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MST9106
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Where do people get the audacity to say things like that? That typy of nosiness calls for a classic "Mind your own business lady".

ETA: I took my son to the mall at two weeks and he hasn't gotten sick once yet.

Message edited 9/19/2008 9:30:20 AM.

Posted 9/19/08 9:29 AM
 
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mom2mgn
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

DS was born February 20th. I wanted to take DS for a walk when he was about 2 weeks old and FIL freaked!!! It was March and he said March is the month of death for newborns and the elderly. Um yeah, ok. It was about 75 degrees out and beautiful. We went for our walk.

Posted 9/19/08 9:30 AM
 

Superkat
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

My two year anniversary was 6 days after Brandon was born. We celebrated by having steaks at Outback. We brought him with us and he slept the entire time. Chat Icon

Posted 9/19/08 9:35 AM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Posted by Superkat

My two year anniversary was 6 days after Brandon was born. We celebrated by having steaks at Outback. We brought him with us and he slept the entire time. Chat Icon



But did you have the Bloomin Onion?

Posted 9/19/08 9:37 AM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Hmm, we took DD to Olive Garden at just over a week. I also took her to the mall photgrapher at 4 days. Call DSS.

Posted 9/19/08 9:42 AM
 

MsMBV
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Posted by Goldi0218

So DH and I ventured out for dinner tonight with Lil Miss Abby and of course people were looking. One lady asks how old she was and when I said "3 weeks" she said:

"You took her to a diner at 3 weeks? What about all the diseases? When I had kids, we didn't take them out til they were 3 years old!!!"

I'm thinking "Gee lady, the infant mortality rate was WAY high back then, Polio was an issue and Germany was a super power.

Then I asked the waitress to bring me a burger topped with tuberculosis and small pox with a side of rubella WELL DONE!!!!!

Someone call the authorities. I am unfit to raise a child.

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And people think the unwarranted and unsolicited comments end when you give birth.....

BTW I had G at a restaurant 10 days after he came home.Chat Icon To this day he is AWESOME in restaurants.

Posted 9/19/08 9:55 AM
 

Theresa05
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

I hope you had a rude comment in response..

if the diner has disease, why is SHE there!

Posted 9/19/08 9:56 AM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Posted by Theresa05

I hope you had a rude comment in response..

if the diner has disease, why is SHE there!



Im armed for the next time, but her poorly applied pimento red lipstick scared me which was why I kept my cool.

Posted 9/19/08 10:01 AM
 

Theresa05
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Posted by Goldi0218

Posted by Theresa05

I hope you had a rude comment in response..

if the diner has disease, why is SHE there!



Im armed for the next time, but her poorly applied pimento red lipstick scared me which was why I kept my cool.



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Posted 9/19/08 10:02 AM
 

MeeshkaMich
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Posted by Goldi0218

We may very well have been the youngest family in there as it was on the tail end of the timing of an early bird special and the snowbirds haven't migrated to Florida for the winter yet. Good grief, all of the yenta's were all up in my biznis!!! One actually said "Did you just come from the hospital?" I wanted to say "Yeah, do you mind, checking my scar and taking out my foley? I'd appreciate that!!!"



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People just need to mind their business.

Posted 9/19/08 10:08 AM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Posted by Theresa05

Posted by Goldi0218

Posted by Theresa05

I hope you had a rude comment in response..

if the diner has disease, why is SHE there!



Im armed for the next time, but her poorly applied pimento red lipstick scared me which was why I kept my cool.



I think I love you!Chat Icon



There is only one person I know who ROCKS the red lipstick and that is LIF's very own Client Services Representative and BEDAZZLING Guru - KIM!!!!

Posted 9/19/08 10:08 AM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Posted by MeeshkaMich

Posted by Goldi0218

We may very well have been the youngest family in there as it was on the tail end of the timing of an early bird special and the snowbirds haven't migrated to Florida for the winter yet. Good grief, all of the yenta's were all up in my biznis!!! One actually said "Did you just come from the hospital?" I wanted to say "Yeah, do you mind, checking my scar and taking out my foley? I'd appreciate that!!!"



