar apt. Both things couldnt be budget in, at least while living in long island.

Posted 9/22/08 1:06 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

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Posted by ave1024

Posted by AliceCullen

I guess the 8 of us who answered yes would be out on the streets if everyone felt the need to call and report us.




No you would be adjusting your budget to afford something legal.




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You are from Queens. have you ever even SEEN a legal apartment? Chat Icon


totally kidding Chat Icon

my whole thing is that yes, it is illegal and wrong but people always find out who is reporting them and i think it is VERY important to maintain a good relationship with neighbors so I would never report them, JMO.

Posted 9/22/08 1:07 PM
 

PreshusSmurf
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Posted by ave1024

Posted by AliceCullen

I guess the 8 of us who answered yes would be out on the streets if everyone felt the need to call and report us.




No you would be adjusting your budget to afford something legal.





Or moving out of state ... and contributing to the so-called "brain drain"

IMHO, "adjusting your budget" isn't always possible ....

Posted 9/22/08 1:07 PM
 

LiveAgain
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

back in the day my ex/bf and I rented one, but the people were crazy and we left after the 1st month

Message edited 9/22/2008 1:07:46 PM.

Posted 9/22/08 1:07 PM
 

Porrruss
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

I don't understand the issue. THIS is the risk that landlords and tenants run by having/using an illegal apartment. Be a good tenant/landlord by being mindful of the neighbors and you'll likely have no problems.

This post stemmed from another poster complaining about a landlord who is NOT being mindful of the neighbors- and in turn deserves to be reported.

Believe me- the furthest thing from my head is wasting time flushing out the "illegals" in the neighborhood. HOWEVER- if that illegal apartment is causing any issues in MY life (constantly rotating tenants, noise issues, safety issues), ESPECIALLY if it threatens my bottom line- you can bet your illegal @zz I'm reporting it.

NIMBY

Message edited 9/22/2008 1:07:49 PM.

Posted 9/22/08 1:07 PM
 

ave1024
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Posted by PreshusSmurf

IMHO, "adjusting your budget" isn't always possible ....




Sure it is.

I think people in general don't want to do it. Doesn't mean they can't.

Posted 9/22/08 1:11 PM
 

MeeshMosh
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Posted by ave1024

Posted by PreshusSmurf

IMHO, "adjusting your budget" isn't always possible ....




Sure it is.

I think people in general don't want to do it. Doesn't mean they can't.




it wasnt possible for me & DH before the wedding... and everyone's situatin is different - you dont know what goes on behind closed doors so dont be quick to judge

Posted 9/22/08 1:17 PM
 

CunningOne
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

yes, for nearly 7 years... From the time I graduated college until I bought my house with DH. I lived upstairs from an elderly couple. They were like grandparents to me.

Posted 9/22/08 1:23 PM
 

HeathKernandez
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

no.

Posted 9/22/08 1:26 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Yes...and Thank God for illegal apartments. When I left my ex-husband I had no money for security and no savings.
The people I rented from were so nice, they took me at face value and I paid them their security on a weekly basis and stayed in that apartment for eight years. It was my home and they were my friends.

I never understand why - especially when it's so hard to make ends meet these days - people feel the need to report an illegal apartment that is clean and quiet. I can understand if the rental is causing problems, but most really don't.

Posted 9/22/08 1:27 PM
 

TreAnt427
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Tracy

Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

I never have - we currently live in an apt complex.

I have no problem with those who have them in their house or people who live in them

Posted 9/22/08 1:28 PM
 

ave1024
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Posted by MeeshMosh

it wasnt possible for me & DH before the wedding... and everyone's situatin is different - you dont know what goes on behind closed doors so dont be quick to judge




Sorry but I don't agree with this and we will respectfully disagree.

There is always a way.

Posted 9/22/08 1:29 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Posted by ave1024

Posted by PreshusSmurf

IMHO, "adjusting your budget" isn't always possible ....




Sure it is.

I think people in general don't want to do it. Doesn't mean they can't.




No, it's really not.
When I moved into my apartment I was making $250 take-home a week and my rent was $550 (this is a long time ago). I could never have afforded a legal apartment at the time - they were going for a minimum of $750 for the same size. That would have left me $250 to cover food, gas, insurance, etc.
Not likely.

Posted 9/22/08 1:29 PM
 

MeeshMosh
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Posted by ave1024

Posted by MeeshMosh

it wasnt possible for me & DH before the wedding... and everyone's situatin is different - you dont know what goes on behind closed doors so dont be quick to judge




Sorry but I don't agree with this and we will respectfully disagree.

There is always a way.



well then thats a pretty sad mind frame you live in Chat Icon

Posted 9/22/08 1:31 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: Spin-Off: Have YOU ever lived in an illegal apartment?

Oh and BTW, someone did report the apartment and I had to stay at my mothers for three months while he took the place apart, had all the inspectors come to approve the apartment and put it back together. Huge aggravation for him and me....but because they were so good to me, I dealt with it.

Posted 9/22/08 1:32 PM
 
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