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People just need to mind their business.



If only I had the ballz to say what I felt. Perhaps perpetuating the negative energy would not have been good for Abby. I always try to stay calm when I am holding her.

Posted 9/19/08 10:10 AM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Leslie - Did you forget Abby's protective bubble at home AGAIN??? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/19/08 10:13 AM
 

Shelly
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Well Jordana went to a pizza place at 2 weeks old, and the Sushi Samba a 2 1/2. My child has never had more than a cold in her 2 1/2 years.

To this day, we know we can take her to any restaurant, awake or asleep, and usually she is fine (unless its past her bedtime).

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Posted 9/19/08 10:17 AM
 

DancinBarefoot
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

DD was 3 weeks old on Christmas Day 2007. We did NOT stay home. CPS hasn't shown up, so I wouldn't worry too much.


And don't people just suck???

Posted 9/19/08 10:27 AM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Posted by DancinBarefoot

DD was 3 weeks old on Christmas Day 2007. We did NOT stay home. CPS hasn't shown up, so I wouldn't worry too much.


And don't people just suck???



Ah yes, I am a mandated reporter myself.

Posted 9/19/08 10:31 AM
 

FrankiesGirl107
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

"BAD" MOMS UNITE!!! Chat Icon

DD was at the diner at 3 weeks as well!!!

ETA - for the record, DD is now (usually) VERY good in restaurants, because she's been going to them since 3 weeks!!

Message edited 9/19/2008 11:07:38 AM.

Posted 9/19/08 10:32 AM
 

cluprncs3
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

We had our son out about that age too...AND it was in Jan/Feb. People need to mind their business.

Message edited 9/19/2008 11:28:19 AM.

Posted 9/19/08 11:03 AM
 

jennyb
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Us too. We took her out and about and she's just fine ]Chat Icon
People should just mind their own business!!!!!


Posted by shamrock124

I had both my kids out and about with in a week of being home. It was the better option to a mommy with cabin fever!

Posted 9/19/08 11:04 AM
 

Reese1106
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

We had Ben with us at the supermarket when he was 2 wks old. I don't remember when we took him to a restaurant but I'm thinking it was probably around 4 wks. We never went anywhere at peak times but thats' because DH and I hate crowds. As soon as I could drive, I took him to the mall in the early AM and out for walks. We didn't have him around large groups of people until he was 12 wks old but that was just our decision. I think to each his/her own. Do what you want, smile at the silly comments and just be happy. Chat Icon

Posted 9/19/08 11:30 AM
 

Bklyngrl
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Posted by Goldi0218

Posted by Superkat

My two year anniversary was 6 days after Brandon was born. We celebrated by having steaks at Outback. We brought him with us and he slept the entire time. Chat Icon



But did you have the Bloomin Onion?



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon honestly people need to mind their business.

Posted 9/19/08 11:38 AM
 

eroxgirl
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

People are the WORST!

I had DD outside at 3 weeks and in restaurants by 4 weeks, because I would have been locked in a loony bin if I stayed inside one more day.

AND it just so happens that DD's mood was better on days that she got out of the house. Was it just a coincidence? Maybe, but that 'coincidence' happens pretty consistently in my house. Chat Icon

Posted 9/19/08 11:39 AM
 

Mrs. Patticakes
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

People should just shut their traps! Chat Icon

Posted 9/19/08 12:09 PM
 

sami
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

people need need to keep their big fat pie hole's shut! Mind your own business!!!!

Posted 9/19/08 12:16 PM
 

FelAndJon
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Re: A Diner? At three weeks?

Wow, I wonder what she would have said to me when I was at Applebee's (in NJ Chat Icon ) yesterday with my mom, 2 yo and 5 week old baby and NURSED him at the table too (the 5 week old Chat Icon ) Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/19/08 4:28 PM
 
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